But it doesn't seem as though your knowing this has meant really anything to you and you and her.

mE
 

Actually, I was the past lover at about 6 weddings I was invited too.:).... not awkward for me, but a couple of grooms had a problem w/ it....;).

The healthy attitude was, that was then, this is now,,,,, but some guys are into marrying for sex, and think theirs wives are practually virgins to them?? :rolleyes:

How do they think their wives learned about good sex that trapped theirs husbands???:eek:

A candualist? I had to look that one up. Oh yeah, but I had no idea that there was actually a formal word for that. I was with a woman for about 5 years when we were both in our early 20's. She got off on dressing up to go out and then playing a game where she would flirt with men in the bar. Didn't leave with them, never did anything hot and heavy with them, but it was fun. She encouraged me to do it too, probably because of the rush that she got seeing me get embarrassed when she would later tease me about the young woman that I was speaking to :D

She also liked going to the topless club with me and some of my guy friends...too bad she went batshite crazy...that is what ended it, she became a mental drunk.

See this post too https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/show...80#post1691080

2 guys at my wedding
 

I met my wife at university - she was 18 and still a virgin when she started university.

We got married 4 years after we left university and there were 2 guys at our wedding who had fucked her. One was a boyfriend she dated for about 6 weeks at uni. He took her to bed after plenty of tequila one night and fucked her. I know from what she's said when asked that he was very sexual and a bit more experienced than her and taught her a lot about sex. He came to the wedding with his partner who was a friend of my wife and so we couldnt really not invite him.

The other guy who came to our wedding was a friend of hers from the same course they'd done. Turns out that one time after a night out she'd been drunk again (anyone spotting a pattern) and he'd fucked her in her room. I found out from a friend of a friend that he'd fucked her bareback twice and left his cum in her pussy..

I have to admit was very horny seeing those guys at the wedding and knowing theyd seen my wife naked and fucked her more than once.

She at least had the decency to look shy when we met them in the line after the wedding. :)

For info, my wife is 5' 6", 34b, pretty face, slim, lovely legs and bum and at the age of 18 - 24 a very tight pussy :)

Photo
 

A couple of asked to see my wife at that age so here is a nice bikini shot from holiday when she was 20
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Wedding photo
 

And a couple of people have asked to see the wedding photo....I'm loving the comments so far :)

ukgoldfish
 

I replied to your private message... I'm not sure if it went thru or deleted... let me know...


Also, I forgot to say,,, I always enjoyed knowing I'd fucked the crap out of the bride.... >>>and it was the same at each wedding,, they looked over at me for a moment & smiled softly when they were cutting the cake... ...always the same?

Thank you
 

Thank you for the reply and the further comment

I must admit it made me very horny when my wife and her ex bf had a quiet moment during the reception and I could see how quickly she slipped back into flirting with him !

my messges to Grits
 

Originally Posted by ukgoldfish

Thank you for your comment about having been a past lover for 6 girls at their wedding - your comment was perfect that we should be grateful that thoughtful guys like you took our wives to bed and helped them learn to enjoy sex.

Can I ask if you felt satisfaction at the weddings knowing you'd enjoyed the girls and helped them mature sexually?

Griits reply
 

Yes, there was a kinky satisfaction that I taught most of them how to enjoy sex.. thats probably why they nvited me.... I wasn't interested in marrying them, ( I was married very briefly age 32-23)..... and they were sometimes mad about it, but I never promised anything, and always said I wasn't getting married again till in my 30s.... in fact I broke up w/ them all telling them that I didn;t want to hold them back from marriage dreams.... most got married w/ in 18 months of our break ups...... But I did show them how to "release & emjoy" the pleasures of sex w/o worring about using it to catch a man.. so our sex was very good.. they were able to let go and be a sl*t w/o worring about losing a potential husband who most likly might frown or worry about her desires and experience...... no one is marrying a virgin, but guys who can;t get laid usually think they are, sort-of, ..


(from UKgoldfish - sorry for messing up the messaging !)