I really wish I'd kept a diary so to speak of all my shenanigans. It's a great thing to do to keep that list.

I used to have a list along with a bag of bra tags. Both went missing. I’m thinking an ex found and got rid of them. I figure the number has to be in the 200-225 range. That includes massage girls :) Best in a day was 3. One was just after midnight, the next was after going to the beach in the afternoon and the last was at her house before midnight. That was when I was in my early 20s. Good times!

Just one…

I recently crossed the milestone of 100 different women although I am still about 30-40 behind the number of guys that have been with my wife.

I've had 11, 6 them 3 ways. much higher if I counted only BJ's.

Not nearly enough!

Only including the women whom I've penetrated either vaginally or anally, I would put the number at 80.

If you start including the women I've either given oral to or received blowjobs from the number is at triple digits, when you get into other fetishes the number goes higher.

My peak year was age 23 when I had fully penetrative sex with at least 20 women that year. I haven't gotten close to that since.

My sex life tends to have peaks and valleys. There will be times that I'm content in a relationship having sex with one woman. I've had open relationships in which me and my partner were both having sex with other people.

Then there will be other times that I want multiple women of different ages, sizes, and races. Between 2017 and 2019 I had started hooking up with older women and was starting to rack some numbers again but the pandemic in 2020 slowed that down.

As of 2021, I have a three-woman rotation that consists of a 54 year old Black woman, 63 year old White woman and a 68 year old Black woman. This situation is based around sex and respect, all three of these women are free to do whatever they want just keep the lines of communication open.

Just my wife
 

Just one... my wife. And rather infrequent at that, unfortunately. I'm impressed by the exploits of some of the lads here.

At best count I've been with 45-50 different women going all the way back to my very first experience. Even though my number is fairly low compared to most on here, I haven't been with anyone other than my wife and we've been married 20+ years. This is an interesting thread since I've often wondered since many of my friends dont seem to have been as active now or in their younger years.

one...

Thats cool too! :)

it was a long time ago... just two friends exploring.

me
 

I've counted just before I got married @ 108,,,, since marriage its up to 177.....

I counted before marriage to see how I did in singlehood.... after that the number was stuck in my head and everyone I was w/ since I attached a number too... that how I know.

Wife was 108.

Number
 

24 total. 16 before marriage. The rest after divorce.

2... :p

You’ve been with 69 different women during your marriage?!

How are you finding all of these women to sleep with?

Does your wife know?

3 including my wife

8
 

8. One before my wife. Then her. The rest after we got married. She knows about them all and was there during most

45 for me. This was between when I turned 18 in 1976 and when I met my current wife in 1985. 2 were just blowjobs.

drac
 

Read our true storys on te, SHARE your wife thread .....here

One... :(

I can think of 14 that I have had a relationship with but 3 of those came to me as “ oh ya, so and so” while counting.
So there may be a couple i don’t remember off hand. Sprinkle in a few one nighters and I probably land around 18…

Not bad if you account for a 25 year marriage and two 10 year relationships - that take me out of play for 45 years.

Had sex with 11. I am bi, but mainly into men.

Not like some, huh?
 

Two. One, I thought I was going to marry, and the other, I did marry.

Lost count after 30 but it's somewhere between 50 and 70.

If I had taken every opportunity I missed (too young/naive to realise, being too fussy or I messed up & lost their interest) it would've been way over 100, perhaps even 200. Kicking myself now for a lot of these.

Number of Women
 

1st serious GF who took my cherry.
Female friends sister (one night stand)
School friend who was a FWB.
2nd GF
3rd GF (now wife)
Work supplier (one night stand)
Naturist masseuse (booked a naturist massage, turned up, family home, decent massage, conversations about life, I said that the lady had a very understanding husband, she explained that they were swingers, conversation progressed and I mentioned - truthfully - that I hadn’t had sex for 3 years, massage continued and towards the end she asked if I wanted to put a condom on……. boom)

8 (2 of which were serious longer term)

28 in 46 years if I've counted correctly! It get's harder to remember as I get older (wish other things worked like that!).

