Thank you so much for your responses, wherearemyclothes and Dee! :)

Thanks

Fango

After seeing some of your pictures...omg...I'm very glad you are not 18 and skinny! wow ;)

Yeah you are good at pretending, from the little exposure I have had to you, you seem modest but still out there. until reading your responces I never would have guessed I kinda figured you for the get a thrill out of showing off, not out of the humiliation of not being in control... thanks for the insight

Forgot to say....! From Dee
 

A PS from me...

Thanks guys for your luvly comments....It does the old ego the world of good knowing not all guys like Skinny n 18....!

Another fession from me re nudity.....I do have a couple of very close "friends" who I have flashed a few naked body parts to - via my web cam... but have never had the courage to show myself totally naked to anyone except my hubbie...

Sorry for being a total coward...!

Glad you enjoyed my pics..... Dee x

Its not being a total coward Dee... just a part one :P
nah some people enjoy it, others don't its nothing to be ashamed of either way... its just how you are.
As for the sunny 18, who likes that? they are all the same, how boring that gets... I personally like something to hold onto, those skinny sheilas you are too scared you'e going to brake!

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?
No I'm not easily embarrassed and nudity actually doesn't embarrass me much generally speaking. But it really depends on the situation, it's more about the reaction of people to the nudity, than the nudity itself.

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?
For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?
I'm just introverted, so it's not a question of not showing my body, it's more the fact that I generally get to know people slowly; and so a lack of exhibitionism is part of my personality. Although I did jog around the block nude when I was 14, but that was the hormones talking. I also don't put photos of myself on the internet, have facebook etc, but that's for ideological reason (if they want my data, they can pay for it).


3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?
Honestly, I would be too preoccupied for what this occurrence implied about the states of matter than feel embarrassed, unless it was in the food court, in which case it might be fun to try to cover myself with napkins.


4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?
I'd do it myself.


5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?
No, but that's because I don't like beaches or resorts.


6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?
I dislike people I don't know taking pictures of me in any circumstances. Can you say CCTV?

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?
I'd read the comments, just to make sure people thought I was hot, then I would ask for them to be taken down. Unless someone particularly rich or charming responded.


8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC?
If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?)
I wouldn't and I wouldn't do it with a blurred face, it would look better in a darth vader mask. The blurred face is just annoying. If you're going to show yourself then show yourself, don't nancy about.


9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?
I would say a group you know because you would see them again.


10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)
This requires a long answer. I did have a few incidents many many years ago regarding embarrassed nudity which, to be frank, because I can be anonymous, I sometimes wonder if that's where my interest in ENF lies. Like perhaps it's a seeking to reclaim those moments and make them my own, control them a little more. If you're interested to know more I'm happy to respond, but not in a public forum.

I realize my answers haven't been erotic, but they have been honest.


Replies are from Dee not Paddy....!!!

Replies are from Alli not the other two, I just copied and pasted the questions because they were too difficult to remember. Hahaha

Glad you cleared that up babe....
 

I thought I didn't remember adding those answers...... ha ha....!

Dee x


Replies are from Alli not the other two, I just copied and pasted the questions because they were too difficult to remember. Hahaha

my Fiancee's anwsers
 

I gave this questionnaire to my fiancee and here's her honest answers.


1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

Could be, depending where and who else is around. I don't embarrass that easily, but not really comfortable with just anyone seeing me.


2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?
For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?

Guess I'm in the modest side of this. Just how I was raised, being comfortable with someone seeing me nude is something that takes time to develop.


3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

Would probably frozen in shock, idk how I would handle something like, hope to God I never find out!


4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

I've heard actresses talk about what it's like doing a nude seen, I don't think I could. I mean think about it, you're in a room full of coworkers and you're the only one nude. Plus knowing that everyone that knows you including family are going to be seeing it on a huge movie screen. That'd be too much. Guess If I had to choose, stage would probably be easier than in a move. But still the idea of being nude on a stage with everyone's eyes on me, just sends chills down my spine lol.

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?

I've been to an optional beach before. I did spend a lil time topless on it, just to get a better tan. Being somewhere were others are nude makes it easier to relax about me just being topless.


6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?

Yes I'd be embarrass and pissed. That camera would end up in the ocean!


7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?
For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question.

I'd be so humiliated and still pissed. I would try and get it taken off the net as soon as possible.

8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC?
If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?)

No I would not post nude photos of myself on the net. Too much crap can get started by something like that. Ppl have lost their jobs for stuff like that.

9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?

Wow that's a tough one. Guess being around ppl I know would be worse.

10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)

idk, just any situation where I was naked without it being my choice would be embarrassing.

Your brain?

Real women on OCC?
 

NO OFFENCE FANGO but do any real women come here to OCC to answer your survey?
This is a forum for guys,full of naked womens photo's and video's.
I always imagined that most members using a female name for there profile were actually guys
who get something out of pretending to be girls as I just don't see what content is here to interest a woman.
If I am wrong I apologise but its my opinion.

Just check out The Ladies of OCC forum there are plenty enough female members, some girls like to show themselves off, others may enjoy ENF, it doesn't really matter why they come here, I for one want them to stay and encourage them to do so.

