There is not one safe website…they all have opportunities and risks…it is up to you to put yourself out there so you can find people but be careful how much you share on any given website. It will hurt your results but we never look for quantity we look for quality.

We don't partake, but have friends that do.

Some have incredibly strong marriages.
Some it seems that one partner does it to keep the other partner happy
And I've seen couples get divorced over it, usually because one member of the couple finds someone different they want to spend the rest of their life with.

More than 50% of marriages end because someone finds someone different at work, church or the grocery store. That is why in some cases having fun exploring with your spouse or partner can bring you closer together as a couple.

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My wife and I have a very strong marriage and are open about everything. Very honest but always respectful. I’m hoping this will open our horizons and try new things. As you said, I hope and feel this will bring us closer together.