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john78 04-19-2016 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Fluxx (Post 2195592)
Looks like I have time for one more quick post, this time its a twofer. Since having our first child she is very conscious about what she has dubbed her "road map" of stretchmarks and the little belly pouch that accompanied them. She also thinks her areola are too big. Once again, I think she is hot but she doesn't believe me...

Love your wife's sexy ass and belly pouch. Her tits are really nice too. She has nothing to be self conscious about. She is a beautiful sexy woman. You are a lucky man.

Marquis De Shady 05-18-2025 11:56 AM

Her ass.

Granted, her ass is more cellulity than most women her (small) size; but it's genetics. It's been there her entire adult life. And it's really not as bad as she thinks (but I won't post a pic out of respect for her hang-up, sorry). But for her a "freezing" procedure (I'm not sure what it actually entails) is in the picture; and she often talks about wanting to get her "ass frozen" (her own words).

She goes to the nudist resort with me, and is fairly comfortable spending the day naked. But she does get squeamish if she's standing, socializing; and someone is sitting behind her with a direct view of her ass.
She also knows - from seeing pics of herself - that if she's bent over the cellulite is much less apparent. Because of her small waist, it looks like she has a BBL even though it's natty (and she likes that). So she is much more comfortable being seen from behind if she's bent over - although it also means her vulva will be exposed - which to me seems paradoxical.

Her thick labia used to be her other main concern; but she got over that one pretty quickly by seeing other women at the resort that had them thicker or longer than hers. She used to stay hairy to hide them as much as possible; but her decision to go completely smooth marked her acceptance and embracing it being seen.

4cali 05-18-2025 03:10 PM

Mine isn’t particularly self conscious. Long ago I’d have said er weight. She is in no way fat at all. Just has that layer of smooth skin with little rib definition which is how I like a woman. I don’t find being too skinny or toned as attractive as a girl with some curves. As I’ve expressed my attraction to her over the years and never let up she doesn’t seem as shy about being in a bikini. She more takes the approach of skinny ladies and toned ladies are probably more jealous of her tits and ass than she is if their weight and muscle level.

If I had to guess I’d say her boobs. They are large D cups and often she passes over sexy tops that show too much cleavage because she doesn’t want to be THAT gal who is always showing off her tits. Even if I want her to lol.

Naddy3 05-19-2025 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by shnowballs (Post 2197575)
My lady has two issues with her body. One has been around forever, the other is more recent.

Starting with the relatively recent one, it's a C-Section scar she was left with after the birth of one of our kids. I think it's quite tidy and you can hardly see it. She seems to think it has ruined her body forever. :(

The other one has been talked of since the day we hooked up. She feels nature has been unfair to her. Nature, you see, gave her some wide hips and a lovely round ass but then paired them up with (again, what she believes are) disproportionately small boobs. They're on the small end of B and tend to almost vanish when she lies on her back. She does quite like both of these parts of herself but feels they just don't match. If only nature had given her a smaller ("tidier") ass to go with the small boobs or else some C (if not D) cup boobs to go with the ass.

I, of course, think she's the most gorgeous woman that ever walked the Earth but when I express this opinion I get told I'm biased! Women!

I love little tits and hers are perfect. I'd love to suck, lick, pull and tug on those nipples. Does she like them roughed up? Slapped a round.? My fwb like it.

Onlywater 08-04-2025 01:15 PM

I guess anal is no longer on the table. She enjoys the way it feels, but finds that it makes her incontinent for a few days following. I’m not particularly large… but I guess big enough to cause her to leak. I’ll miss hearing her ask me to fuck her that way, but probably won’t miss waking up with soiled bedding

Carrie K 08-05-2025 08:12 AM

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I'm self conscious about my belly pouch, 100%. A good tan helps aesthetically. Multiple pregnancies take their toll. Being pregnant with twins definitely changed things; the twins kicked my ribcage out for lebensraum. Compliments help.

Windsorm 08-05-2025 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Carrie K (Post 3543278)
I'm self conscious about my belly pouch, 100%. A good tan helps aesthetically. Multiple pregnancies take their toll. Being pregnant with twins definitely changed things; the twins kicked my ribcage out for lebensraum. Compliments help.

Women seem to worry about what they see as their imperfections. Men tend to overlook any imperfections and concentrate on what they see as the sexy highlights.

You have plenty of sexy highlights! Please don’t worry about your belly.

And bellies disappear when you’re lying on your back!

allthatjazz 08-05-2025 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Carrie K (Post 3543278)
I'm self conscious about my belly pouch, 100%. A good tan helps aesthetically. Multiple pregnancies take their toll. Being pregnant with twins definitely changed things; the twins kicked my ribcage out for lebensraum. Compliments help.

