Sorry there are so many identifiers in that picture that I could not possibly censor it enough and I do not want to be identified. Anyone that has been to our ranch would recognize it. A lot of people in our area know her horse. Our last name is tooled into the saddle... Her name is also tooled into her belt though you cannot really make it out in the picture. My brand is visible in a few places...

Ya, I struggle with this one, too--grown women who are more like "girls" in a lot of ways. But they can't help it, so I feel badly feeling this way, but, ya, I totally get what you are saying.

What doesn't do it for me?
 

This entire thread.

I don't know why anyone would spend the time to emphasize negativity, and be judgmental. This site used to spend a lot of effort to guide comments to be positive and welcoming only, but has mostly dropped that over time.

Some women are old, fat, not conventionally attractive, whatever - if they pose for a picture, that's a gift, and I hate it when people talk trash or try to discourage others posting whatever they like.

Don't like it? Just move on and keep your mouth shut.

For every single item listed in this thread, there's someone who likes it more than you hate it, and what good does it to do take sides?

I'm not a triggered snowflake, I just come here for happy, positive nudity and stories. Lots of places to spend time if you want to dump on what others like.

Just my perspective, and worth no more (or less) than anyone else's. Feel free to ignore. In fact, please do :)

I agree with you. Focus on beautiful woman and the stories that go with them

I take your point...
 

What doesn't do it for me?
This entire thread.

Fair point, and I generally agree although I have already contributed to this thread.

Maybe though this thread is a bit of a safety valve where people can just express opinions in general terms without generating conflict.
e.g. I disagree with people who view a thread titled 'fat girls', then making comments like 'gross'.

I think that if people talk in general terms as opposed to commenting on specific threads it stays within the ethos of OCC.

Peace to all

Curious...why are you so judgmental about people being "judgmental"?

I think it is the nature of this thread and the title. Quite negative, all in all. That is why I have posted no opinion on it.

Guys that eat cream pies... My friend was telling me that if her husband finishes before her, he'll go down on her... It's great that he's taking care of her to, but nut else where. Like the old saying goes, don't shit were you eat?

Au contraire, the thread is about what doesn't turn one on--which is always a matter of personal taste. True, some have stated their preferences in judgmental terms, but many have not. A statement of personal taste in line with the OP would be something like, "Blondes just don't turn me on." Nothing judgmental in that statement. It's just a statement of what doesn't arouse one. A judgmental statement of preference would be something like, "Blondes are too fucking stupid to turn me on." Now THAT is judgmental.

Ya, I was wondering that, too. This isn't a negative thread at all; it's just simply about what doesn't turn someone on. It's no more negative than what DOES turn someone on. I personally have found this thread quite lovely to read. It reminds me that I am not alone in not enjoying things that "most" people often expect men to enjoy.

I have a feeling this "not a snowflake", who is acting EXACTLY like a snowflake, is offended and triggered that something they really, really enjoy is coming up as a non-turn-on regularly, perhaps.

There are lots of threads here that I don't enjoy reading, so I just skip them. To each their own and all that.

I find make up of any kind except eyeliner to be a light turnoff. Not a dealbreaker or cockblocker kinda thing but I prefer women with a natural look. Bold finger or toe nail polish as well, I just prefer not to see it.

I like women's feet but for some reason only from behind or underneath. In porn I like it when you see the soles of a woman's bare feet when she is on all fours or on her stomach or giving head, but I don't really like any other attention to her toenails or foot worship, etc. Got no idea why, but whatever :confused:

Another thing I dislike - hairy armpits!

I want to cast my vote for facials. God bless you if that's your thing but it does nothing for me and it seems that a high percentage of porn ends with the obligatory facial these days. I can't imagine that there are a significant amount of women who can honestly say they enjoy that. Plus, as I said, its boring and predictable.

That being said, we've all been with women who are scared of cum. Talk about a turn off. They make you cum on a towel or anywhere other than on or in them. I don't care how hot they are or how sweet the pudding, I can't go back for seconds of that.

I agree. I was about to give my 2 cents here as well:
We are all different, we have different preferences, we like to see different women, different sexual positions.

It's up to anybody who sees/watches porn what they want or don't want to see: if you don't like what you see then simply move on.

Having said that: "most" things work for me, and I'm not gonna hate on people who DO like one of the following things that don't really work for me:
- girl-on-girl in porn, sure, okay to see, but doesn't float my boat
- "dirty" (unclean/unwashed) girls/women
- scat/pee, I simply move on

Always has been
 

I cannot stand the smell of cheap perfume, especially when it is used to excess.

