a story my wife told me
she had a bf when she was 20 and first date they were in his car, he started to touch her and soon they went to fuck. She blowed him a bit before to let him enter in her pussy and she told me he was so hard and excited that he came when his cock touched her pussy, he could not penetrate her. He was so sad (even because he had huge loads of sperm) but the second time, some days later, he could control himself and during this relationship (some months) sex for her was amazing - and I think for him too, knowing my wife

This was not my situation, but it was a problem for my boss. He was having an affair with a receptionist in the office. He passed away, and she met me for lunch.

She told me that she liked to suck cock, and especially enjoyed swallowing. She told me as soon as the tip of his large cock got past her lips (that was all she could get in her mouth), he would blow his load, which she eagerly swallowed, bet she longed for more time to suck it.

First
 

Many, many times to my dismay.

The first time was with a girl I was sleeping with and sort of dating. We fooled around one night (mostly fondling and light oral) and she wanted to show me something special. I was on my back at the moment and she was straddling me. I could feel her heat through our underwear. Without expectation, she pulled the band of my boxers over the top of my erect penis and started to slide the head inside her extremely hot and wet vagina. I stopped breathing the minute she did that. I had never felt anything so electric. I had had sex before, but this was the first time I was completely naked inside a girl’s pussy. I told her we had to stop or I was going to explode. She stroked me very slowly with just the tip of my penis inside of her and then she got up.

Being young and stupid, we evolved from condoms to broken condoms to the skeet method. I knew she liked feeling me unsheathed as much as I liked feeling her, but I had a lot of anxiety about our relationship and about my attractiveness as a person, so I was almost always tense with her. This meant many, many incidents where I would be inside of her for about a minute, two at the most, and suddenly have to pull out and shoot my load on her. There was never any followup. I felt immensely disappointed in myself as a man. Eventually, this lead to the breakup (in retrospect, thank God).

It was the first time I ever got to feel a pussy completely with my dick.

Hit and Run
 

The absolute worst case of premature ejaculation happened repeatedly with the woman I have loved more than anybody.

She was the same age as me. We were in our late 20s. Slim. Fit. Taut. She had a bit of a belly on her, but I didn’t mind, because I liked bellies. Smooth, round bellies welcoming you in, to touch, to watch, to feel inside. Nadia was by no means fat, but at the time she happened to carry a little extra layer on her body. This was all fine by me, considering she was my first really serious girlfriend as well as the first woman I truly loved.

We had sex dozens if not hundreds of times with condoms before we decided to move on to more serious protection. From then on, for the first time in my life, a woman wanted me to cum inside her vagina without a barrier, naked, nothing between us. We never really talked about it like that, but it was a special step for me. For her, I don’t really know for sure.

The first night was not gentlemanly on my part, I will admit. We were making out on her futon and in not too long had proceeded to pantsless. We both knew she was now protected but we hadn’t talked about it. The only thing I could think about was being welcomed to cum inside a vagina for the first time, except I hadn’t exactly gotten a verbal invitation. No matter, I plunged myself into her pussy without thinking. I felt her inner essence for the first time, with nothing between us.

I knew how warm and wet she would get, but never before had I known the soft enveloping feeling as her pussy swallowed me. It was like our nerves had fused and were shooting blasts of energy through our bodies. I wanted to give her all of me at the instant.

Much to my dismay, I did. After about 90 secs., I erupted inside her. I wish I could tell you it was the best orgasm ever but it really wasn’t due to the guilt and the shame. I wanted to stop, to hold back so we could both enjoy it, but I didn't. It didn’t feel like honoring her or honoring myself when giving my body to a lover, especially when she mentioned she wasn't expecting me to let loose at the time (hurts twice as much when told after). I wanted to cum but after I wanted to make her cum like I had in the past. Instead, the first time I gave her my seed was when neither of us felt it in a way which would be significant to us. It was a hit and run.

Virginity
 

I forgot to mention when I lost my virginity, of course. Seriously, I doubt even a fifth of men make it past the 2 minute mark of feeling exquisite pleasure envelop your penis for the first time.

Kristin was a freckled red-headed girl who happened to be my best friend. We also dated briefly although that largely was a bad idea. We did, however, fool around quite a bit. The second time I saw her naked we 69ed on my parents’ bed. She blew me several times but the strange part is I never finished. Not once. It wasn’t for lack of trying! She would work on my dick but I would feel strong pangs of anxiety at the prospect of shooting in her mouth. Oh my God, what am I supposed to do with my penis in a girl’s mouth. How dumb is that in retrospect, seriously. The skills on my part at the time were also sadly lacking so she never finished for me either.

