Well, weve had guys that we try to create the right relationship with but then end up being needy and wanting a relationship with her instead of it being casual... or they eventually stop communicating because its taking too long. Im sure these things work better in other areas (any method) but there hasnt been much to find that was worth pursuing around here.

We still look and try to find things but more and more were getting tired of trying to find decent people around here. Like i said previously, lots of fakes and flakes here. And then just outright desperate people that try to make her their girlfriend.

Well, we talked to someone we thought would be okay. I drop her off at his room... 5 minutes later I get a call saying I need to pick her up. He promised to make a video of the whole thing. And he sure did. All 3 minutes of it.

Xaii
 

That sucks. Well wont take long to post it. Did he give you a copy. Damn, you need to find a good regular, five mintues isn't even time to work up a sweat.

Oh no!
Did she get ANYTHING?

Sunday Afternoon Baseball Hostess
 

Sunday Afternoon Baseball game Hostess.... wife called 3- of her "Select" friends over on Sunday afternoon to watch baseball w/ us.... She was the hostess with the mostess, serving drinks and snacks... She wore her Budweiser Dress & black stocking serving us... After each inning she lap danced/grinding one of us.. that dress looks soooo cute on her... well we lasted 4 innings before us guys were naked and she was lap grinding us w/o her panties under her dress. By the 5th inning she was riding our cocks in the living room moving from one to another.... Thats when we all went into the guest room, and she on her knees w/ us around her while she sucked us to hardness... This is 3 friends & me.. 4...& her.... mmmmf

She layed over the edge of the bed and we took turns sliding our cocks under her dress doggy for a warm up... she was pretty horny, thats probably why she invited 3- "select" friends over for fun. .I sat in the chair and she came over and straddled my cock and slide it in her as she rocked back & forth.... I love fucking her like that under her Bud dress w/ my hands holding her ass cheeks & kissing..... She then asked me in her sweetest voice, " do you want to watch me getting fucked for a while?"... I told her only if I can direct the action.. she smiled and agreed...

I sat in the chair, and told her to get on top of someone and ride, then told one guy to stand in front of her and put his cock in her mouth and do them both together.. the 3rd guy got behind her and reached around playing with her tits... she was fucking and sucking like a sl*t, and the cock in her mouth guy wanted to cum, so I told her to "take his sperm"... he exploded in her mouth and she sucked him dry.. then the behind guy moved infront of her and she was now sucking him while riding... the guy under her then exploded in her pussy, followed by another sperm load in her mouth... everyone was cumming but me?!!.. lol....

She swallowed the first load, and was on the bed on her knees looking at me and dribbled the second load on her nipples... her dress was hiked up and her pussy sperm was running out.... with sperm dripping out of her mouth, she says to me, "do you like watching me like that?".... I said "helll yeah!!",, and threw her back on the bed and started fucking her sperm lubed pussy missionary while she cuck talked me -if it felt warm in her pussy?... I pumped a big load in her which sent her into orgasms... She layed on the bed while the guys recharged.

I sat back on the chair. .. she wanted more, so I told the guys to take turns fucking her anyway they wanted... & come in her anywhere they wanted too... she smiled and covered her eyes w/ her hands... they took off her dress, and started passing her back & forth to each other fucking her in all kinds of positions... including her favorite "airtight"!!!.... They were filling her holes w/ their sperm, and when they were recharging, I'd stick my cock in her somewhere..... it was an afternoon fuckfest w/ sperm running out of all her holes before we were done... she couldn't get enough of our cocks...she was always smiling at me or throwing kisses to me. when we were all too exhausted to go on,, I figured???- all 4 of us pumped 3-sperm loads into her each- somewhere ?!?! (12 loads) She knows how to turn guys on to keep the sperm flowing....she really loves making a guy cum.. it turns her on knowing she made a guy cum...

