Speaking for the swingers among us...lol. Go for it. We totally get where she's coming from. She wants to find her own boy toy, and someone who isn't in the 'lifestyle' often adds more appeal / excitement.

We've met lots of couples, single men and women and we've yet had our drinks spiked.... have a couple drinks and you'll get a quick sense where things will head, have fun!!

What's the problem. Go along but dont expect anything. But do keep in mind its swingers site you met on and don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Also as a single guy on a swinging sitge you need to realise they outnumber the couples and the ladies so don't expect a reply at all