Long post
My wife is very religious. She did not grow up in a religious household. However she always had a strong desire not to do anything “wrong” and to not get in trouble.
She is very modest, but not around me. She does not care for rude terms, sometimes even normal terms like “blowjob” and “tits” are off-putting to her. But, sometimes she shocks me by things she does say. For example, a few years ago after sex she was purring in my ear and I said something about her sounding like a cat and she said, “But it was good pussy, right?” And just last night, I was on top, holding myself up front leaning rest position and she was moving her hips around in amazing ways, so afterward I told her I was going to start calling her “magic hips.” I thought she would say something about “Don’t you dare say that in public” but what she said was “I’m your sex toy.” !!!
In general, I don’t think the religion affects the sex life between the two of us as much as her personality and a couple bouts of depression have. The main thing is her modesty, which means she won’t dress sexy out in public very often. Doesn’t want to cause anyone to lust. (Obviously, she has no idea I come around OCC! I guess I have a different definition of lust than most people.) She is a petite thing with gymnast legs. Once we went out for our anniversary and she was wearing a minidress with a scoop neck looking like a million dollars, and at the restaurant (we eat early and it was almost empty) we were sitting in a booth. I was on one side she on the other. I went to the bathroom and when I came back she was in my seat. She said that there was a single man eating where he could see her and she was worried about her top. She has 34-B size and the they are wide-set, so there wasn’t any “cleavage” to speak of, the top was just lower than she usually wears. I felt sorry for the guy because he couldn’t see her legs anymore. She knows I like to show her off, but she has limits. Very strict limits.
She is rather normal in her sexual desires I think. We have a great sex life and she likes to know she is pleasing me. She knows I want to please her too. In fact, recently after one time when she was trying to orgasm and I couldn’t keep it up (getting older stinks! I’m only in my 50s!) I showed her a Christian sex site that has links to some toy stores run by Christians. It was embarrassing for her as Christian couples don’t usually talk about things like that with other couples, but she just ordered a vibrator! Hallelujah! I expect things will be even better soon!
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