Any ladies that may read this thread....

feel free to chime on in with what I am about to say. If I am wrong, let me know.

I had a wonderful discussion with a 21 year old woman the other day. It started with a statement by her asking "Why are guys so obsessed with sex?"

I brought up the fact that it is not only guys, but women can enjoy the attention and the sensations of sex, if it is done right

I believe that several factors come in to play with a woman
1 women are more cerebral...that is to say..sex is more pleasant if they are comfortable with the person they are with and the circumstances

men are more physical..that is to say they just want it and that is that

2 some women, especially younger women, do not feel the rush of an orgasm for the first time until they are in their twenty's and some guys , especially the younger ones, do not take the time and energy to put in the work needed to fulfill a woman's needs

Then she told me that she did not enjoy sex as much as she should and felt that there was something wrong with her. Why tell me? She could not talk to her parents about it and she is too embarrassed to talk to her friends.

So I asked about her physical make up explaining everyone is different but no one is better than anyone else.

with an embarrassed smile she told me that everything is normal