Never had it done, and deeply regret it.
 

Indym, to start off I have followed your escapades with your wife over the past couple of years, and have truly enjoyed every minute.

From what I have read, I would guess are young enough to be one of my kids, and your wife may be in the same age bracket as my oldest grandchild.
I have lived most of my life and you have most of your life before you.

One thing I have come to realize over the last 10 to 15 years is that you have only one opportunity at this life we have her on earth. I know, people say that all the time, but at some time in your life, if you take the time to contemplate your life as you have lived it, you will realize it and internalize it.

My wife would never consent to a glamour shoot. As a young woman she was Playmate beautiful. As I write this today I would love to have some professional glamour photo's of her.

I don't want to sound preachy, but if you want to do it and she is willing then by all means do it. If you don't, a time will come in the future where you will be kicking yourself for not doing it. The years make things wrinkle and sag.
My wife is still the most beautiful woman on earth to me, and when we turn out the light and make love she is still 23, but I would still love to have pictures of her in her prime.

Don't let the opportunity pass you by. Most of the thinks you will regret in life are the things you didn't try or do.

Thank you for the kind words, and I'm glad you've enjoyed reading about us over the past couple of years. We have actually commented to each other that a couple of years isn't long but that it is hard to even think about the time we were not together. A little sappy, I know.

Your guess about age is probably right for my wife but not for me. I'm older than her (and very lucky), but I agree with your sentiment. We like to take pics and videos, as it is, and having a professional do it is exciting. She did have a boudoir shoot as an engagement present for me and said she enjoyed taking the pictures as much as I like looking at them. That next level of professional x-rated stills and videos hasn't happened, though. I want to do it, she says she wants to do it, and we both get turned on talking about it. I'm sure others have experienced this, but in the heat of passion, a lot of things get said.

I'm in my own head more than I need to be, but I NEVER want her to do anything just for me. I'm fully capable of scheduling it, but I haven't. Probably because of what I just mentioned and wanting her to take the initiative as a reassurance that she really wants to. I know what it would do to me if she sent me a txt that she scheduled our x-rated session! :D

I think I'm going to send her a txt before I leave my office and ask if next Saturday afternoon works for our porn shoot as a bluff, haha.

It was odd at first
 

I posted this on a different thread about external photo processing (back in the pre-digital days).

Early in our marriage we took a short vacation at a resort area a short drive away that had multiple hotels that catered to couples. At the show the first night the MC announced they had staff photographers who could “come to your room and take adult photos you couldn’t get printed at home”.

Not only years before digital cameras, but many retail places that developed film wouldn’t do nude pictures (although they may have kept some for themselves). Your only good choice was polaroid.

My wife was a very conservative woman then, and when I looked at her she said I was crazy. The next day we started talking about it, and she was loosing up. The next night after dinner and drinks, she agreed and I booked an appointment.

We were pretty nervous, when he arrived, but he put us at ease explaining what happens and that he’s seen lots of people so don’t worry about your insecurities. Started with some solo pictures of my wife stripping and nude in various poses. Then he asked if we wanted “more” pictures. I understood what he meant and I got undressed. It was a bit odd at first, but I was in my 20’s so no issue being hard. She was really turned on too. We had sex in a few different positions while he took pictures. After I came, he said he would be finished and how to pick up pictures the next day.

They turned out really nice, but basically just stayed in an album. The sad part is it disappeared somewhere in the three home moves over the next 30 years. No idea what happened. I guess a mover must have taken them. Because they were company-paid relocation moves we had a crew that packed us up each time. I keep looking to see if they will show up on a website but haven’t yet.

All in all, it was a positive experience and very hot to have sex in front of him. I wouldn’t have thought my new wife would be as comfortable with it (drinking helped lower her inhibitions), but she was really turned on like I was.

Thanks for posting this. There really is no reason that we are nervous about it, other than a leak or for them to go missing. There is just something that seems extra naughty about it, though. We want it to be well-lit and have a high production quality to it... not like what we've ever snapped/filmed before.

How did your wife take it when you both realized that the album was missing?

By the way, did your photographer direct you at all (e.g., change positions, hold a position)? We like amateur porn, but one of our reasons for doing this is to get some great views and angles that I just can't do myself. We've tried, and if I set the camera up on a little tripod, it is either too far away, or we fuck ourselves out of frame! It has made us laugh rewatching a few of those, though.

I did send that teasing txt and got a cute response, so I sent an email to the photographer who shot her boudoir right away. She responded on Saturday morning but had a wedding she was prepping for and sent a pretty short let's talk on Monday response. I hope it was an I'm busy quick response vs. um... I'm not interested in doing that kind of shoot anymore.

How did your wife take it when you both realized that the album was missing?
Shocked that someone had looked at the pictures of her naked and having sex (ignoring that I was also naked and having sex with her in the pictures too). Upset the pictures were taken. Then she came to the conclusion it really wasn’t that big a deal. She doesn’t realize their are sites like this where naked pictures are posted. Probably better. The next step for her was to be turned on by it. I’ve come to learn she’s got a bit of exhibitionist in her. In fact, she liked to play a role play game where I pretended to be the photographer and she did the sex acts with him. It turned her on to think that there were moving guys masturbating to her pictures.

By the way, did your photographer direct you at all (e.g., change positions, hold a position)?
Yes, he did. It was a real turn-on to be honest. Hearing him telling us to try different positions including stopping intercourse to perform oral on each other. Not just having us do different positions, but to change up the speed and deepness of thrusting, and to vocalize how good it felt. It really was hot.

