Years ago, on a Labor Day weekend, my wife and I flew into Seattle and first visited the AAA office to get maps and a tourbook. While there, we asked the agent if there were any places where we could be naked. She told us to try Doe Bay on Orcas Island. A few hours later we were taking a Ferry Boat to Orcas and checked in to Doe Bay. Not a nudist resort as such, but we spent the whole 3 days nude and nobody bothered us. Dressed only for meals.

Hot! I love the idea of being ogled!

Aren’t most men toting an erection with all the babes around?!

My wife says she's not interested but if I ever ask something when we get home like "was that guy with the hat bigger than me?", she'll say something like "maybe a bit longer but you have more girth".

So my wife is definitely looking at everything.

Nope.

Most women are very observant and will be making mental notes on both men and women at the resort. In fact she’s probably more likely to make a comment about a feature on another woman’s body vs a man. And why not — women are way more interesting anyways.

hubbys birthday prezzie
 

im 32 yo and my hubby has always said he wanted me to show a little at the beach. i have never been topless before but i said if he really wanted me to i would on his birthday in Fuertaventura,

I’ll have to walk past slowly then 😂

My wife and I went to a nude resort for the first time two weeks ago. She commented on a few of the other guys afterwards saying she was surprised how small most men were.

Happy Birthday hubby!

My wife also looks at everyone; but will pay closer attention to women. But that's because she's being comparative. "That woman has bigger tits than mine, but mine are real and firmer", "she's got a great ass, I wish mine was as firm", etc...
That's the reason she's a smoothie now. She was looking at other women and felt that the bald look was more esthetic than her light trim.

Cock size
 

I get that too, but a lot of them are totally average rather than small.

I think she, like a lot of women and men, get their 'average' from things like Naked Attraction, where they tend to be above average, or porn where they are clearly well above average. And a lot of small guys would be put off the nude beach or spa, so the average ones are the ones that look small. Even in single sex environments like changing rooms a lot more guys cover up now and the ones that don't are often the ones that are more confident about their size.

And that just feeds a cycle where people only see larger cocks so assume their average one is small.

So the solution is to educate our wives and not be afraid to show what we've got!