She got up on her knees, pushing the sperm out of her pussy and ass for us to see... "look what you guys did to me!!" & "honey, I was a naughty girl today" she said to me.. we all laughed... She took an intimate shower with each "select" friend cleaning them & caressing their soapy bodies as they did hers.... after the 3 friends left, she came to the bedroom wet from the shower, and we fucked each other while she cuck talked me about how their cocks felt filling her holes all afternoon.... I couldn't cum anymore... but she had one last orgasm on top of me....
We hadn't had a Sunday afternoon party w/ "select" friends for a while, so it was a treat for both of us..... she told me she wants me to get together w/ one of my "select" girlfriends this week sometime and she wants to watch us.... we'll see whos available??.. lol

Make her happy and ask her a few questions of your desire.. I'll tell her I wrote about Sunday and she'll read it this week.

Mr. Grits,
 

I'm curious about your lovely wife...does she take more than one cock in a hole? You've said she gets air tight on a regular basis, but does she enjoy more than 1 cock in her pussy and ass too?

bbd
 

Mrs. grits here,

No I don't.. I can't... I am petite and very tight.. 1 cock prt hole is enough!! Considering my "select" friends are pretty well endowed. One of the reasons I like multi men is because there is always someone ready for fun,,,

No. She mostly blew him with his dick actually being in her for probably less than a minute. She said he just came in her, said he was going to clean up, and walked to the bathroom. My wife said she didn't really know what to do and he didn't even offer her a towel to clean up.

you need
 

You need quality -----not quanity..... again...

Only one time have I seen my ex's used up pussy. It was amazing. I wish I would have fucked her then!

And, again... we've been trying. Anytime we take our time and try to find a good person its shit. Quite honetly, the ones we have gone to as a last resort are the ones that turned out best. Your experience is not the same as it is for everyone else. Different areas, different people, different situations. We live in a small town basically surrounded by college towns. Generally, doing this kind of thing is very difficult here unless youre willing to just go with all the disgusting people that come calling. We try to weed people out based on looks and conversations... and again... most of those turn into flakes or bad situations.

Yeah. Dianna, who is hot, wants me to fuck another woman -- you saw the photo. And she definitely wants to have sex with another dude who will cum in her. I don't know where it will go.

Mrs Grits, do you like sex with your guy after another dude came in you? I had a chance to do it and didn't do it. I loved the view of her dripping and how incredible it looked.

xxii
 

May I suggest: ... your attracting pervs who are looking for one-night stands because its easy to answer an ad... these ttype of guys CAN'T GET LAID no matter how hard they try on their own in a relationship.... its not looks-- its character they lack, or a combination of still living w/ their mothers @ any age.

Since your willing to accept these trolls into the bedroom, my suggestion is to STOP!!!..... aND HERE IS THE ALFERNATIVE---- try changing your needs and think different--- think about soliciting some of those college studs?? Yes it would be a ome night stand, or maybe a few, but the attitude is, YOUnG STUDS FANTASY knowing and excepting the idea that they are here today gone tomorrow.... and every semester there is a new flock of YOUNG STUDS For your wife fantsy pleasure... and yours.

OLDER WOMAN / YOUNGER STUD..

Attitude attiduse attiktude.... not change that attitude and work w/ whats you have plenty of...:)

BIGG
 

Oh, yes !!... its all mental that makes it feel good... feeling hubby slide into me w/ another mans sperm lube is erotic... not sexy, but erotic... for both of us.... the conversation during helps... I usually ask him, "can you feel it" or "him" ..... "he usually asks "what position were you fucking him when he pumped his load in you"..

Even when he isn't there watching/participating,,, like when I see a "select" friend is over when hubby isn't,, and he finds me half dressed and sperm full when he gets home, its an erotic feeling as he fucks me like a sl*t used wife, (as he puts it)..

When we are swinging w/ other multi couples , or multi-select friends, I like that overflow feeling in my pussy, and he really likes sliding in, and squishing thiers out...

We are swingers, so its all erotic to us.

xax
 

Be a bit careful with the college boys, as they love nothing more than brag about their conquests. That may open a door you don't want to open, unless you are okay with more guys knocking on your door looking to explore what their friend discovered.

One of the inherent downfalls of living in a small community, where you are easily recognizable particularly if you are trying to remain more private.

Which ever direction you go, have fun and enjoy those experiences that work out the best for both of you.

Dwaino
 

Dwaino.
you are correct, its how you handle it.... small towns are a problem.... I always suggest,, go slow- go easy... always be careful no matter how you do it.... but I do believe Xii @ hotmail tends to be looking for the quick & easy way.. thats why its not working....any cock won;t do because it answered your AD... it takes patience to make it work correctly.