But you're brave enough to wear skimpy bikinis and show yourself here. Good for you! Own it.

Carrie K 08-05-2025 07:00 PM

Windstorm & allthatjazz
 
The reason I have that confidence to wear a bikini and feel attractive is because of the positive feedback I get from appreciative guys; not from catty remarks from the mean girls.

steview1974 08-05-2025 07:22 PM

One underdeveloped breast
 
A medical fact, but still embarrassing, that her breasts are asymmetrical. One never fully developed. Not that I or her previous boyfriends mind, of course.

Curiouscouple2469 08-05-2025 09:13 PM

Not a concern
 
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Originally Posted by steview1974 (Post 3543518)
A medical fact, but still embarrassing, that her breasts are asymmetrical. One never fully developed. Not that I or her previous boyfriends mind, of course.

Can’t agree more…

My past partner had the same issue due to a bicycle accident when she was like 5.
Took a handlebar to the boob-to-be area.

She was small breasted so not even noticeable till after 5 babies - then she was definitely one sided… as only one produced.

I loved them just the way they were and she always had plenty of male attention in low cut tops or nude beaches - it wasn’t the small boob it was the package that received the attention.
She was gorgeous just as nature wanted it.

Gnome72141 08-06-2025 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Carrie K (Post 3543508)
The reason I have that confidence to wear a bikini and feel attractive is because of the positive feedback I get from appreciative guys; not from catty remarks from the mean girls.

As people are finally learning through social media, a woman's worst enemy are other women, not men like they had always thought. :(

naturistwineboy 08-06-2025 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Gnome72141 (Post 3543679)
As people are finally learning through social media, a woman's worst enemy are other women, not men like they had always thought. :(

Absolute truth. My wife has received extreme criticism too many times for what she has worn in grocery stores. Funny thing, when I'm with her, no matter what she wears, these women never bother to approach her. Wearing a mid thigh jean skirt, and a complete coverage top... braless, she's a sl*t. Short shorts or short skirt with a shear top with me, nonone of them are brave enough to say anything to her. On another note, her mid length skirt, and a thin crop top the other lane was finishing up, she suggested to the male behind her, he could probably get checked out faster, he stated, the landscape was better in her lane, LOL

thorne_uk 08-07-2025 04:00 AM

My wife has always been self conscious about her breasts , she was an early developer so got a lot of attention from boys and a lot bullying from jealous girls. She said she got up to a G cup at school when most other girls had nothing, it was made worse have to get changed for sports when she couldn't really hide them . Her early boyfriends were only really interested in her for her big breasts and loads of men as she grew old and her breasts only got bigger. She considered breast reduction surgery but has health issues that make it impossible as she is prone to blood clots and needs blood thinning meds and no surgeon would risk it.

In recent years she started to get more confident and show off more but it only takes a few negative comments from people and she reverts back to being very self conscious .

She know I love her big breasts but there are times she doesn't even want me to see them or touch them, then get occasions where she does want to show them off and has let me post pics but only if she doesn't see any comments

A few years back she got into a strange fixation of wanting to punish her own breasts which was quite strange and she wanted them tied up spanked, whipped and wearing heavy nipple clamps which I have been told is like people who have body dysmorphia and she treats them as not part of herself

pantiesandbush 08-08-2025 10:07 AM

My ex had a cavernous vagina. I'm bigger than average and could still wiggle around in there. When she would crouch quickly sometimes she would queef and be mortified. For reference she was 5' 10" and flat chested.

Pearoak 08-08-2025 09:02 PM

A few things but the fact she's got a totally bald pussy is a big one.

With some of her friends, they discuss it. But with others they don't, so if they go for a weekend away, swimming etc. she worries they'll think she's sl*tty, even though she knows its common.

It's a turn on thinking about the conversation they may have.

"Oh, thank god, you're shaved too, I was worried what you'd think"
Or
"Wow, what made you shave? I don't think I'd be that brave. It looks nice, maybe I should try."

rudolfm 08-09-2025 10:54 AM

My last girlfriend had the same. I tried to tell her it is normal, she asked me how could I know. We were only together shortly, so I didn't dare tell her how many girls I already had with different breast sizes. Life ain't easy 😁

Marquis De Shady 08-09-2025 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Pearoak (Post 3544654)
A few things but the fact she's got a totally bald pussy is a big one.

Ironically, my wife had the opposite problem.

For a long time she was all about keeping her pubic hair because "shaven is not how grown women look", "I don't follow trends", "it's too much work", etc... In spite of the fact that most of her friends - that she's seen nude - are either shaven or landing stripped (she's actually told me who is one or the other.)

