I'm sad to say I'm now a widower but my wife of 35 years loved sucking cock. She started when she was an enthusiastic teenager and we were dating then never stopped. Oral was a regular part of our sex lives and I don't remember ever having to ask for a blow job. She just did it. I do need to say she didn't like cum in her mouth. The taste bothered her. Once in a while she's take it in her mouth but that was more to please me than anything else. When I was getting close to cumming we'd usually switch to one of two things. Sometimes we'd switch to f_cking and I'd cum there. The other was cumming on her little a-cup tits. Then we'd have fun with the cum on her tits.

YOU POOR BASTARD!
 

That's a sad story- but an honest one. I assume (and hope) that she does other things well and that your love goes beyond good head. :D

We talked about it last weekend. She says she just does it because I like it, but she honestly doesn't care for it. She said she doesn't understand how I can stay down on her for so long. I, of course, told her how much I love tasting and feeling her pussy.

I think there is hope, though. About a year ago, she was adamant that she did not want to do anal. I started messing with her ass again a couple weeks ago like I have slowly been doing over time and then she suddenly just turned around and presented it to me. I fucked it with plenty of lube. She said it hurt when it was over, so I thought that was it - one and done. Last weekend, though, I used a new vibrator on her that has a small part that vibrates in her ass. I ended up with a vibrating dildo inside her pussy, a vibrator on her clit and my cock fucking her ass. It was wild. She was totally into it and I couldn't stop myself from cumming in her ass.

Maybe by this time next year she will be sucking my cock and enjoying it.

Thanks for everyone's input. I think it just comes down to likes and dislikes and everyone is different - but who knows why or when the likes and dislikes change? I think I will back off the blowjob like I did the ass and see what happens.

Not so much a ladies pov but in a recent survey . . .
 

50,000 men were asked what they like about blow jobs ?

1% like the warmth

2% liked the intimacy

3% liked to watch it

and

94% said they just liked the peace and quiet!

lmao :D

Sorry couldnt resist.

Thanks for everyone's input. I think it just comes down to likes and dislikes and everyone is different - but who knows why or when the likes and dislikes change?

A couple of other points to bear in mind relate to taste. Firstly people have different tastes so what is sweet to one person can be rather bitter to another and also not all men tastes the same. Now I dont know what men do taste like but I know a person's state of health, any medications that they are on and even what they have been eating or drinking can affect the taste and smell of bodily fluids. You can notice this with their body odour and sometimes general appearance.

I am very lucky in that my partner is a fitness fanatic and also ultra careful with her diet and hardly ever eats any strong smelling food which means that she hardly ever has any body odour and also no hint of a fishy smell in the pubic region. This makes it a great pleasure to go down there and stay there and as she enjoys that wery much it is a win-win situation. Other women that I have been with were not as good and whilst I still did it with gusto it would have been nice to be able to breathe through my ears.

Does she really know most women?
 

Most women,"like her", narrows it down, but that's still a lot of women to know; nothwithstanding the topic of discussion.Methinks one has to be pretty well acquainted with a person before bringing up the blow job question..Methinks she either saw, heard read somebody else say this. Believing is someone else's beliefs is an American Phenomena..Bob

- Dang! Has anyone told the folks at The Vatican?

My thoughts
 

Another single guy's thoughts on the matter. This may be very strange but it's no less true. I am currently with the only girl that's ever been able to finish me with a blowjob. Prior to her I would always accept them. They felt good but beyond that I never saw the point much. So anyway, I can't really speak on if she likes giving them. She does give them though. What I can speak on are two things. 1. She swallows sometimes but not every time. I wish she swallowed every time but I am happy to receive them at all so I keep my mouth shut...so she keeps hers open :) 2. I like to put my hand on the back of her head and slightly push on it not to force my penis down her throat but to keep her in a rhythm where our mutual goal occurs. At first she wasn't sure she liked that. She enjoys a guy that takes charge in bed (I started doing it one time without asking or warning her) but she did originally think it was to force it down her throat. So I guess I agree with the person (or people) that said to do what it takes to make it feel as comfortable as possible to her and she should do the same for you.