Young Studs - your Wife , can work.... just don't let the guys suggest other guys .... remember they leave at the end of the year....

xii
 

Mr Xii is truly no different than most of us here at OCC, out looking to see what is available and out there to connect with. With time and proper vetting, you will find that individual that fits perfectly into your relationship.

Up here in the great northwest, select towns have the privilege of being home to one or more colleges / universities / higher education facilities. Most of these campuses are bringing in students that will require a four-year education, not uncommon that some students will be on campus another year beyond.

And boys being boys, I can tell you that they are not shy sharing their conquests. To further compound the immaturity of todays younguns', not only will they talk about who and what they did but the likes of snapchat, reddit, facebook allow these boys to share with the world any photos and video that they have captured on their phone. You just have to look right here to the various pages of photos, in albums marked as such, of the antics that goes on in the college towns here and around the world.

I would think Mr & Mrs Xii would have explored the frat boy direction, if they felt it was the best way to go. Plenty of adult contact websites that are available beyond craigslist. One in particular, SLS, has listings of people right there in the town they reside. Not only can they see who the individual is, but get an idea of what that person can offer.

All a moot point though, boils down to what these two want and how best to go about it. Xii has been kind enough to share his exploits with all of us here at OCC. Best of luck to him and his missus, and as always - looking forward to reading about their current adventures.

Greendoor
 

Greendoor
 

.........Well, we did!!... lol..... He came home early because I called him to do so.... My girlfriend and I were at the swim club together, hence the bikinis, and decided to go home and have fun... but I insisted that hubby join us.... he didn't know why I had him come home early, but he was surprised and happy to walkin and see 2 women in bikinis & heels , smelling of coconut suntan lotion and clorine... he said he always liked that smell of summer?
Well needless to say we all took care of each other for the rest of the afternoon and into the evening... my girlfriend stayed the night and slept w/ us in our king bed...I got awaken in the middle of the night to find her on top of hubby taking a ride... lol I just rolled back over and listened and felt the bed shake until they went back to sleep..... my girlfriend is widowed, so I let them cuddle together because she misses a mans afection, but really dosen't get around much...even though alot of guys try! Shes very pretty.....but she spends an amount of time w/ hubby and me.. but sometimes just w/ hubby. Shes one of his "select" female friends... She has joined us w/ a few of my male "select" friends in the past on Sunday afternoons.

Greendoor
 

I hope this relates lol but seeing as I am a straight girl ive never shared my gf or wife however in past relationships I have been involved in threesomes so I have been shared, had MFM mostly, when it comes to MFF I guess im sharing my guy? lol

Also I have done stupid bets where ive had to give a bj to the winners or something so at the reluctance of my then-bf I have had to pay up

green & everyone else
 

Just want to make sure I answer all your questions and details....sometimes women are not sure what men want to know??? Ask anything, about anything?

I'm wondering if any or all the things both of you have done and are doing ever gets to feel like just standard regular sex since, as in a single couple event, you've done it all before and will do it all again with the same people being that you have both a closed swing group and a very limited number of Special Friends.

In other words, many of the get into swinging stories seem to develop from sex with the same partner over the years becoming predictable and mundane. Is it not the same in your case with the same group after a period of time, maybe on an broader scale?

I do appreciate all the straight clear concise answers to our questions and your stories of your adventures. To use the vernacular, how many times can you go to Disneyland and still get the same big thrill.

Greendoor
 

Well, actually we swing, not to thrill the other, but only to enjoy ourselves individually... Again, we have been swingers since we met, and the only real thrill we both get out of knowing the other is having sex w/ another ,, is that we're glad they are enjoying and having fun in life... or even for the moment.... Hubby is not really a cuck, and he is VERY straight... we just talk it , to each other, and interact (watch) because it just is happening.. nothing complicated.

As far as women go... I was bi-sexual in college after being introduced to it... I like it, and I like beautiful womens bodys to carress and be caressed by... also the normal female bi-thing is that sometimes other women know their way around a female body pretty well... and of course the female intimacy thing is very appealing to me.... but if I had a choice of ONLY either men or women .. i'D PREFER MEN.

looksalot
 

Very interesting point!... nothing we haven't discussed in the past between hubby and me...