There is a gal years ago that I wanted so bad, but avoided her because of her perfume. One day I decided I had to have her anyway. We met at a picnic and had played volleyball. I tolerated the odor enough to get her to agree to accompany me back to my place.

When we got there I insisted we take a shower together. Once the odor was washed away I was one happy guy. I ended up telling her I was allergic to some perfumes so we dated a while and she refrained from wearing it.

upskirts
 

upskirts WITH panties. who cares. Let me see that pussy.

Mature and larger ladies with shaved pussies, tattoos or piercings are my main turn-offs.

I really like natural older ladies with curves, pubic hair and a general lived-in look.

Skinny young girls are just all "standard" to me, like seeing a naked mannequin in a clothes shop. I think older ladies' bodies have much more character.

Feet... I like women to have feet but have no need to ever see them. Legs, though are a whole different story, love legs.

Tattoos, nipple piercings, hard fake breasts

I'm the same way, a natural look is turn on and highly face painted is a turn off. Neon colored nail polish turns me off. I love a nice ass, Boobs are "take or leave it" with me.

Scat and dirty smelly ass and/or pussy

I don't get it either. I'd much rather come in her pussy or her mouth.

Guns.

I'm a fan of boudoir sets and nothing ruins one as quickly for me as seeing guns being involved.

I know I'm not an American but, come on, why? Why bring a deadly weapon into a boudoir set? No-one anywhere else in the world is posing naked with knives...

I think it's pretty ironic that people walk into a thread with such an obvious theme and then were somehow surprised or offended by it.

I think the most on-point mentions were ones that you find frequently in porn and in stories that are supposed to be huge or common turn ons and yet the person posting in this thread finds them to be a turnoff.

I like giving facials, and the first time that I gave one, the other person requested it in the heat of the moment. It was a pretty heady, spontaneous (and explosive) moment. But I totally get that a lot of people don't like them and it doesn't bother me as long as they don't try to define for me why me and a partner might be into it.

Things I don't like that are common themes in porn or even in photos:

1. Really obvious implants
2. Forcible fellatio that makes the other person gag, or eye's water, or look uncomfortable
3. Spitting on anything. Even as lube
4. Butt plugs - totally mystified by that one
5. Insulting or calling the other person names during sex
6. Any sex that looks mechanical or cold

I realize that both participants might really be into the above activities, but they just don't do anything for me. I wonder if Tinder or Craigslist (or whatever) leave a section for stuff like this? It would seem to help potential partners align with each other sexually.

cheerleaders and school skirts.
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full grown women are way sexier than girls

nude women smoking or holding a cigarette

Turn offs
 

Fishnets...not sure why....maybe I just find them to be a bit trashy, I prefer normal stockings and a classier look I guess, and they don't actually feel good to touch!

My wife made a comment one time that she thought the ROTC guys in uniforms were hot when she was in college so I thought I would do something different and put on some old BDU's (camo army uniform), a kevlar vest, kevlar helmet, and combat boots. I put on a web set with a combat knife, ammo pouches, a holster and pistol, canteens, and a small butt pack. I had one of my AR-15's as well. For the record both weapons were unloaded which is rare on my property where I keep most of my modern weapons loaded all the time.

She was not amused and it killed any chance of a good time that night. She said that the uniform would have been good but the guns killed it for her. On the flip side, I find it super hot when she is carrying a weapon. That said I do not find the posed pictures of a woman with a gun that you can tell by the way she is holding it clearly does not know how to handle it attractive in the least. For me to find it hot, it has to be a real woman that actually uses the weapon and seeing it in her natural environment (such as my wife out riding fences or on the firing range with her six shooter or old lever action) is hotter than a nude photo shoot that is posed.

Thats what this thread is all about. Things that many men like but turn you off and this is a good one. I happen to find this very sexy and I equate it to this:
Men who love cars often like to see sexy women d****d all over them in photos. Men who love motorcycles enjoy seeing nude women posing with or sitting astride them. I happen to like my guns and own quite a few so what could be better than seeing two of my favorite things in one photo?
I do agree with chuckfinley however...she needs to be using proper handling techniques, or it's a go-to for me.

I think the reason is that a lot of 'old time' photos often have the man with his hunting rifle. From the wild west days, men were often armed in their photos. Some women too.

I think for this reason they are often used as props in todays 'old west' types of photos, and that has just trickled down into modern photos.

I don't particularly like the modern guns being used as props. It just doesn't look sexy to me.