It's varied on the girls i've been with i'd say its about 50/50 of those who will do and those who like to do it.

When I was single, I met a girl online and we swapped pics including nudes. We met up soon after. One of the first things she said was "I can't stop thinking about your dick". We hung out and talked etc. She had just gotten her nipples pierced so I asked to see them. She had big tits and kept pressing them together, and wanted me to put my hand between them to see how it would feel getting titty fucked. She soon asked if I wanted to titty fuck her, and I pulled down my pants with a raging boner.

Not to brag but I'm pretty decently endowed so I stand there with a big stiffie, waiting on her to say something. So she says "well I guess I need to wet it first". She then proceeded to give me the best toe curling porn star blowjob imaginable. After I felt what a first class blowjob felt like, I had no interest in titty fucking anymore. She was kneeling and I was standing, and she looked into my eyes the whole time. She went deeper than any other girl had, and sucked it hard and wet.

After 10 min or so her cell phone rang. When she went to answer it I was thinking oh great, why are you stopping now when I'm getting the best head of my life. So i sit down on the sofa while she is talking. I cant remember exactly who it was but it was either her brother or her father, pretty sure father. So i'm sitting there and she starts sucking my dick while talking on the phone. I couldnt believe it and it made me even hornier than I already was. It wasn't long after she hung up and I was cumming in her mouth. She pulled off and started jerking me saying "we just met I dont want you to fall in love" as I finished cumming on my stomach.

The best blowjob I've ever gotten and I don't think I'll ever get again.

My wife does not do blow jobs much anymore, but
 

my wife used to give me blow jobs at least once a week but now does so infrequently. However I have two friends one 20 years younger and the other 24 years younger that both enjoy giving me blow jobs. The one 20 years younger almost always starts sex with a blow job and likes to suck me to completion. She likes to swallow and also likes for me to come on her breast and face. If she takes me from her mouth to cum on her face or breast she always scoops up my cum and licks it off her fingers. My friend that is 24 years younger said she does not like to suck cock and says she rarely sucks her husband. She did not suck me the first few times we had sex but now sucks and licks me prior to sex most of the time. She does not like to swallow and does not she says she wants my cum inside her to carry home with her.

wife says
 

When me and my wife first met and started dating she would suck the hell out of my dick,she continued this thru the first couple of years of us being married. Then it just cut down over time,now I might get my beefy sucked about once every couple of months unless she is in a certain mood. I guess it varies depending on the woman if they like it or not,everyone is different.

I haven't found any woman that wouldn't suck my cock after I first went down on her, without being asked, but I have been with a couple girls that didn't like being eaten. One sucked cock, the other did not.

dating a muslim woman now mid forties
one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen, and one of the tightest pussies I have ever felt
she will not ever suck cock
unfortunate

My wife actually loves giving blowjobs and is disappointed that I don't ask more often. Mostly is because I'd rather just fuck her. Watching her cum makes it easier for me to cum also, so it's usually happens with mutual masturbation with her blowing me to finish me off.

That said, she doesn't swallow or even take it in the mouth because semen upsets her stomach and the last few times, she threw up. Facials are also out of the question as semen is one of those bodily fluids that squicks her out.