I have to confess, and I’m sorry for all the female OCC readers ahead of time, the first time I saw, and smelled, and tasted, Kristin’s pussy, I was appalled. A bush would be one thing but Kristin had a lot more hair than I was prepared to encounter. It made her vagina look more like a thorn bush waiting to ensnare my penis as if in a bear trap. I soldiered on fighting Charlie in the bush when I was going down on her but I could not get over what is this awful sour flavor on my tongue and why do you smell like a wet dog? Most of that was naivete and ignorance, looking back, because I met her ten years later and she looked, mmm, so fine. I went from a stupid no oral rule to wanting to dive face first into the pussy.

I’m hanging out with her at a mutual friends house consuming various illicit substances. At the time, I was actually more interested in Kristen’s friend Bethany who had the biggest set of perfectly round gorgeous tits I had ever laid eyes on. Instead, Kristen ends up alone with me on her friend’s bed and we start fooling around. She doesn’t even have her clothes off and I’ve barely even made my way under her shirt when she reaches over to the bedside table. And pulls out a condom.

Like we all do on momentous occasions, I shrugged my shoulders and muttered “OK”, as if I were being asked to complete a chore. I was attracted to Kristen but I didn’t really want to give her my virginity, especially since all my attraction that evening had been focused on Bethany’s exquisite features instead of the more homely but cute Kristen, who happened to have my cock in her hand. When a girl has your essence in hand, she has basically made the decision for you.

She helped me with the condom and like a deer in headlights I was confronted for the first time with entering a woman. She gently and slowly guided me into position and I entered her. I had never felt warmth and electricity surround my cock like this before. It didn’t escape the attention of my penis since after a few strokes I started to blow my load into the condom. I tried to hold back but I couldn’t, and because it wasn’t conscious, I didn’t even feel anything either other than the shock and spasms of my body.

After sheepishly trying to pretend like I could go on, things went soft and you would figure that was the end of it. Nope! She is all set for round two and feverishly trying to wrap a condom around my dick which is shrinking at an alarming pace. God love her, she tried and tried to bring me back in the game. She wanted it and she wanted it now, but ol’ saltpeter had apparently gotten to the fruit of my loins, limp as a wet noodle. I sat there feeling helpless and ashamed, too guilt-ridden to appreciate I was in a bed with a half naked girl who WANTED me, without once thinking about “Hey, how about start her fire instead and then work your way into it” which is what any Goddamn rational adult would think. Good rule of thumb when you are losing the heat of the moment: focus on her.

We stayed friends after and I did finally end up giving her my seed when she gave me an epic blowjob. That, however, is a story for another day.

Been there and done that
 

One of the most memorial time of popping too soon was when I was dating my wife at the time. She invited me to stay over with her at her apartment. After cooking me dinner we were petting in the living room before moving to her bedroom for more.

Our clothes were loosened somewhat and hands were everywhere. She excused herself to go into the bathroom to 'get ready'. I stripped off to my underwear and was waiting for her in her bed. Her fragrance and scent were all over the bed. When she came back out, she was completely naked. The bathroom light was still on when she posed at the doorway to give me a good look.

I was already at the edge with all of the heavy petting. So when she did that I popped right there and then. Lucily I still had my underwear on so I didn't make a mess in the bed before we started. I hop out of the bed to the bathroom to 'get ready' too, and cleaned up the mess without her knowing.

Actually popping early was a blessing because that took the edge off for me. I came back out and took care of her at a leisurely pace. We had a great time the first time in her bed. Only years later after we were married I told her what happened in her bed that first time. So coming too early may have some benefits too.

Great Expectations
 

I remember one night where I was out with my ex at a concert with a couple of friends. We were enjoying ourselves and then touching each other and then openly flirting and you know what happens. We get back to her place (formerly our place), her friends go home, and I settle in to ‘sleep’ in what was our bed, now her’s. At this point, we are allegedly friends and not planning on getting back together. But friends can still fuck, right? Yeah….

For bedroom wear, she chose this black satin nightie thing I always told her I liked. I was in my boxers and a T. She crawls under the covers, gets in her groove on her side, and slowly starts to fall asleep. I’m laying there staring at the ceiling trying to pick my time to move over to her. Eventually, I just start to snuggle up to her with my hand around her tummy. She responds by nuzzling up very quietly and slowly next to my body and we slowly start to grind. She feels so nice, so soft and sensual, and warm. I start to graze her skin under her nightie. Slowly running my fingers up her belly I move to her abdomen under her nightie. My hand goes up to her nipples and I squeeze and pull.

Eventually, it all becomes too much for her and she turns around swiftly, pulls up her nightie, pulls down her panties, and shoves my dick inside her. I am ashamed to admit I came the exact second she did that. Not even a single stroke. She didn’t even believe it until after a few minutes she got the news, so to speak. Excuses, excuses, but it was all so hot I couldn’t contain myself. She went to the bathroom and I laid quietly in her bed. Then we went to sleep.