That doesn't count those which were only blowjobs and other 'fumbles'. Add at least three more women (and two more years) if we include those...!

I’m sure I’m the odd one out. At 61, I’ve only had sex with three women and was married to them all. I’ve never even seen another girl naked IRL except them.

You’re not alone. Been in three consecutive relationships pretty well continuously since I was a teenager.

Quality not quantity!

Anyway, it’s possible some guys might be fibbing a bit. 😉


I’d recommend going to a Spencer Tunick event. You’d see more naked women of every shape and size in a couple of hours than most men see in a lifetime. 🤣

Hey, Winston! I was just stating a fact, not complaining. My third is a winner so I'm good! That said, if she wanted to go look at naked women, I wouldn't say No! :D

I think ‘winner’ is under-playing things. She is one VERY beautiful lady!

If we are counting only women with whom we've had sex, and if I'm not forgetting anyone, then my number is 5.

The fifth is (still) my current better half.

Around 50.

Could be high 40s or early 50s. The vast majority of which were in a 5 year period when I played in a rock band on the local circuit, and chicks were pretty much 'on tap'. They were pretty much all one-night stands, often knee-tremblers in an alley behind whatever bar we were playing in, in the band's van and so on. Hence the uncertainty over the number, I wasn't keeping count.

Back then, chicks weren't always putting out, so there were a lot of handjobs, blow jobs and general 'fooling around' over and above that number. Often, the need to get back home and back to the day job the following morning meant that potential or likely additions to the number were curtailed by a van leaving a bar at 1-2 am and travelling 5 hours. The luxury of being able to woo a girl for another 30 minutes to end up having sex simply wasn't there.

A case of sex or the pay check a lot of the time. And another couple of notches on the bedpost weren't worth a period of unemployment.

Wasn't being critical, just saying I have three, too. Sorry that I didn't put that over clearly.

Judging by the photo, you're a fortunate man.

This. My notch count wouldn't been anywhere near as high if I wasn't 'the cute drummer' in a couple of popular local rock bands. Chicks were definitely 'on tap' for me between 2004-2014 or so & I was crushing it.

I played the bass.


For all of that 'chicks only want the singer or the guitarists' thing, those of us in the rhythm section did pretty well out of it too, I have to say. Although the singer and guitarist were doing maybe even better.

Make a lot of noise in a band, add in the alcohol we'd all been consuming all evening and there was plenty of pussy on tap for everyone. Our manager (female) disapproved. I'm pretty sure what she saw back then traumatised her for life :D


I feel sorry for those pale specimens in touch with their feminine side in the deadly-serious 'woke' bands of today. You're up there on stage, playing songs that are all about the gender-bending experience of the non-specific gendered female lead singer, and couldn't even get laid on a chicken farm. Back in the 80s and 90s 99% of us knew we weren't gonna make it in the music biz, so maybe it was best to get what you wanted from the experience - as much pussy as possible.

I am about 45 y.o and until now about 20 ... 4 of them was virgins.. I have never pay for sex and I didn't had until now, one night stand ..All of the relationships i had, was from 1 month to 10 years length

Just turned 70 and my number is over 150 but less than 200. I put them into 3 categories ... about a dozen before meeting my wife. Another 30 or so during the 5 years that my wife and I were active swingers. The remainder, I paid for. In my 50's, I was an expat in Frankfurt, Germany so it wasn't uncommon to drop in on one of the working girls near the train station or hit one of the famous FKK brothels on the weekends. My travels took me to other cities such as Amsterdam, London, Hamburg, Brussels, Vienna... all with decent red light districts. My favorites were parties in London where you can join a 2 hour sex party with 5 to 7 women. At those parties, you could run into a minor porn star escorting for pocket change.

How?
 

What’s your secret?