Still, she feels that not giving blowjobs should be grounds for divorce . :D

Blow Job Queen
 

I met my wife at a party in the woods when she was 18. She was barefoot (She still goes barefoot a lot) wearing just a short skirt, topless, a little drunk, and stoned. She asked me if I wanted a blow job. (Dumb question to ask an 18 year old guy) We got in my old car and I played with her tits. I tried to get my hand under her skirt but she said no one gets under her skirt. It's a blow job or nothing. Well she sucked me until my eyes rolled back in my head. She really knew how to suck a dick. I lasted about a minute in her talented mouth. She cradled my balls in one hand while she sucked. I soon came a lot but this babe knew how to swallow so she didn't miss a drop. I had my new poleroid camera with me so I asked her if I could take a picture of her. She said sure. I asked her if she wanted to put her blouse back on but she said a guy pulled it over her head an hour or so ago and she doesn't know where it is. She said, "Go ahead. Take it. I know you like my titties from the way you sucked them, so this will give you something to look at later when you're horny." I took the picture. I asked for her name and phone number and wrote it down on a scrap of paper. She smiled and said I was cute and headed back to the crowd at the party. I hung around and saw her giving several guys blow jobs. I found out that she never let anyone touch her pussy but she would give a guy a blow job at the drop of a hat. Later she sucked me off again. Same fantastic mouth never missing a drop. I found out later she never did find her blouse. A girlfriend drove her home and loaned her one of hers to wear home. I didn't see her with her top on until our first date. I found out she was a virgin and sucked dick to keep her dates out of her pants. (In 2 months I managed to cure her of her virginity.) I also found out she loved to show off her body. She hardly ever wore a bra. (All of you young guys really missed the braless 70s.) She still sucks my dick and loves it. She says she loves the taste of cum. I think she sucks dick better now and she was great then. Several of my friends agree with me and think she's the best too.
I still have the picture in the woods after my first blowjob from her. You can see from the smile on her face that she just loves showing her tits and making guys drool over her.

Mrs. HedoRocks
 

My wife absolutely LOVES giving me blow jobs! We've been married almost 18 years, and there is no sign of her slowing down. She said in her past relationships she felt it was more an obligation than something she really wanted to do. But with me, she says she can't get enough. I'd get one every day if it was purely up to her. Sometimes even this perpetually horny guy has to say No Mas! I need a break every once in a while! LOL

Often as not my current significant other wakes me up with a blowjob. she certainly seems to like them!

Am I just lucky?
 

I dont have too many notches on my bed post (I'm pretty sure there are 10), but I can honestly say that none of the women I've been with have ever refused to give a BJ. Some have been more enthusiastic than others, of course, and some better than others, but all did it without hesitation.

Luckily for me, my wife is the most talented head giver I have ever met and she loves it. She is also another of those women who can orgasm while working her magic. She says it turns her on to see how much it turns me on and loves watching me react to the different techniques she uses. From sucking on just the head while using her tongue to tease it (which drives me absolutely crazy) to completely deep throating my whole cock (and I am close to 8 inches and quite thick) she is amazing!

On the other hand, she does not like receiving oral sex, which disappoints me because I love giving. While all the the other women I have dated have all loved it, my wife rarely allows me to do it and I have never gotten her to orgasm orally. Just a mental block due to her upbringing. :mad:

I've come to detirmine that if you find a girl that like blowjobs and sex, do whatever it takes to keep her happy. Otherwise you get one that so many other here have experienced. It's all good till the vows. Then it goes down hill. Shoot I think a ring is like an anti aphrodisiac.

My wife seems to expect giving a BJ, one of the first times.
 

It was not long after my wife and I were married that I convinced her that it would be fun and exciting to have her naked around a few select male friends of ours. I really love seeing her naked in front of other men. I admit that the friends were for the most part my friends from work and from professional dealings. It didn’t take too much convincing along with liberal amounts of alcohol and mellow smoking material.

The first few instances were pretty tame compared to later situations, they were mostly just feeling and kissing as we talked her out of her clothes. She would usually dance for us and with us and then remain naked while we enjoyed the view.

I can still vividly remember when one night our friend Dennis was visiting and my wife had entertained us with her naked charms. Again this was early in our playing mode so no actual sex acts were expected. This was also one of the very first times that she had not only stripped, but had convinced both of us guys to join her naked. We drank, smoked, took turns kissing her, touching her breasts and very moist pussy. We took turns slow dancing with her, holding her naked body tight against ours.

I remember while Dennis was taking his turn dancing with her, I excused myself to use the bathroom and to get all of us drink refills. When I left them, they were in the upright position, dancing making as much frontal contact possible. When I returned maybe 5 minutes later, Dennis was still standing, but my wife was on her knees with his very erect cock in her mouth. She had one hand cradling his balls and her other on his ass holding him as she tried to swallow his full length.

He had both hands on her shoulders more holding himself up than pushing her down.
He looked up as I walked in and mouthed, “Oh my God!” and shook his head like he didn’t know what to do. Her actions were a surprise to both of us. I was somewhat dumb-struck myself and just stood there watching my wife suck my friends cock. It was a first for me , seeing her with another man’s cock in her mouth.