During the course of our growing social nudism, she started finding herself the only woman in our social group with pubes. Her self-consciousness about it grew. She started feeling like these other women were more "esthetic" than her. She started trimming at first; but it looked patchy, which made her even more self-conscious.
She eventually "caved" and decided it was better to just shave it all off and blend in with everyone else. To this day she shaves bald before attending any nudist event.

It could just be a generational or environmental thing. Women in our region and in her age range tend to all be shaven or landing stripped.

piecenick 08-10-2025 12:05 PM

My wife used to be worried about her small boobs, but now that we are older, hers are still perky and don't droop, so they are a point of pride.

PeterHuds 08-11-2025 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Stillshy123 (Post 1452288)
My wife has been shy about the size of her areolas for years (they're definitely on the larger size). Having kids only added to their size and made them darker.

She also hates that her belly sags and has stretch marks (also from having kids). For that reason I love taking her from behind too and watching her jiggle all over.

Same with my wife. She has very large areolas, the type that cover all of the end of her boobs if that makes sense. Never actually measured - that would only add to her being self conscious - but I’m guessing prolly 4 inch diameter. I love them btw.

Martin221 08-13-2025 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Marquis De Shady (Post 3544930)
Ironically, my wife had the opposite problem.

For a long time she was all about keeping her pubic hair because "shaven is not how grown women look", "I don't follow trends", "it's too much work", etc... In spite of the fact that most of her friends - that she's seen nude - are either shaven or landing stripped (she's actually told me who is one or the other.)

During the course of our growing social nudism, she started finding herself the only woman in our social group with pubes. Her self-consciousness about it grew. She started feeling like these other women were more "esthetic" than her. She started trimming at first; but it looked patchy, which made her even more self-conscious.
She eventually "caved" and decided it was better to just shave it all off and blend in with everyone else. To this day she shaves bald before attending any nudist event.

It could just be a generational or environmental thing. Women in our region and in her age range tend to all be shaven or landing stripped.

This was the same for my wife. Already in 2016, I posted in this topic she sometimes felt self-conscious about having a full bush even though I was the only one who saw it. Over the years, she cared less about it until the moment that she went back to the gym after the pandemic and would go together with friends. They would see each other in the changing rooms and she was the only one with a full bush. Most of the other ladies were bare and a few kept a landing strip. She liked the clean look of the other ladies and started to think about shaving. Ultimately, it took a couple of months before she made the decision, but early last year she decided to shave. She went immediately from full bush to bare, and was happy with it and has kept it bare ever since.

While her friends were never negative about her full bush, they told her shaved looked really good on her. My wife intially said that she wanted to keep it bare at least the whole summer (of 2024), but she still continues to shave and told me she's happy with it and has no plans to grow out a full bush again. Even though she knows I used to like it, she feels better without the hair. She has recently been looking into laser hair removal, initially for her legs and underarms only. However, if she goes for the package deal including the pubic area, it's only a few hundred euros more expensive and she thinks it's a good deal. I don't like the idea that it's permanent and that she won't be able to grow out a full bush again, but she told me that she anyhow doesn't want to grow out a full bush again and that she wouldn't mind if she never would be able to grow out a bush again. And she says it's more convenient if she can ditch the razor completely by having laser hair removal for all areas she currently shaves frequently.

Sam7242 08-14-2025 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by PeterHuds (Post 3545633)
Same with my wife. She has very large areolas, the type that cover all of the end of her boobs if that makes sense. Never actually measured - that would only add to her being self conscious - but I’m guessing prolly 4 inch diameter. I love them btw.

Wow man. WTAF that’s real big! My gf has tiny ones, like 1 inch (I measured after reading your post and 4 inches must be like a fkn dinner plate!). LOL

NEED PHOTOS. LOL

1michael 08-14-2025 05:23 PM

My wife is like most here, with smaller tits!
 
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I would have to say and I'm sure many of our neighbors and friends would say the same, that my wife is self conscious about having smaller Breast / boobs / tits / or anything else you wanna call them!
I might have to take some of the responsibility for that cause all of my former girlfriends all have lots of Busty beauty and my wife knows all or most of them!
Besides that my wife's mom has that Busty feature along with our daughter, so it might have skipped a generation in the family?
Since we changed to the more Spicy lifestyle, my wife and I gets to see more of our neighborly wife's along with her cousin and my sister - all that are well Blessed on Top with everything!
My wife has been talking about having some Breast enhancement done and talked with others that had it done!
But in the back of her head she is always worried about having a bad job done or scars!
Going to a few Doctor places with her, I got to see plenty of pics of their Patients that had it done with the Before and After pics! Wow, I'm amazed these women are so willing to pose for Doctors with those boobs exposed! :)
But anytime there is something the women worry about, they'll make up for it and get your attention going to something else!
My wife did that when we first got together, she did oral on my cock then stopped to tell me I could CUM in her mouth and she'll swallow it! None of my busty GF's did that, but having my cock between those huge tits was always thrilling for me!
I'm sure more women have the same issue with their tits too!
;)

bushman1 08-14-2025 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam7242 (Post 3546841)
Wow man. WTAF that’s real big! My gf has tiny ones, like 1 inch (I measured after reading your post and 4 inches must be like a fkn dinner plate!). LOL

NEED PHOTOS. LOL

Photos are needed for both women !