I'm glad your wife didn't get too freaked out by the loss of your photos and shut things down. I probably worry about leaked/stolen photos and videos more than my wife, but she isn't thrilled about it, either. At her age, she is less worried about the possible longer-term impact. In her newly started career, it could make things difficult for her. It wouldn't be great for me, either.

Your photographer did exactly what we want ours to do! I told her that we want her help guiding the shoot, and her response was kind of funny. She said "absolutely" and added that she doesn't do shoots if she is not involved. We are tentatively set for two Saturdays from now, and I'm excited about it. I don't remember if I mentioned it, but my wife is pregnant (still early). My wife wants to do this before she starts showing, and I've told her that if things go well and we like it, I would love to do one when she is much further along, too. I got a "maybe," which would be a big turn-on for me!

I mentioned previously that our photographer wanted to talk on Monday. It was mainly to lock down a date/time and discuss some specifics. It was kind of surreal and hot talking about it with her. We had her on speaker, and looking at my wife's face while we answered questions was hot. I was going to type that it was not embarrassing, but I guess it kind of was, running through the general plan, what we might wear, and anything that was a no-go or that we were not interested in.

It was slightly awkward when she hinted around about how long we thought our sessions would last (i.e., how long before I'm done LOL). She proposed that we book for a longer time period and take some breaks. The photographer is older than my wife but younger than me, and she even made suggestions about personal lubricant for my wife. My wife made a face at me, but her explanation was a good one (drying up over an extended period). My wife telling her about the lube we use and them talking back and forth like I wasn't there was interesting!

This kind of threw me, but she didn't really ask and told us she has a helper/assistant. She actually acted a little nervous telling us, too. We talked about it, and we're both turned on by it.

Glad we did!
 

Awhile back I mentioned to my wife that I would love to have her do some semi-professional boudoir shots. I have been taking fun sexy pics of her for awhile, ever since we were married pretty much, and I'm not too bad as a photog. But I knew the limits of my own skill and wanted to see what a pro could do. She is incredibly beautiful and I always thought she could model, so I was curious and told her so. She agreed to do it as an anniversary present.

I went on one of the model portfolio websites where photographers and models post their work, and located a couple guys near our area. They had to be guys of course, I love seeing her get naked in front of other guys so this was just one more excuse to expose her for a stranger, but with the added benefit of getting pics in the process! I reached out to one of the photographers and we chatted back and forth. He was not really professional he was just trying to get experience and break into the business, so he agreed to do it for free (getting to see my wife naked was clearly payment enough!). I vetted his authenticity and saw his work, so I sent him a few pics of her and - long story short we met at his studio (just a rented space in an industrial park), signed some privacy paperwork and set a date for the shoot.

Leading up to it she and I picked out some lingerie and jewelry she would wear, but I was very much hoping she would just end up totally naked. When we got to the studio he had set it up to have a blow up bed with a red silky cover and some candles, different props etc. He had also brought along a makeup guy to help with the shoot and get her all dolled up. Boudoir photography makeup is not her normal look so this was helpful.

As he got his cameras set up she went into the little washroom to change. I opened a bottle of wine I brought along to help make sure she was comfortable and relaxed. I needn't have worried, she came out of the dressing room in just a pair of lacey purple boy shorts, knee high black boots and a necklace. She looked so stunning! She sat in the chair drinking her wine while the makeup guy worked on her, then moved into the brightly lit studio area.

It started slowly enough and she was a little tentative and uncertain as he posed her, but he was a really nice guy so soon she got into it and relaxed. She did a couple changes of lingerie, but just as I had hoped she ended up taking a ton of pics totally naked. The whole thing lasted a couple hours and at the end he encouraged me to get in there with her so we got a few with me giving her a hand bra, holding her, kissing her neck, sexy and erotic stuff but nothing pornographic. However, at the end I did slide my hand down between her legs and she was soaking wet. I commented to her about it and she said "well of course what did you expect?". When we got home we fucked like crazy she was super turned on from all the attention and outfits and sexy posing.

After a couple weeks of editing he sent us a link to the photos and we were both completely happy with how they turned out. Now, 10 yeas later, she is still every bit as beautiful as she was in that moment. But we both know we're not getting any younger and its really great to have captured her at such a magnificent time in our lives. We'll always look back with appreciation for that decision and those photos.

Couple shots attached, you can see they turned out pretty good!

Oh and BTW - the guy had a weird fetish about using a hand mirror and showing her reflected in it, especially her pussy for some reason. Like a peek-a-boo or something. They turned out fine but It was kinda odd...

There are a lot of us here who are also glad you did it! She looks amazing in those shots!

One great opportunity you should not miss is pregnancy photos.

There is something so powerful and beautiful about the body of your pregnant wife carrying your child inside.

As most couples these days have only 1 or 2 children, there is a very limited opportunity.

Sometimes, during pregnancy, a previously shy wife might be more open to photos. I am not sure of the reasons why, but I have seen it.

Could be. Hard to say, but since she allowed it, who was I to question that.

I know with my wife, she was just super horny from month 4 through the end. I swear all I had to say was “do you want to…” and before I could finish the sentence she was naked and near an orgasm. She’s always very orgasmic, especially with direct clitoral stimulation.

During pregnancy she was always more so, and would cum even from penis in vagina. She loved oral and would let me lick her for a long time and just kept having them. As she got further along, she still was very horny, but could only have doggy style intercourse because of her belly. Not that it bothered me to be able to enter her from behind - my favorite position.

She let me take pictures then, because she was always horny and willing to indulge me with picture taking.