She didn’t suck him until he came, though it wasn’t for lack of trying. I think it may have been a situation of too much alcohol on his part. I sat on the couch and watched while she practiced her skills for a good 10-15 minutes. Finally when she said her jaws were getting tired, she kissed her way up his chest and they slowly parted. From my viewpoint it was amazingly erotic.

Later after Dennis left and she and I were in bed, fucking like rabbits, I asked her what caused her to suddenly suck his cock. She said she didn’t plan on doing anything like that at all, but while dancing with him and seeing and feeling him naked, she felt like it was what she wanted to do. She said she knew he really wanted her to suck him. She said they didn’t discuss it, that she just lowered herself down and licked him and sucked him into her mouth. She said she had no intention to fuck him, but sucking his cock was perfectly alright. She felt that it was much less intimate sucking him than fucking him, more in the line of deep kissing.

I have been lucky enough to watch her suck several of our male friends since then, most to completion.

There are already enough long answers.

My answer to her is; "You Know Nothing Jon Snow"

:cool:

Hot story! I have always loved your tales, my man! :)

I've been married twice. First wife turned out to be a sour b*tch who eventually shut down sexually, but gave great head if she ever took a notion to. I think she was just a natural, and on balance, was the best I've ever had. A wasted talent; she never remarried and lives alone with her needlepoint and cats, so no other cocks have gotten to enjoy her skills either, at least in the long term.

Been married to my second wife almost 20 years. She too was married once before. She reports that her first husband was a three-minute wonder who only wanted to stick his sub-sized wiener in, pump a few times, then roll over and go to sleep. She'd never had a cock in her mouth when I met her, but I fixed that in a hurry. Took a lot of training, encouragement and practice, but she loves men and loves sex, so was a willing pupil, and is now passably good at it. Most important thing is, she simply loves sucking cock now, and enthusiasm counts for a lot. I get my cock sucked extensively every time we have sex. She says that when it's apparent the sex is going to start her mouth begins to water because she'll get to suck a dick for a while.

We also swing and hotwife from time to time. Sometimes she'll start a running narrative when I'm fucking her about the cocks she's sucked during past adventures. The yummy tulip-shaped heads, shaft size, what the cum tasted like, and on and on. It's quite a turn on.

BFF BJ
 

Don't tell my BFF that most women don't like to suck cock. My BFF enjoys sucking a man hard before it goes into her pussy. She especially enjoys getting it deep into her throat. She sucked my best friend twice in half an hour as a favour to me on his birthday. She's not too much into swallowing though she's taken my load a few times when my cock was deep in her throat.
Do these photos show a woman that does not like to give a blowjob?

Getting back to Larry's original question where his wife is telling him,

People with similar worldviews tend to find each other and congregate together. It's pretty clear she and her best friend have decided they don't like it, and thus assume most other women don't either. Such is clearly not the case. The small sample on this thread shows it.

I had a fuck-friends couple between marriages and the wife loved sucking dick so much I could barely pry her lips off my cock long enough to get her to lie down and fuck. She would sense me getting close to blowing and slow down, or stop for just long enough for the sensation to die away, then start in all over again. I'd sit there on the couch and chat with her husband forever, gab about the weather, politics, baseball and whatever-the-fuck else, while the wife was between my knees leisurely sucking away. I liked it for a while, but finally grew weary of the interminable edging and finally bade them farewell, and moved on.

Anyway, Larry's married and can't (or won't) just next her and move on to another girl who will give him what he wants. He has to decide if it's worth it to stay and only get head occasionally from a woman with a poor, pissy attitude. If she's that much of a prude and won't ever turn loose and enjoy it, that's her issue. Larry's issue is to decide whether he wants to stay for the long term if he's sure it's a sexual situation that's never going to improve.

