My wife always swallows my cum
 

When my wife and I started dating I was happy she swallowed like she was drinking from a water hose. I asked her if she liked it and she said, "Sure, and I think swallowing is part of giving a blow job". I agree with her for sure that swallowing cum is a requirement for a quality blow job.

Before I met my wife, I dated a really pretty girl who was good in bed but wouldn't do two things. One of them was anal and the other was she wouldn't swallow cum. It just wasn't sexy to watch her grab a tissue and take my cock out her mouth just before I came and catch it all in a tissue.

I talked to her about it and she said she did not like the taste or texture. One time she was sucking me I tried to hold my breathing down and didn't make any noise so she wouldn't know and came in her mouth. She spit it on the floor and was pissed at me and told me she almost bit me and to never do that again.

I thought about for about a week after that and then broke up with her. I just didn't see any future with a woman who felt that way.

After all, oral sex is a way for one person to give pleasure to another one and the focus should be on the other person, not yourself and your thoughts of the taste.

I agree with you. But you gotta put it where she wants it. It's the best for her and the best for me. She LOVES laying in bed (or the kitchen floor, or the ground on the patio...) and feel it dripping out. And I don't complain!

Rarely
 

Well i had a few gf in my life and cumming inside the mouth is very rare around here i think! I only have like 3 gf letting me do that and not often! So every time it happens i make sure i enjoy it as much as i can and cum as much as i can! You know filling that mouth well

It depends
 

My wife will swallow when she is feeling ultra horny. If she's not, she waits until I've finished cumming, and then spits it in a towel.

An ex gf used to want me to fxxk her, and as I was about to cum, pull out and come in her mouth. She'd swallow the lot. If I came on her tits, she would scoop it up and eat it.

Really? Here is a suggestion...
 

Seems a bit shallow on your part atruevoyeur.
But I have a suggestion for you to help you understand.
Next time you are about to cum, pull your cock out and cum in the palm of your hand. Immediately take your sperm and suck it into your own mouth, run it over your tongue to get the feel of the texture and a good taste of your own sperm.
If YOU do NOT enjoy it, don't expect her to.
If you DO enjoy it... simple solution... repeat the above steps and enjoy your own sperm every time.


No, I am not being mean or coy... just don't expect it as part of sex if you do not enjoy it also. :)

My ex (that I'm now fucking almost every day) just won't let me cum anywhere but in her pussy. If she is blowing me and I'm about to go, she knows it and shoves it inside her incredible pussy. After we split up, she was with this young guy who fucked her 5 times a day. She tells me all the time about how much he could cum. Really, why would I want to cum anywhere else?

Tasting my own cum is not a good test
 

Would you ask a woman to taste her pussy and see if she would like to lick another woman? I think women are turned on by male cum like men are turned on by pussy taste. Now gay people change that, but for straight people I don't think the suggestion is valid.

I agree that woman are turned on by male cum like men are turned on by pussy taste.


AND I want to address Love2Bnaked's point... I think there is more to it for women.

Plenty of women are not afraid to taste their own pussy juice. My wife loves rubbing her pussy juices over me and then licking it off. She won't hesitate to suck dick after it's been inside her either and when she's really revved up and masturbating for me, she'll insert fingers and lick off the juice for me.

Other women do these kinds of things as well. In fact, I think for a lot of women it's not a problem. There is another thread about women sucking their own nipples with partners but why they don't really do it when solo. I think it's a similar situation with their own pussy juice. Women are far more flexible with their limits than men because sex is far more emotion. With men it is physical for the most part.

My wife used to swallow, mostly because to do otherwise was messy and if she swallowed fast enough, she didn't have to taste very much of it. She would complain that semen made her mouth go numb, no matter who it was.

But a few years ago, several times in a row, swallowing made her stomach upset and she would throw up. Since hear my wife retch in the bathroom is not a fetish of mine, she stopped swallowing and started 'pulling out' when she noticed I was getting ready to cum. It's usually ends up on my stomach, though sometimes she's not fast enough and some ends up in her mouth. I'd love it if she started swallowing again, but we'd have to figure out if something would make her not throw up, like medicine. It also doesn't help that semen is one of the three bodily fluids that she doesn't like on her own skin, the other two are sweat and spit, unless she's really horny.