Yes, sometimes it is like going to Disneyland too many times.. its developed into a norm, as with any monagamous couple.. sex is sometimes always the same. ... BUT, we do it because its just fun and exciting to do,.. Hubby and I have sex at least once daily together because we enjoy each other sexually.. the swing thing is a combination of --extra cirricular activity, and , the thrill of the moment, and, a little variety is the spice of life.!!

Though we only swing w/ the same people , its still all of the above... We only get together w/ the big swing group every month or so, its not a weekly thing..and thats usually like taking a short adventure vacation w/ good friends.....

As far as the "select" friends goes, that is often a weekly thing. Usually once a week, unless its a horney week... lol.... but that is the variety that breaks the monotany of married everyday sex... its often spur of the horney moment, which is good for that... When we have a Sunday afternoon session w/ a few "select " friends , its just alot of fun for everyone.

If you read & remember.. after any swing session.. I like being w/ hubby as he likes being w/ me... at no time yet has our swing life substituted for our own sex life together... We just developed a good attitude about it all... thats why we always say , "its a job in itself to find decent swing friends".. because it takes patience, and caring for each other... not selfish needs to be with others.

So, i hope that explains it.. you are on the money w/ your questions,, everything in life can get boring & monotanous-- BUT you do the best to make it better... its not a perfect world, and we try not to be perfect.. just enjoy to the best of our responsible ability to each other.

ATTITUDE-:)- ATTITUDE-:p- ATTITUDE.:D. counts:)

Greendoor & Looksalot
 

Remember,, we don't have children or those responsibilitys which makes it all alot easier then most couples have to deal with...we're doing this at a younger age.

If we had children, I'm sure it would be a substanually less active swing life.... until we would be empty nesters, but then we'd be old and slow!!.. lol :eek:

the biggest regret i've ever had was not fucking Dianna when she showed me her soaked yoga pants and pulled them down to show her plowed pussy. At the time, I thought it was to show off, but I now realize it was to entice me (it worked). I would love to feel that

Mes. grits
 

Mrs.Grits here,,,,,,

Home alone tonight, hubbys away w/ his "select" female ftiend.......

I'm in the mood to play internet sex..... i'm at the computer wearing THIS outfit,,, AND want you to tell me how you want to have sex w/ me?

Dirty Talk works best...so I can get horney.... LETS PLAY!!! Whos first?

I want hubby to read about us when he gets home tomorrow.

It's already morning where I am so too late/early to play games but i am wondering how the pictures above got taken since you said you're home alone.

Love your posts and your, "reaching out", to your many admirers at OCC.

You and your hubby probably have enough material by now to write a best selling biography/autobiography. I'd certainly buy the coffee table version when it hit the bookstores.

looksalot
 

The pic are from another time... but I was in that outfit last night waiting......

Its nice to see a gentle tease toward sex... that was nice.. I'd enjoy that very much, it would be erotic!!:)


Well hubby got home this morning,, but there was not much in responses to show him.. so I didn't... He had a good evening w/ his "select" friend .. he was happy to see me in that outfit above, so we took it to good use and had good sex all morning as he told me about last nights fun... I like hearing about his sexcapades when he gets home too..

Gee ???
 

Just got home
 

Just got home from a night out w/ hubby doing a little bar hoping in Nashville... Ends up we met a swing couple from our swing "group" and ended up at their house drunk, which led to a night of a foursome , mfmf, together.
Drunk sex w/ friemds sometimes gets carried away, and it did last night... We got to their house at 2am after the bar, and never went to sleep all night. just getting home now at 9am/ I wore this jumper last night @ the bars.. did yyou see me in Nashville??

I can't find my panties?? They are somewhere in their house?? Anyway.. we had fun.... ASK me if you want to know anything in particular that went on...lol

Greendoor
 

Hello, Mrs Grits here...

To answer your above question,,, I'll give you my version now.. he'll probably read your note in a few days and respond.