Not embarrassed but - totally turned on.

Once, in the Florida keys, my wife and I were alone on a small motorboat. When we were far from shore, with no other boats around, she took her bathing suit off, leaned back and proceeded to play with her pussy. I removed my suit to release my raging hard on.

I was so turned on, and I was close to cumming without any stimulation. When she spread her legs wider, the sticky cum clung to both lips. This put me over the edge, and I had to rush to stick my cock in as I stared cumming. Some got on her lips, but most in her pussy. This caused her to let out a scream as she exploded.

We still talk about it to this day.

Had my fastest just the other day. The wife and I were fooling around and we were spooning, she was wearing these panties that have straps that crisscross across her ass. As we were layin there I asked "Are you a sl*t?" She replied "No but I am a dirty girl." As she said that she guided my cock up against her asshole and pushed back on me. I barely "got through the door before I pulled out, hoping to stop what I knew was about to happen, but to no avail. Fortunately I was able to pull off the quickest rally and was ready for round two within a couple minutes.

Bound to happen to everyone at one time or another. My first time, in deep a couple times and done - not really embarrassing. Times when my wife give me a BJ - eager to come (relatively) quickly...she takes it as a compliment and does it more when she feels successful.

However, much to my embarassment - one time on vacation in a hotel room I had the idea to hide a camera and try to record us having sex. Had tried and failed a few times that week (camera aimed wrong, she turned off the light, pulled the covers up). Finally I was sure I had it - daytime sex, I had her maneuvered onto the couch, camera aimed and rolling. I was sitting on the couch, she mounted me, camera was at her back and ass. Her favorite position and one that really gets her to orgasm and one that I can really (usually) hold for quite a while (you know, the way she can rub her click on the top of your shaft not the overly sensitive underside).

It was thrilling to think of what I'd see...her ass sliding up and down on me, her shaking in orgasm. Of course, a little too thrilling and the excitement got the better of me. Came way to quick and that was it. Not only was I done too quick, but I had perfectly captured the whole thing on tape.

That's good
 

Nothing like watching the timer on your windows program, counting the few seconds of penetration that you enjoyed......... I HATE IT.

Yesterday afternoon I was fucking my wife doggy style, getting towards the end but definitely not quite there for her yet, when my base animal brain told me to reach out and start playing with her asshole with my fingers. My upper human brain told me "No, you shouldn't, you'll cum instantly. Get back to work."

And I listened! - for a few more seconds. Then my animal brain easily overruled my human brain, and I reached out and started running my finger tips around her asshole, inserting my index finger a little.

And, well... yep, I popped about five seconds later. Pushed deep and pumped every drop of four days worth of built-up cum (she had just finished her period) as far inside her as I could. Felt amazing, but I was a little embarrassed, haha.

Premature Ejaculation
 

So, I am about turn 65. I have long lost count of the number of times I have had sex. I have even lost count of the number of women I have had. But, I do distinctly remember the five times I have cum prematurely.

1. I was an older teenager, and had been dating an Anglo Italian girl for several months. She was a great kid, the same age as me. She had been letting me, encouraging me even to, enjoy her 36D breasts. I had felt them, seen them, sucked on them, and fondled them for hours.

One evening "M" was in my bedroom, after a prolonged snogging and breast feeling session I was desperate for more. "M", I said, "There is another part of your body different from mine, I really want to see it".
"It would be OK" said "M", "but I have only just finished my period".

"Please I have never seen one, I want to see it so much". She took her knickers off and let me see that object of mystery. I touched it. Then I slipped my trousers and under shorts off and pulled "M" under the bedclothes and towards me. As the tip of my cock touched her thick straight black pubes, it gushed spasm after spasm into the wonderful bush. Probably just as well because during the night she make it clear she had no intention of letting me penetrate.

2. Fast forward nearly a quarter century. I have a mistress, my ex landlady. She has come, from Scotland, to California to spend time with me. Sexually we are great mach. We enjoyed each other's bodies and had learned each other's kinks and knew how to satisfy each other.

We were coming to the end of her stay, three nights before I took her to LAX and said goodbye. "E" had cooked me a great meal. Afterwards we drank sparkling white wine. I was lying on the bed naked. "E" was holding a glass of bubbly standing by the bed in a matching set of bra, knickers, and a garter belt, and nylons. She looked so sexy that my cock was rigid and throbbing. I slipped her knickers off and looked at her. She looked perfect in her bra and garter belt. The garter belt, its straps, and her stocking tops perfectly framed her shaven, naked quim.

