ok i feels like I'm about to share too much, but I suppose that's one of the things that is good about a forum, I get to be the person that I can't be in RL. You might think that giving her oral will make her want to return the favor but "why buy the cow..." Maybe you should stop going down and she'll miss it so much she'll ask you. Then you say ok who goes first? No one has ever made me cum with a penis so I would definitely miss it. I only say this because I tried it your way once and was dying for this guy to go down (I was going to say this was my bf so it didn't sound random and sl*tty, but what the hell, everyone has had at least a few of these things right) so to encourage him I give him some of my best work but then he's all done and satisfied and I get pretty much nothing.

She doesn't like semen so can't you just warn her before you cum? Is it really so much better? Even if it is, something is better than nothing right?

Also, clean might be part of it. One of my first bjs was on day 3 of a camping trip and I thought that oral was just kind of dirty for a long time. Invite her into the shower with you and ask her to do a little lick. I'm sure your not dirty down there but the shower will get rid of any worries that you might be. Even if she goes down for 5 seconds, say that was awesome and don't beg for more, I get nervous when it is supposed to be this huge awesome thing so just be happy with what you get and you'll prolly get a little more next time. And make sure you complement the hell out of her.

Hope this might help.

Hmmm...
Itseems thatI am better with my penis than my mouth.
Not with fucking, but with sliding it over her clit rapidly...
So it won't help not going down on her.

Meh, I tried. One last effort here. Make it the only thing that you ask for for Christmas or b-day?

Now thats a good one.
Makes her wonder why one wants it so desperately

wife not happy about it
 

Wife will only put it in her mouth, if I place it on her lips
it is only going to be there a min or two, and she will spit it out
The one time that I was close to coming, she got a taste of precum and spit my cock out fast

This is the same woman that only initiates sex once or twice a year
And only lets me have sex one or twice a month

Lifes a b*tch.

this is fucking insane
 

my mind is blown by this topic. I am 33 yrs old i have never ever once in my life ever been with any girl who wouldn's suck me to completion.I feel like yalls women are from another planet .I wouldn't put up with that shit women get everything from us the least they can do is make us happy. I cant believe what i read wow.

I thought my wife was the only one who didn't do BJ's, guess I am not so alone as I thought. God how I want her to suck me off.:(

Nothing like getting a conservative girl to cross her boundaries:D

The trick is... timing, get her horny and "accidentally" lick her ass when you go down on her, if you play your cards right and don't push her but encourage her and compliment her you'll have a proud little cocksucker in no time...
and then the next step, make her see your seed as a reward.

I truly believe that by nature any woman wants to sit on her knees in front of a man sucking his cock and be called a "good girl" for doing so. (preferably without using her hands so she truly feels like a serving sl*t)

The funny thing is that when you get conservative girls to cross their boundaries they tend to be very loyal.

You have a strange believe... By nature the men do the work and the women only will try to get the men away from their pussies - it will fertilize them, so they have to be careful to pick just that right guy - you know, the one that can feed and protect her and her youngsters.
We're quite a long distance away from nature :P

Been married to same woman 27 years. At this point, I believe she prefers giving oral to having intercourse. I don't mind, believe me. When you get old, its easier just to lie back and enjoy it.

30 years ago, I met a lady about 10 years older than I was (she was then 36 years old). We had sex more or less regularly, over a period of six months and since she lived afar, we slowly drifted apart. One of the very first time we slept together, we engaged into 69…*to me, it was totally natural and we took position sideways + ate her pussy whilst she sucked my cock.

For reasons too long to explain at length, we reconnected 10 years ago : she was 56, I was 46. She confided to me that I was the one who introduced her to oral sex, that her past lovers never ate her pussy nor she sucked cock… that I was the first and only person with whom she had 69, 20 years before ! I was shocked… albeit slowly but surely, I can tell now that she learned fast, and that she gives now incredible sloppy blow-jobs ! :o

oops sorry wrong thread. I thought it said "anyone left who's cock my wife hasn't sucked :) "

LOL!

Changing times
 

I am now 65 and certainly when I was young it was not all that common for women to suck cock and my wife hardly ever took mine in her mouth let alone do a full bj. We separated after 24 years and I have since been with women who are much more ready to do it and it is definitely my favourite way. I gather that nowadays it is very common for women to suck cock which is partly due to changing moral values in society and a certain "herd" element that seems to affect women more than men. Once they know that their friends do it then they either feel that it is ok for them as well or become curious to see what it is like. Life is better now in this regard than it used to be.

OK, that crap would NOT fly with me. Really don't know how that would fly with any self-respecting guy!

My Wife
 

Would suck my cock 20 years ago, never swallowed. She would let the come into her mouth but she would let it drain out while my cock was still in her mouth.
She claims she puked on a past boyfriend.....

Now a days, she always seems to have a "Sore" in her mouth that stops her from blowing me. I guess I should be greatful as it keeps her oral herpes from turing into something worse.

Neglected Husband
 

My wife has given me one BJ in 12 years. She sucks it every now and then. But only for a minute. So I dont count those as BJs. More like being a tease. I have refused to eat her pussy out because of it. She is the only woman I have ever been with that doesn't like swallowing my cum.