Started out bar hopping drinking, met friends as said above, went to their house after bar, had 4 sum all night..
We first did a hubby swap in seperate bedrooms w/ the doors open so we could all hear each other... that was a fun touch!!
Everyone was doing their thing and moaning and talking dirty, and having an orgasm... it was erotic to hear the other couple having sex... the other wife kept yelling to her hubby w/ me,, everytime my hubby put his cock in her..... "Honey, hes fucking me now"... I asked why is she telling you that, and he said because though he can't see it happening, his mind pictures it in probably wilder ways then its really ahppening.....

Needless to say, after about 45 min... we all were together in the master bedroom, getting spitroasted, and doubleteamed... both guys and girls... we double teamed the guys too during recharges...
Us girls did alot od lezzy fest stuff inbetween being with the guys. I know I enjoyed having cock on demand from both of them, and shotgunned a mouthload to the other wife... Being drunk and having sex can get out of hand at times... it did.... by the time we left, my pussy was a little sore, and a little full of cum... I couldn't find my panties and went home w/o them... she called me yesterday and told me she found them.
The other wife is a real dirty talker, and was quite verbal about it all night, begging for cock & cum & my pussy and tits.... She told me they fucked for an hour after we left for home... boy was she horny... probably the booze...lol
Any other question for me???

Mr. Grits
 

Mr. Grits here...


Yes, I read what the misses wrote about Sat. nite bar hopping.... there is not much to add unless you have a specific kind of question in mind??

But, she seemed to put the nites "horney award" on the other couples wife??... Trust me it was more of a tie.... my wife was just as vocal, ie:- "do you like watching me getting fucked".. & .. "will you two (me & other wife) suck my titties while I ride his cock?"....and much more.. she constantly had the other busbands cock in her somewhere.

Altogether it was an unexpected fun night.....

After a long dry spell I think we've found a good guy friend to enjoy for a while. After getting over a bad experience, which knocked us both out of the mood for over a year, we're getting back in the saddle.

I put up a craigslist ad looking for a third, and after the initial tsunami of idiot mail, an out-of-town guy emailed us. He's in our city for two weeks every month. We met him for dinner and were both favorably impressed, so the next evening we met again and then went over to our place. He and my wife sat all curled up together on the couch for quite a while, talking away.

They eventually made it back to a bedroom. I joined in for a while in order to get her all revved up, then left them to their fun. Last glimpse I had was her lustily sucking his dick as he was preparing to start fucking her. I took up residence in the living room and could hear them making all sorts of moaning and fucking noises. Pretty soon they both came and the noise died down.

They laid there giggling and talking for the better part of an hour, then fucked again. After he left the wife came out all happy and satisfied. Since that night she's been referring to him as "my boyfriend," and they're busily making plans to get together again. Can't wait until she goes out and fucks him by herself, then comes home and tells me about it while I'm fucking her again.

Good times to come, hopefully.

Greendoor
 

1- They taste the same, before and after a good fucking... the difference is wether or not she had an orgasm, the the taste gets sweeter....fyi

2- When one woman wants to have both hubbys at once in a foursome mmff, the other wife either watchs, or joins by playing/sucking with her nipples or pushing her hubbys thrusts into the other wife., or reaching under a hubby and playing w/ his balls to get him erotic.... I tend not to warch.

3-- with us, its not so much getting hubby to watch me getting fucked,,, as much as it is erotic for me to feel sl*tty telling him. We play cucky, and go through the motions and talk,, but we're not because usually we're both getting fucked at the same time.... its just interaction between us while being fucked by another... even when its just guys w/ me.. he watchs for his own pleassure, but dosen't do the jerk-off stuff while watching... remember we've been swinging since we met.

leviticus
 

OOOOOOOooooooh !!!!.......... sounds good to me.... out of towner once a month sounds like just enough w/o pressure.... good luck..... post pic?:)

Yeah, he lives one state over and his wife and he also have also occasionally played for many years, so they know the drill. He's in town for two weeks, then home for two weeks. My wife currently plans to find him once a week while he's here, then wait it out until next month. This seems about right; too much of a good thing can ruin it.

Here's a selfie she texted to a previous guy. As a bonus, here she is with the previous guy. Not sure whether she sent him the selfie before or after he fucked her, but then, he fucked her numerous times. Details get fuzzy, ya know?

I've written about this elsewhere, but on her own initiative she once invited this same guy over when I was out of town on business, cooked him dinner, then fucked him.