We finished our drinks and she climbed onto the king size bed and knelt on all fours with her gorgeous arse in the air. I knelt behind her and pushed my straining cock down to align with her waiting, wet quim. I entered her very, very slowly savoring the sensation of each inch of her vaginal passage. Finally, I was completely inside her. The tip of my cock was close to her cervix. I feel something curving into to meet my cock on each side.

Without warning I started to ejaculate. I spasmed several times. Each time spurting a stream of cum deep inside E's glorious c*nt. Finally, I was empty. I withdrew and she lay next to me. Any hope "E" had of pleasure was lost. As in an alcohol aided, post coital state, I drifted into sleep.

3. The very next evening, the penultimate night of our time together. We were in bed having an early night. We were especially close, touching each other intimately. I was hard and E was wet. Her petite breasts pressed into my chest as I fondled her luscious bum. The I moved E onto her back. My cock was at pleasure's gate. I could feel the heat of her pussy.

"Fuck me"
"Where do you want me to fuck you?"
"In my pussy"
"Use the word you don't like"
"Call it my sex, call it my box, call it my fucking c*nt if you like, but FUCK ME".

My cock slipped in so easily her quim seemed to welcome me with its wet tightness. The pleasure was intense and I quickly gushed every drop I had.

4. A couple of years later, a good colleague, "L", had become a friend with benefits. We had had sex, successfully, several times. L was spending a weekend at her timeshare in Dana Point. She invited me to drive down from LA to join her for the Sunday. I rose early had a light breakfast and headed South.

When I arrived, L was in a night dress and invited me in with a hug. I dropped my things. L said she was going to take a shower. After a minute or so I took the hint. I went into her bedroom, undressed, and joined her in the shower. We spent a long time under that showerhead. We soaped each other up. We cleaned each other all over. As L gave my arse a though cleaning she brought me to an erection with her mouth. Then she stood. I gave her arse a good clean and rinse then made sure her anus was thoroughly cleaned with my tongue. After rinsing my mouth, I gave her quim a good rinse and set about pleasuring her pussy lips and clit with my tongue. This went on for some time and L's knees were buckling as she writhed in pleasure. She stood up. The water continued to rain down on us. I stood, slowly. I figured as my head passed her bust, that I could penetrate with the same upwards movement. Sure, enough as my face reached her, my cock reached the entrance. I slowly continued to straighten my legs, my cock slipped in all the way, and as it reached the end of its travel I had a glorious orgasm into the depths of her luscious, welcoming, quim.

5. Several weeks later, L and I had been out in Culver City. Afterwards L returned to my place. Earlier I had asked her to wear stockings for me. As she slipped her dress off I was slightly disappointed to see pantyhose. Never the less her legs and arse looked great hosed in the dark nylon.

Undressed L lay back on my bed and I caressed her. "Come in sweetie", I moved over L and found her quim wet and waiting. No sooner was my cock in all the way, and the sensation of her wet quim was too much for me. I emptied my balls into her.

The last four of these five comes are good memories for me. While I am ashamed of not satisfying my partner before coming. The orgasms stand out as among the best I have had. Maybe it was the state of complete relaxation along with the highly erotic charge.

Any professionals here? Nurses, Doctors? Would you care to comment?

Awesome contributions to this thread. I can identify with many of them and as @nectcouple stated early in the thread it happens to all of us.

When my wife wants me to eat her before we have sex it is always hot when she climaxes from this activity. It usually gets me so worked up I can't hold back and I don't last long once she takes me in her mouth or I enter her.

Probably the best story on this line we have is one night in a hotel room with a guy we had met earlier and who my wife was very attracted to. We all started playing and he was naked and was watching me fuck her. He was not touching himself or anything at that point and the play between he and my wife was mostly kissing. He had fingered her pussy and she begged to be fucked "now" so since he was sitting back I stepped in and he was watching intently as she began to orgasm strongly. As she climaxed he blew his load all over the bed with a little hitting her but he was not touching himself when it happened.

He apologized and genuinely seemed to feel very bad about it while my wife passed it off as being "ok" and telling him she understood. She tried to get him hard again that night and even sucked his soft cock but he never could get hard again. I felt bad for her since she really wanted to play with him.

I would not say embarrassed - just surprised. My wife and I were staying at a small motel in the Florida Keys. We had use of a small boat with a motor. We pulled away from the dock, and my wife began stripping.

When she was naked she came to me, pulled off my swim trunks and sucked my cock. When we were far enough from shore, I shut the motor off. As we drifted, she leaned back and played with her pussy. My cock was hard as I watched her. She kept her eyes focused on me. She told me how wet her c*nt was, and how she needed to get fucked.

As she spread her legs, the cum stuck to her fingers, and was stuck to her lips. This site got to me, and I shot my load with only the visual stimulation!!