Originally Posted by GRITS (Post 3470419)

Role Play in your sex sessions.....ask who she might like to fuck of your friends???

Or just make up unknown friends--NOT strangers----and play it......

ie:sex talk-----who did you fuck this week??
Your pussy feel full and used??
did you wear this outfit w him??
etc, etc..

Role play for months, it dosen't happen quick....if you don't have the long term patience to subliminally get her mind acclimated, don't bother trying at all......

Go to a swing club and watch ONLY..ONLY... don't push to do it........make her mind think about it slowly....

SOOOOOO many guys just push for quick results, and never get there, and usually cause their own problems in their marriage due to impatience....

Pics at the swing club....

Originally Posted by video_boy (Post 1618323)

That is great advice from Wife Scout.

If I might just add a couple of things (and perhaps stress a few more). You can not underestimate her feelings when you tell her of your fantasy. She will assume one of two things: 1. You don't love her anymore 2. You feel guilty about cheating on her (or as wife scout so wisely pointed out, you are after some strange yourself) Now, we all know that neither is true but women think differently than men and, by and large, attach too much emotion to the physical act. This is a HUGE obstacle that needs to be accounted for.

Once the seed has been planted, the best advice I can give it to innocently role play the act. A dildo with suction cup is invaluable in this role play. Tell her how gorgeous she is with another cock inside her. Ask her how it feels. Where she wants the stranger to cum. Things like that. Believe me, she will soon be thinking about it more than she will admit.

Also, never underestimate her desire to please you. Once you have reassured her time and time again that your feeling will not change towards her and, in fact, will grow deeper due to your trust in one another, she will WANT to do this for you.

One last thing, and this seems to be really important to women. It has to be a stranger. I'm telling you now, for some reason this is a HUGE requirement for most women. In other words, they don't want to run into them in a mall or out at a restaurant. Vacations seem to bring out the best here.

Hope this helps!!!