A parallel thread?
 

Since I asked the question about blowjobs in this thread---and been pleased with the response, I have been wondering if I should start a new one "Is there any woman left who does not allow anal sex?" My wife finally let me after we had been married a while and now she loves it--but she has to be in a mood. From looking at today's porn, it seems more girls like it up the butt than in the pussy. What has been your experience with anal? By the way, for the lady to enjoy it, you have to do a lot of prep---opening her with small then larger and larger dildos or vibrators and using lots of lube, and she has to be relaxed. Once in, my wife wants to be pounded as hard as I can--it is great.:p

...
 

When I was 21 I was messing around with a 43 year old woman I worked with. She was more into me than I was her, but since I had nothing else going on....I let things unfold over the course of a few months. She was still married to her husband (whom I had met several times) and she would tell him she was going shopping and then show up on my door step.

It became clear to me through her actions and words that she had never sucked his cock. I thought she was joking but she was in fact serious. Then on what ended up being our last encounter she decided to put her mouth on my dick. I could tell by how she was acting that this was a big deal for her.....and she also acted like she was giving me some amazing gift but in reality was the worst head I have ever had. They say there is no such thing has bad head.....but I can honestly say it sucked ;)

Looking back now (I haven't thought about this in 10 years) I wish I had been a little nicer to her. Granted she was cheating on her husband, but here she was trying to do this major thing for her and when I finished (the only time in my life that I had to push a girl away and finish with my hand) I said "This can never happen again" and headed for the shower.

Ok, well now I feel like a total dick!

I wonder now if she has tried to suck a dick since then?????

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I'll drive mine right over to blow whoever for a car. She has no gag reflex and loves to swallow. Total opposite from my ex who at first said she would never, but surprised me shortly afterwards when she did. Oral either way didn't happen that much. Luckily life has changed for the better!

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I met a guy last week who would net let anyone blow him !!!!

GEESH!!!! :(
 

[QUOTE=watchitnow1917;1368231]Wife will only put it in her mouth, if I place it on her lips
it is only going to be there a min or two, and she will spit it out
The one time that I was close to coming, she got a taste of precum and spit my cock out fast

This is the same woman that only initiates sex once or twice a year
And only lets me have sex one or twice a month


I HAVE TO WONDER HOW YOU GUYS END UP STAYING WITH THESE WOMEN ... ?? :confused: It pays to have a proper road test (live with each other for a bit or date for a while at least) or maybe blow jobs and sex in general was not a priority to begin with ,:rolleyes: ... I think it is one of the most important things in a relationship ,, afer all what other things is there to look more forward to ?? not too many .. food ?? a swim ?? lol .. there is no way I would have ended up with a woman that would not suck me off or fuck on demand !! oh ,, and enjoy it of course .. :p:p

really
 

:eek::eek: :eek::eek: there are some strange old fashioned dudes out there for sure ...

MINE!!
 

I can get a bj at the drop of a hat ,, any time ... anal is out of the question ,, says she let me once when we were drunk ,, bs!! Id not forget that .. but she says it hurts too much and doesnt know how any other women likes it ...

Tell him next time he has to ensure she understands that she has to make monthly payments, like he does to the finance company. ;)

And yea, I have a few friends that will not bob the knob, and I never understood that. Now I will admit that I am not that thrilled about having a guy cum in my mouth, but I do not have much of a problem sucking on them, and I rather enjoy the thrill of trust and power I have at that time.

I probably serviced a few dozen cocks in that way during High School, was one of the main reasons I kept my virginity as long as I did (that and giving awesome handjobs).

My wife used to give me the occasional BJ, but about three years ago she suddenly became averse to cum anywhere but in her pussy. She says it's the consistency.

Oh well. She makes up for it in other ways.

My wife has never once let me cum to completion in her mouth. Been married almost 20 years. There were three or four times where I caught her off guard and the first drip of cum shot in her mouth. But each time that happened she immediately jumped up and ran to the bathroom to spit it out - as if she'd just been exposed to the ebola virus.

It's particularly frustrating to me because when we first started dating she told me about her ex boyfriend, it's a guy I know a little through work. She said he used to cum in her mouth and she'd swallow. So sometimes I'd bump into this guy knowing he came in my wife's mouth but I never have.

My wife really likes giving blowjobs. She can suck me so hard that I can always come for a second time. Next month we are going to get married, so last weekend she had her bachelorette stag night. She asked me in advance how I would feel when she would have a stripper. I said that I was OK that she would have a stripper as entertainment, as long she would make sure the guy would come. I heard now afterwards, that there was indeed a male stripper and that she sucked him dry for the enjoyment of all other women present. I am so looking forward to the pictures.

You misspelled "fiancé" :)

But it sounds like you've found a keeper, so I don't blame you for locking her down with your terminology before the contract is signed!

I'm guessing this Bachelorette party isn't one of those where the Mother attends?

My Wife
 

My wife dont suck my cock. She only does it missionary or doggy and doesn't like cum anywhere on her except in her pussy. Wont let me finger her ass. Wont suck for more then a few seconds. Certainly wont swallow.