lucky to have met
 

personally my wife of 15 years only blows me to get me going and its not very long. I keep telling her I would love for her to do it to completion but she gets to fired up and wants to fuck.
Although I was lucky enough to have 2 separate girl friends that to this day I think they loved blowing more than anything else. Oddly enough I met the second girl friend shortly after the first one and I stopped seeing each other.
the First one I wrote a story about how she surprised me sucking me off to see if I had gotten lucky the night before. When I met her our first official date was out to dinner with friends. She got pretty drunk fairly quickly at dinner which I thought was odd. She started telling me she was getting sick. We ended up leaving before dinner was over and I was going to take her home. I thought well this night is a wash.. Once in the car I was not far down the road and she just reached over and undid my pants and blew me on the way home. She did not even say anything. We ended up at home having sex most of the night, so I forgave her for leaving dinner.. First thing any morning when I was with her she would just roll over and blow me. .loved it...

The second one took me by surprise as well. I had met her at work and to this day I think she is the hottest woman I have ever been with. she turned heads like crazy. she was about 5'6 and maybe 100 pounds. She actually looked like Jane Seymour in her younger days. The way we got together was crazy. she was actually seeing one of my beer drinking buddies. He had announced how he was moving out of state which was no big deal he had more woman than anyone i had ever met. I had fantasized over this woman so much and thought she was out of my league.
she shocked me at his going away party in a bar and came up to me and just told me she really liked me.. I was blown away and said what about "him" she said who cares he is leaving.. She said she would like to come to my house and have a beer some time. This guy was not a great friend or anything but part of me still thought i should give it a couple weeks at least. haha.
He left that weekend and the next week at work she kept saying how she wanted to come over. I was just not comfortable with it. Well a few days later she just shows up at my house.. I let her in and get her a beer. She kept telling me how much she liked me. She was so hot in her work dress and stockings.. I bet she was not there 15 min. and started kissing me. Then right away undid my pants and started blowing me. I could not believe it. After a couple min. I said lets go to the bedroom and continue. She flat out said NO its my time of the month this is all you get. I did not complain. She did let me get her naked. not a hair on that body! still the most beautiful pussy i have ever seen.
Well come to learn in the future she loved sucking dick. She almost always wanted me to finish in her mouth (or ass lucky me). I remember one night she was out with girlfriends and she had planned to stay at my house. I had to work really early so just told her to come in. I was actually about half asleep but she walks in, pulls the covers off and starts sucking my then soft cock. did not take long.
We did not stay together as I would not help but think she was sucking every cock she could get a hold of but it sure was fun while it lasted. :)

Well, for everyone is just silly talk. But, my opinion on the matter is. First, it depends on the mood. Secondly, I like everything in his friend. Whether it is a member or a finger or an ear or nose. What I want, and then I caress. Regarding the member, it is certainly more preferable than the nose. But from the point of view of physiology, what's the difference? There have to be at the highest level hygiene. To understand the man! Take your finger tongue, compress it when it is soft, then strain it, not letting go of his fingers. Analyze your impressions. Of course, this is not comparable to oral sex, but something, I think you will feel different. Here about the same.

Could you . . . translate that into English please?

There are all kinds of women out there...you can't really generalize.

I had a GF that loved to blow me. I could be sitting down watching TV; she'd pull out my dick and start blowing me. Even when I wasn't in the mood for sex she'd just drop down, pull down my pants and gobble my cock. She just like having cock in her mouth; that was HER thing. Blowing made her cum. I think she liked it even more than actual intercourse. My cock spent more time in her mouth than actually in her vagina.

Many women, like my ex wife, consider BJ's as foreplay. They do it just to get you hard so they then can get fucked harder. If I happened to cum quicker than usual in her mouth, my ex would spit it out, come back and start blowing me again so she could get dick in her.

One GF never really blew me. We'd just have sex, and when came time for me to cum, she'd jump off my cock, grab it, shove it in her mouth and deep throat me as I came. She said she liked the mixed taste of my cum and her juices hit the back of her throat. Ok...

One friend with benefits liked having cum all over her. So she'd blow me and when it came time to cum, she'd point my dick wherever she felt like getting jizzed on (sometimes her face, sometimes her tits), rub it in, and then suck and swallow my remaining jizz. I think she actually got that from watching porn and figured that's what men liked. Yet, of all my partners she was the best. She had a way of sucking out my remaining jizz that would make me hard again, and then we'd go for another round.