Pearoak 08-14-2025 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam7242 (Post 3546841)
Wow man. WTAF that’s real big! My gf has tiny ones, like 1 inch (I measured after reading your post and 4 inches must be like a fkn dinner plate!). LOL

NEED PHOTOS. LOL

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Originally Posted by bushman1 (Post 3546921)
Photos are needed for both women !

And more areola measurements. I'll be getting my ruler out at the weekend. Estimating 2.5 - 3 inches.

mallynb 08-20-2025 01:43 PM

Love to see
 
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Originally Posted by PeterHuds (Post 3545633)
Same with my wife. She has very large areolas, the type that cover all of the end of her boobs if that makes sense. Never actually measured - that would only add to her being self conscious - but I’m guessing prolly 4 inch diameter. I love them btw.


Your wife’s tits sound wonderful with huge areola’s and natural hanging breasts

Please share!

Gnome72141 08-21-2025 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by thorne_uk (Post 3544060)
My wife has always been self conscious about her breasts , she was an early developer so got a lot of attention from boys and a lot bullying from jealous girls.

Same with my wife! Full C cup VERY young (and she was skinny, too, making it even more super prominent), and the bullying she received from jealous girls was horrific, so she learned to hate them. Her ultra-conservative mom wouldn't buy her a bra, either, as her mother thought wearing bras under the age of 16 was too sexual. (WTF?????) She is a full D now, but as a middle-aged woman, it doesn't stand out as much, of course.

It didn't help that her partners before me couldn't have cared less about boobs, so she continued to hate them into her 20s.

Then she met me. She quickly learned to love and embrace her breasts. She loved going braless and watching people (men and women) stare back at her when her nipples poked out.

And even now, she loves smothering my face in her breasts any chance we get; I often have to stop her because she will try to smother my face everywhere! She also loves to flash me constantly, like I often have to pull her shirt down because she tries to sneak in flashes where she could get into lots of trouble!

We can't go back in time and help her love her breasts decades ago, but better late than never!

Pearoak 08-27-2025 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Pearoak (Post 3546931)
And more areola measurements. I'll be getting my ruler out at the weekend. Estimating 2.5 - 3 inches.

Yep, she let me measure when totally relaxed, just short of 3 inches. Not something she's self conscious of at all, she seems proud that they are on the large side.
I also had a go at sucking to see how small they would go, got them down to 1.25 inches :-).
Normally they're somewhere in between and (short of sucking) it's not always obvious when she's erect, which I imagine is a source of worry for some.

Rossho88 11-06-2025 10:42 PM

My girlfriend
 
My girlfriend is conscious bout her labia she has massive lips

piecenick 11-07-2025 04:33 AM

My wife used to be very shy about her size B boobs, even though I lavished them with love and kisses, she loved having huge D preggo boobs, and she showed them off nursing. She even talked about enhancements with an inheritance she recd. luckily, her doc and I discouraged her. Once she hit 50 and saw big boobed friend sagging to their waist, she as still perky.

The final sale was the first time she has an extramarital lover, my approval, he really gave her boobs a lot of attention.

Xico 11-07-2025 05:22 AM

Massive labia lips
 
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Originally Posted by Rossho88 (Post 3573441)
My girlfriend is conscious bout her labia she has massive lips

Ooh just love to see large labia. When spread wide i call it their butterfly.
Love to nibble and suck on them

wellness 11-07-2025 06:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Rossho88 (Post 3573441)
My girlfriend is conscious bout her labia she has massive lips


It sounds like you are a lucky man😊I love big labia lips.

Is she conscious in a positive way, does she like to show them?

Many women are conscious in a negative way, very shy and shameful of their “glory”, and grow big bushes to hide them.

raysallx 11-09-2025 10:51 PM

Fat
 
Almost all women think they are fat. It gets tiresome, especially when you like chubby women.

crazyhorse91 11-10-2025 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Rossho88 (Post 3573441)
My girlfriend is conscious bout her labia she has massive lips

We would love to see them.

Thatguyhusband 11-10-2025 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by crazyhorse91 (Post 3574666)
We would love to see them.

I agree with this


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