So, what does she do that she's still your wife?
(or what did she do to become your wife?)

Just remembered a girl....
 

I had a close work associate, who I did not fool around with (unfortunately), tell me that she thought blowjobs were a much more intimate and loving act than intercourse. All this was when the movie "Deep Throat" was getting a lot of attention. She told me that having a cock in her mouth that she could lick, or move on, or play with her tongue, or lick the balls all took more caring than just laying back and letting someone fuck you. She then told me that she should have given her husband more blow jobs when they were dating. Then she may not have gotten pregnant while in her second year of college and have to leave school.

In the same conversation, our secretary (Vivian) told us that she had seen the movie and it was disgusting. I told her that I found it hard to believe that she had never given her young husband head and she told us that "of course I have blown him, but I would never swallow!"

One last thought.....
 

We men are stupid for letting oral sex be described as a blow JOB. We should describe it as a blow gift or something similar. My very virgin wife blew me early in our relationship ---and her teeth were sharp that first time---but she learned quickly and I explained this was an easy way to keep her from getting pregnant. I also explained that getting the sperm in her mouth was a sign of a job well done and that it was the reward. Also, it saved us from having to clean up afterwards. She has never complained about swallowing over the last 50+ years and she did it again this last Saturday. Of course, I make sure she comes too, and I have several ways of doing that.

When my wife and I started dating, she had only one lover prior to me. I found out that she did not give head, that she had never had a cock in her mouth. (she was 20 years old). It became my mission to get my cock in her mouth, I really liked her, we were very compatible and the sex otherwise was very good. It was some 4 months before she took my cock in her mouth and the first time she did she literally took just the head and held it there. She eventually learned how to give pretty good head and about 5 to 6 months later she gave me a complete blow job, even letting me cum in her mouth. About a year later my sister threw an engagement party for us and for some unknown reason invited an old girlfriend of mine, the girl I dated before my wife. I could tell my wife wasn't happy about this and she watched any interaction I had with my former. Later that night after the party we were enjoying some good foreplay when while I was laying on my side, she began to give me head (which by this time she had become very good at). Before long, I couldn't believe it, she was taking me deep in her throat! She gagged a few times, but was able to continue. hat same night, she also let me fuck her ass, which we had only done a few times. It was incredible. We both refer to that night as "the night in my brothers bedroom." She doesn't remember it being the night of the party but I do. We've been married almost 30 years and she deep throats me at almost every love making session and I get her ass about 6 times or so a year. I can't imagine being married and not getting head. I guess I'm very lucky.

Because I am an auditory type person sounds are very important to me which is why i read nearly all of the written stories on OCC and find them usually more interesting than the pictures. Having read so many it is amazing to me that one very common occurence is what women will do when they perceive a threat to their position from another woman. In the example above your fiance (at the time) knew your former GF would have likely had sex with you when you were dating and thus was a threat to her. Later she wanted to show you that she was better than your ex and would do "whatever it takes" to prove that. There are many stories like this on OCC and I wish that I had known these things when I was younger and yes Frank you are a lucky guy.

As to the title of this thread...I hope not !
 

My sister, who was older than me, taught me at an early age to love oral sex. She loved sucking my cock, and yes, she swallowed. Her only insistance was that I returned the favor and pleasure her pussy. I must have done it right as she brought some of her girlfriends around to share the experience. Our parents were very liberal and nudity was a common thing at our house. We were NOT nudists, we just liked to be naked and to be seen naked. My sister insisted her friends learn to jack me off until they couldn't resist putting my cock in their mouths. Years later,when I first started dating my wife to be, my sister cornered her and told her if she wanted a chance with me she better be a good cock sucker, and swallow. Well, she did and still does and in fact has a technique I love where she jacks me off into her mouth , lets it run out over her hand where I can see my cum on her hand and licks it all up, and swallows it all. She has demonstrated this technique to many of our friends AND our daughter , and now our grand daughter. We only want others to learn to enjoy what we have loved all these years. Our grand daughter tells us sucking cock has been a favorite past time in high school and college.

Things like that happen when the family tree only has one branch...

My wife is quite fond of sucking my dick and has been since we started dating in 1973. On the other hand, she's not fond of the taste of semen, so she's only sucked me to completion, perhaps, a dozen times in all those years. I can't disagree with her, having tasted my cum when I ate her out after intercourse. If I didn't like it, I couldn't justify trying to force her to do it.

Sadly, I had prostate surgery last fall. Intercourse now means using a vacuum pump, Viagra, and a half-gallon of KY jelly (especially when it's time to get that damned elastic ring off my dick!). When I cum, my ejaculate is usually about a few teaspoons of urine. Add that to the lousy taste of KY jelly, and there's no way I'd let her suck my dick until (if) things improve.

F

You won't find a girl who is part of the millennial generation who doesn't suck a cock. It has repeatedly been the first type of sexual interaction I have had with all of my partners.

There's no way that is true 100%. No, I haven't tried to look at any stats on sexual behavior. You can't make a claim such as that based only on your personal experience.