Then there are women like my fiancée who are more into licking. Licking, done properly, can be as enjoyable as a BJ. Usually with her it is it's own thing: we lick and jerk each other off instead of fucking. Fucking is for another day.

So yeah...women run the gamut when it comes to dealing with cock in their mouths.

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This is about my first wife that I failed to keep any of her nudes, unfortunately, just have to say that.
Read my prior posts my first wife I saw her mother nude on slides prior to marriage. She, my first wife, loved giving blow jobs so much I found out after our divorce a couple of my friends received them while we were married. I even got a couple after our divorcé for needed help from me. She admitted she did my two friends that were both married and claimed they she was the best according to them. She compared it to a guy wanting to see naked or fuck their best friends girl friend or wife. She went on a year later earning a living providing what she loved to do but that’s another story only if someone wants to hear it.

BJ
 

Think "Long Term". It's just another form of "Birth Control". Like "Anal". Heard of University Girls who ONLY do BOTH of these, 'cos they are saving their Virginity for their Honeymoon !

Loves it
 

My partner loves giving head. No doubt about it. I have written about it past so won’t repeat, but even a stranger on a beach stroking himself for her, I could see her ready to pounce just before we were interrupted. It’s like she can’t help herself she wants to suck them all…

So “all women hate giving head” is rumour and here-say. Started by “a” women that hates giving head.

I’d say it varies. Like I love eating pussy. Then there are guys who could take it or leave it and then there are guys who refuse to do it. Missing out in my opinion.

I’ve had girlfriends that ranged from being willing to do it like as a favor. To girlfriends who only really did it as an act of foreplay. But my wife legitimately loves it. I love getting a text at work that says “hurry home so I can suck that dick”. She really takes care of my cock. There’s lead up of licking and stroking. She drags out the process and I’m all for it!

mine loves it
 

My fwb wud rather suck my dick than anything else. Even better than me eating her pussy. She loves to suck my dick and swallow my come. (W're both 75!!!

Many women want to marry, have a kid and a stupid husband who works for the money. They will do sex, blowjobs and whatever to get that. As soon as they are married, why should they suck an ugly dich with disgusting sperm coming out.
So be very carful when marrying. With a prostitute, you fuck once but only pay once. With a wife, you might fuck a few times but pay for the rest of your life. Be sure of what to expect before you marry.

Never met a woman that didn't do a BJ~
 

When my wife was on flickr we chatted with many people there and I heard from a few guys that their wife's didn't do oral ever on them! I was surprised by that cause since I first started having any sexual relations with women, I never asked them to nor forced them to do oral on my cock and was surprised that all of them did~
There was a few that I would term or call more Classy and lady like by their looks and maybe adding in their working job titles, so I never even dreamed of them going down and doing oral and it made it more exciting for me!
Now that my wife and I got into a sharing and more spicy lifestyle, we found another or maybe I should say it was me that found most of the women that we enjoy company with do Anal SEX and ask if I'm interested or if I done it before?
As for being allowed to CUM in their mouths and having them swallow it, that's another group to deal with!
:o

No. It’s not true.

loves to suck me
 

My fwb had been married for 50 years but never sucked him or anyone else. NEVER. he died. We started having sexx and she finally began touching my dick with her lips, then licking and finally sucking. Now she would rather suck me off than have me lick and suck her pussy,

I agree. Not all hate it. Far from it in my experience, and from what my wife says about her friends.

I guess I’m fortunate that I married a woman that loves sucking cock, and always swallows. Always has. Her reasoning is that “isn’t that the purpose of a blowjob?”

I know some guys like to pull it out and shoot on a woman’s face or tits. I can see how that’s hot and like in a porn. For me, I can’t beat the feeling of being close, she knows I’m close, and she just sucks harder until I orgasm in her mouth.

I have a couple friends, whose wives don’t give head any more. I have to say I’m tempted to loan them my wife.

Similar scenario with one of wife’s oldest friends and her husband. The lady is pretty open minded, but that’s the one thing she won’t do for him. Always felt sorry for the guy, but never plucked up the courage to suggest that my wife should step in her place.