What doesn't do it for me?
 

What doesn't do it for me?

The endless black dicks are bigger shite to be honest. Men of all nationality have cocks, some are small, most are medium, and some are larger than average. To selectively choose pics to try and say black men have bigger cocks is bull.

It's more to do with the porn industry wanting to give better colour contrast to show a cock enetering a pussy, perhaps? The same porn industry that started having women shave their pussies so that guys could see all the fleshy detauil when they have a wank

This is my #1 "doesn't do it for me" thing. No offense to anyone who smokes, but it's an instant turnoff for me.

It is funny. I agree with you on the cigarettes. I also find any kind of drugs a turn off (joint to crack you name it).

I smoke a pipe from time to time. Not every day or even every week. I mostly do it when I am camping (at night by the fire mostly), doing wood working in the shop, or hanging out with my best friend from high school (he smokes a cigar and me my pipe). My shop has a faint lingering odor of pipe tobacco. My wife always said she liked it. One time a few years ago on one of our out of state ranches we had tended to the horses and were bedded down under the stars by our camp fire talking and looking at night sky. I got up to take a piss and left my pipe sitting on my saddle which I use for a pillow usually. When I came back I saw she had picked up the pipe and was smoking it. I found the sight kind of hot for some reason I can't explain. I made her a pipe of her own and occasionally she smokes it. If it was any other form of smoking I would be repulsed. Maybe I am desensitized to the pipe because I grew up around my great grandfather, grandfather, and father smoking them.

All said, it is not something I would seek out in porn, I just find it attractive occasionally with my wife.

cunning linguist
 

Videos that include a guy licking a woman's pussy.

I can watch just about every other aspect of a porn video but when they cut to the guy eating a woman, it just grinds things to a halt. Not sure if it's because in porn they try to make it so visual that it just looks ridiculous or or if guys are just horrible at it or just look horrible doing it. Don't know. Even if the woman is moaning, grinding, grabbing her breasts and doing all the hot erotic stuff, it just doesn't fly.

Really not into any abuse or bdsm at all.
Hairy pussies
Spitting
That new nonsense where the girl acts like some kind of crazed cock maniac. Just too phoney.
Evil Empire movies
Gagging and deepthroating
Calling women wh*r*s and sl*ts, particularly amateur nudes. Be respectful pls they are people.
Anal prolapse stuff. Yuk.

Think about what it's like for black dudes with a small todge! That's gotta be tough to constantly disappoint women!! And even if the women doesn't say it, there's gonna that thought in the back of the mind of both of them. The burden of expectation can be brutal.

We enjoy watching porn - I always thought my wife liked watching a woman ride a cock - until recently - we were watching a prn movie with Idia summer - I was eating my wife as the guy started eating - my wife has a massive orgasm - told me she likes to see what she is feeling

Not me
 

I will take the contra view. I hate bare, waxed women. It looks weird and tells me that the girl is overly obsessed, insecure, and more than likely a sl*t who pulls her pants down to strangers quite often. I understand not liking unkempt hair spreading down towards thighs but nice, adult female bush is ideal for me. I had an ex back in 1999 who was pretty girl, somewhat hippie and could be very hairy if she let it grow. When we were hooking up, she trimmed it back with scissors and some razor on sides but still had a light dark triangle bush. Waxing was not completely mainstream thankfully. Fine by me but I never requested it. We broke up but still hooked up every so often when drunk. The best were the unexpected hookups when she did not plan on it. Full on hairy muff. It was great bc it was spontaneous and told me she was probably not screwing a bunch of other guys. I loved pulling panties off in mid-90s. It was like a surprise - dark haired beauties with big jet black muff, bottle blondes with jet black muff, lighter brunettes with brown hair, plus the elusive true blonde bush and real red bush. Sure, there were a few crazy, monster bushes that were too much to deal with. I remember this Israeli girl back in 1996 who worked in law enforcement. She was friends with my buddy's gf. We were drunk and it was dark in my room and I pulled those undies off but she warned me about her hair. I can only recall heading down there and the hairs hit my nose several inches before my tongue reached promised land. It was a huge black triangle and she felt totally uncomfortable with oral sex. We passed out. She was not my type and went out once sober but she knew I was not into her. I never saw it in the light but that was insane.

Turnoffs -bare, tattoos, piercings

Schoolgirl outfits, just seems wrong!

Giving a woman a facial when she does not enjoy it. I am lucky, my wife all most cums when I do it. It seems like torture when I see a girl getting one when she does not want it. Make the guy seem like a real douchebag!