What's sad is that she actually enjoys giving blowjobs and usually they make her horny. Not horny enough to take a facial, but horny. :rolleyes:

My wife's preference is in her pussy. She loves the feeling when I come inside her. That being said, she has no problem with me coming in her mouth. Sometimes she swallows some time she spits. Just depends on her mood. She also doesn't mind if I come on her face or breasts or ass. She realizes the visual is a big turn on for me.

Fire the ion cannon....
 

This one makes me a little sad...

I typically cum a tremendous amount, which in most circumstances women seem to enjoy, until it comes to finishing from oral.

When we first got together, I mentioned that I was not a fan of receiving bj's. She was shocked by this and kept trying to pry why out of me. Eventually I relented. Undeterred, she responded my by tempting with me her extensive resume. I warned her and even gave her some advice that a previous gf had shared...

Shortly there after, she was hell bent on making her point. I was laying down with her crawling over my right leg. The covers were over us and I felt her warm cum dripping on my shin. Her cum is sweeter than nectar and this incredible aroma filled the room. She then went to 'work' and refused to do anything else until she could add me to her list. For a brief moment, I thought maybe - just maybe...

But, it was too much for her to take. She ended up gagging, tearing up, and had it running out of her nose - both nostrils. I felt absolutely terrible about it. She was beyond embarrassed and that was the end of that.

I think she still resents it just a little all these years later.

My wife does not like the taste/texture either. She even said for me to taste it and see how I like it. I will not go down on her after I cum in her pussy so I think it would be unreasonable of me to ask her to take a load in her mouth. To those of you that say it is a requirement, would you eat her out after you cream pied her? If you would then maybe you could make your argument. Otherwise you are just being selfish.

Also to some other comments above my wife is fine with sucking my dick after I have been in her but have not cum. It has nothing to do with being straight or gay. It is just an issue of what each person likes. Sex should be an equal give and take. Insisting someone do something they hate for your pleasure has no place in a loving relationship (like a marriage). In an uncommitted hookup with no love... I can not speak to that as I have only had sex in the context of a long term committed relationship.

At the climax of a blowjob my wife swallows. EVERY... SINGLE... TIME...

I love her :D

So if your wife did like it, you wouldn't let her do it?

Grasshopper, you have many things to learn...

Loves it
 

My fiancé has about five male friends who she sucks off just to swallow their cum.

She loves it

Not what I said. I basically said it is selfish to expect someone to do something they hate especially if it is something you soul not do. I would enjoy it if she wanted to do it but I would never pressure her to do it knowing she hates it and while it is a great feeling I am fine without it.

It took a long time just to get her to suck me at all. I never pushed but she started doing it I think to repay me for eating her which is a specialty of mine. I have been told I have mad skills.

L2BN: Atruevoyeur didn't mention her having to enjoy it to do it. So why do you read that requirement into it?

Here's a point of view for you to consider: if a woman can grade enjoyment of semen from -10 to +10, then perhaps as long as the "enjoyment" is -5 or better go ahead and swallow. Cool? :cool:

You make a fair point. With my former mistress who liked me masturbating into her mouth she liked kissing me afterwards. For her it was part of the whole blow job and coming in mouth action, and not sharing would have lessened the experience for her. Doing this I ended up tasting and swallowing a fair bit of come, and found it left a sensation in the back of my throat for quite a while - which was actually really good, because it meant I was reminded of having great sex after the event.

My current lady friend loves to share tastes with me. She loves to swallow and then kiss me. She loves to kiss me after I've gone down on her. She loves to taste herself on my shaft. She's a keeper.

My wife is similar in that her preference for me to cum in her pussy, but she also loves to give oral. When I cum in her mouth she swallows every drop. I asked her once about swallowing versus spitting and she told me she never considered it until she had spoken to some girlfriends who spit. She just thought swallowing was part of the act.

The first time I came in her mouth I gave her a warning. I was kneeling next to her as she laid on the bed. I was leaning over rubbing her clit and looking down at her mouth back and forth on my cock. I told her I was about to cum and she just kept going. When I first shot, she paused a second and kept going until she drained me. Licked every bit off of me before finishing. Then looked at me with a little smile and said "I guess I taste some sperm in my mouth". What a girl.