I am a woman, and I like ENF, and though I hardly come on the forum anymore. My naked photos with other forum member's nicks on my body demonstrates I am indeed female (and what is the big deal about being a woman anyway?). So unless I am a hairy man that has a naked woman that does not mind writing on her body people's nicks and having those pictures taken and put on internet, you can rest assure of what I am.

P.S. I have never understood that "you are not a woman" business that goes on in Internet. Does it suck so much to be a man and does being a woman seem so incredible to men that they just can't believe that a woman is just that, a woman. Do men have some desire to be women or what? Why do men do such things anyway? I have never heard of a woman pretending to be a man via internet, I suppose that does say quite a lot about you lot and us actually :D

Familiarity breeds contempt. You've been a woman for what, 35 years? Obviously it is not a big deal to you :)

Some men like to pretend to be women on online forums, mostly to troll others. Those that have fallen for it, or witnessed others falling for it, usually become suspicious and are quick to accuse.

There are other reasons as well, and sometimes pretending is done inadvertently. For example, a friend of mine played on a MUD and chose the name "Sasha", which is a common shortening of "Alexander" in Russian. He could not understand why everybody (the men and especially the women) were so nice to him until he figured out that, to an English speaker, "Sasha" sounds like a girl's name.

No, usually it doesn't. Being stronger (on the average) is handy and not having to deal with periods is a definite plus. Also, going topless is acceptable.

Actually it does. Women are incredible. The greatest invention since opposable thumbs.

Oh, they can believe that, but when the woman in question posts nude pictures of herself on a male-dominated forum, some find it too good to be true.

Some really do (from what I've been told, having gender issues is not fun). Some think that the grass is greener on the other side. Most are just curious -- I believe that given the opportunity to spend a couple of days as a woman, most men would want to do that.

Many different reasons.

It happens. I've met women that claimed they had to do just that in order to (a) be taken seriously and (b) stop the constant lame come-ons.

And what would that be?

Things that make you go hmmmm
 

1. yes and yes
2. somewhere in the middle. I fantasize about being exposed in public, but it really embarrasses me. The embarrassment is a turn on though.
3. Cover, cry, and run
4. Hard to answer, but I would say do it myself...more realism. and it would not matter on film or stage.
5. Possibly. Never been, but definitely in the back of my mind.
6. It would shock me and I would be worried about what they were going to do with the pic. Embarrassing, yes.
7. It would probably freak me out. It is one thing to post pics of myself, but to have some stranger posting them....
8. To be honest, I posted pics for access. lol
9. Modest and small group is more embarassing...you have to face those people again.
10. You will have to email me for an answer to that one.

Feel free to email me for any elaboration. fatty.kathy@yahoo.com

answers to questions
 

Seems a lot of girls are being brave enough to answer this and I am new here. So now you will get to know me a little

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

No, I rarely get embarressed in general. I think the second part goes to appropriateness. In an accidental situation, there is no control. Would I be embarressed, NO. Would I seek cover? Yes, only because I would not want to offend people.

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?

There is a freedom in being seen naked. A validation. I play tennis, surf and run to keep myself trim. I consider myself attractive and enjoy being admired. Both clothed and naked.

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

I wouldnt freak out. I would calmly go to a store and get something to wear. Then come home and grab my lover and sex them up hard :P

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?

I live in San Diego, and have been to Black's Beach ( local nude beach ) more than a few times. Swimming in the ocean naked is such a refreshing feeling. As I stated in the beginning there is a freedom in being naked. I have walked up and down its shore and it is exhilarating knowing you are being looked at and assessed as you stroll by.

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?

Roxanne has spoken about guys with cameras at Black's Beach. I have never seen one. Im young blonde, and fit. If there were cameras, I think I would have seen them. Also there is a group called the Polar Bares .. volunteer group who watch out for shutter bugs. Outside of a beach, if someone snap a shot of me naked, say a party or such, I would confront and ask to remove the picture. I have had to do this. They really didnt want to, but eventually relented.

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?

I would be really ticked. I admit to being a bit of a controll freak. Someone sneeking a pic and publishing it, is stealing that power from me.

9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?

Being in a small group is exciting because most in the group are usually naked too. Its very high energy and tactile. Which is also very stimulating. In front of a large group, being a exhibitionist, is over the top heart attack stuff. I did an Amateur Night contest in the mid west on a dare with two of my friends. By the time my stage time was done I had to run to the restroom and explode.

My Responses
 

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

Yes. I am very easily embarrassed. Most of my fantasies involve me being forced to be naked or partially naked in a variety of scenarios.

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?

I am a closet exhibitionist. I get off on the risk of being seen, not necessarily actually being seen.

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

I would totally panic, but would probably just crumble and sit there naked, not able to run away.

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

In a movie, I would try to do it myself, but not sure I would have the courage. On stage, would totally need a body double.

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?

I would like to go some day, but would need someone with me to push me along.

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?

I would cover up and try running away.

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?

I would immediately wonder where else they may have posted them.

9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?

Small group of people I know for both answers.

Just curious, how did you find this thread? It's so old, so I'm wondering how you dug it up.

Thanks for answering the questions.

Thanks

Fango

How I discovered this thread
 

I was doing some searching on OCC and it was one of the search results. It sounded interesting so I decided to take a look... it did take me two days to decide to answer the questions though hahahha