Question 16
Initially thought I'd say getting the blowjobs but the more I thought I'll say giving oral to the wife. She loves it when I go down on her. She goes wild when she sits on my face, almost smothering me. What a way to go!

Answer 16:
 

Question 16: Re Oral sex. Assume going forward you can only do one of the following: perform oral sex on your significant other or receive oral sex from your significant other. Which do you choose?

Easy for me since my wife doesn't like to receive but she loves to give...
I want her blow job! :)

At the Y
 

Question 16: Re Oral sex. Assume going forward you can only do one of the following: perform oral sex on your significant other or receive oral sex from your significant other. Which do you choose?

Tough. We both enjoy giving and receiving.

I will perform on her. She really cums hard from being eaten, especially after sex (creampie). I love everything about it, the sight, smell, taste, how it feels, and how she reacts.

Question 17
 

Question 17:

Your wife/gf admits to you that she wants to try BDSM.

Would you rather have her want to be the Dom or the Sub?

My answer: my wife is a bit of a sub already. I would rather she be the sub.

Hmm
 

My answer: My wife is also a little submissive. We lightly play. She likes being tied up and spanked.

I would definitely rather her be the sub, and I believe my lovely bride feels the same.

Q 17
 

No doubt in my mind on this one. My wife would be the sub.

We have already crossed this bridge and she loves being bound, blindfolded, and spanked.

We have a special overnight bag with all kinds of toys in it for when we travel.

My next fantasy fulfillment is to have her tied and blindfolded, then invite a stranger in to use her.

Like the previous answers I’d like my wife to be the sub. She too likes an occasional spanking. We’ve also done the blindfold and have tied her up a few times.

Follow up to 17
 

She is not into real choking but she does like my hand on her throat sometimes while we are fucking. Again, not actually choking but a light pressure.

My answer: As all others have stated above, wife is a light to medium sub already.
So tied up, spanked, blindfold, light to medium choking, hair pulling, face pushing into the bed, light throwing/pushing etc are all big turn ons for her. I want to learn Shibari rope play this year and tie up her torso and breasts, let her get dressed with clothes that don't show it off and then we go out for dinner. I think it will massively turn her on.

It’s what she likes
 

Question 17:

Your wife/gf admits to you that she wants to try BDSM.

Would you rather have her want to be the Dom or the Sub?

As much as I might like to see her be the dom, she is a bit of a sub, so I would rather that. Like a few others here, we’ve played with blindfolds and restraints. Which gives me whole different ideas....