More on comming in your wife's mough
 

Back in the early ninetys I had a relationship with a older women ( she was 65) and 20 years older than myself, she loved a 69 before getting out of bed in the morning and before the first pee, which we did together.
We had some amazing orgasms, she swallowed my load as I drank her virginal juices. Her black pussy was unshaved and so was her underarms with never any underwear she mostly was nude and always ready for a hard cock.

My fiancée is not a big fan of cum in her mouth. She does fellate me but prefers for me to cum on her tits.

One of my past GFs liked the taste of her own juices. So as I was pounding away she'd pull away from me and lick her juices off my cock after she came. Then she'd finish me off, swallow and then squeeze my throbbing cock for that extra aftermath jizz. That last part would have my eyes rolling in the back of my head and my toes curling. She loved the taste of her juice mixed with my semen. She's the only woman I've ever been with with an avowed appreciation for the taste of jizz. I don't even remember if I ever came in her puss; it always ended in her mouth.

After her I dated a superfreak. With an extraordinary lack of gag reflex. And a bit of a sadistic edge.
She would grab my buttcheeks, essentially immobilizing me, and take the whole of my cock in her mouth. If I tried to wrench myself away her grasp would tighten. My cum would shoot directly down her throat...and she never gagged. If I was still hard afterwards, she'd go at it again. At that point it would get painful but she wouldn't let go. I'd come again, and after that second shot I'd be almost completely incapacitated.
I would get back at her though. I'd make her face-sit me while immobilizing her. She'd come, ask me to stop; and I would just keep going. She'd try to close her legs, push my head away, and I would just put her in a lock and keep going. Payback is a b*tch.
It was a hot mess. Too bad she was crazy.

My wife loves to give blow jobs and it shows. She is awesome at it. By far the best I've ever had. Unfortunately, I have the same "problem", and we've had the same thing happen. It blows put of her nose and she swears I almost drown her with it. Therefore, she'd rather not try to swallow. I still beg once in a while to finish in her mouth but I'd never trick her or try to make her. It makes her sad too, that most of the time she can't swallow it. Fortunately for me however, she does enjoy a good facial! :D

I normally prefer coming in my wife's vagina as it makes me feel closer to her with the hopes of impregnating her, but she does love it when I pull out on occasion and shoot my load in her mouth.

I asked her about it once and she told me that for her it's the ultimate sign of love since I have never had my load in another woman's mouth before and she loves the salty taste of my semen.

It was her way of telling me that she "accepts" me as he lover.

She always kissed my penis after I came inside her mouth, something she never did with any past ex, and she told me that she was fulfilling a fantasy of her own by tasting a virgin's load.

Women's minds are often as dirty as men's! ;)

My wife is just just like this but that idea had never occurred to me where I hold her from spitting it out I love it!

I cannot jackofff enough of her stories of her ex bf getting her to eat his big ass dick on command

I dated a girl in school who was a very multiorgasmic screamer. She preferred fucking, as my cumming in her pussy always made her cum extra hard. However, she loved to suck me to get things going. About 10% of the time she would just keep sucking until I came. She swollowed every time. But, it got her hot, so I had to recover enough wood to fuck her as being eaten dodn't do much for ger. Fortunately, at that point in life I could usually recover pretty well.

A dilemma
 

We have a new friend and he's fixed and really wants my wife to suck his cock and to take his load. She takes my load but only swallowed once doesnt like the taste. Now she spits out my stuff.

Im torn, I want this guy to have fun and to leave his load in her mourh but not sure with disease and all.

Had a gf in my 40's. She liked everything about sex, indeed I don't think the word "no" was in her vocabulary. About 2x monthly she would show up at my office during the noon hour, to "get her vitamins". She'd sit me down in my office chair, unzip my pants and proceed to suck my cock until I gave up my load, which she swollowed without spilling a,drop. On these occasions , we never undressed or did other things sexual, it was just "give me your sperm", then "see you later"

Always Swallow
 

My boyfriend taught me how to suck cock when I was very young. Swallowing cum is neater, taste good, and all the boys love you for it. It either goes way up inside my c*nt or down my throat (sometime deep in my ass) I never have understood coming on a woman's face. I think it's from the early porn movies to show the guy came. Get over it. Cum is messy so it's much better especially if you're on your knees, sucking off more than one guy, at a party like I've done. It's fun and tasty.