Pam
 

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
Sort of

2)If so, what is the number?
Pam would only say that she had more than 10 in her pussy before we were married.

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
From some of the stories she related and reading some of her lovers' letters to her I think she may have left a couple out. Maybe more than a couple! Who knows how many in her mouth. Probably fewer than in her pussy because oral sex was not her favorite, neither giving nor receiving.
As for her ass she only admits to letting one guy do her ass. I wasn't the lucky one although she did offer it once early in our relationship.


4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
Not really!

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
Pam and I used have Scheherazade sessions where she regaled me with tales of her past sex life. Of particular interest were those about Jack, her grad school professor and Masters thesis advisor who pushed her limits. While she was no innocent virgin before Jack, he introduced her to a host of taboos. She told me about some of them and when I saw some of the videos and photos he took (Long gone, unfortunately.), I saw those and some others that she hadn't told me about..

Updates
 

"How many men and/or women did your wife/SO have since you've been together" and:...We lost track. But around 100 men. Many repeats.

"Have these been with your blessing?" Nothing that will take much more time to answer.....YES! and I've always been there playing around or watching.



clitty I'm beginning to worry about you and your wife's arrangements. Be careful and don't let her get out of hand and fool around with too many men when you are not there. I realize we are not all the same. But for us any kind of sex acts are for the thrill of the other partner. If my wife were at a motel fucking George I wouldn't get any benefit except knowing she's having a good time. Not our way of doing this.

@Clitty: I actually had to think about that and write it all down. I think I need to add one if I include giving a BJ. As a rule of thumb, I tend to only give BJs out to guys I want to have sex with. Only once did I ever give a BJ and then not have sex. I'm not sure if I am alone in doing that, but that is my thing.

Currently, I am single and just having fun, but I have to agree with ModelT-MsDollie. I have never been interested in marriage (probably because my parents split up and I was there as a 10 year-old when it all went bad. My mom locked herself in room and was crying and threatened to take her own life while my Dad and the man that would become my step-Dad tried to reason with her. I sat in another room with my younger brother and sister unaware of what was really going on. For lack of better words, it was a fucking fiasco and I don't know if that is what has made me anti-marriage, but back to agreeing with them.

If you are going to have fun and have another person in your life, you should discuss about having fun together or with the others blessing. I don't think leaving and doing things with another person while your special someone is not there is GOOD for the long haul of that relationship. Again as ModelT-MsDollie said, that would be my rules, but that is me.

When I play around the other party (if it is a couple) has to be consenting on both sides. I don't do the cheating husband, no matter how hot he is. Too many chances to get caught and I would not want to hurt another female. When I play with Matt and Cate, it is both or nothing at all.

@Five Hole: Are you writing the next epic American Novel Matt? Get it up for us to read!

I do want to commend you on your writing skills. You have a certain way of writing that attracts me in like bait to a fish. I enjoy the way you write and craft out your stories and find myself getting turned on when I read some of them!

Boy did I run this into the ditch, my sincere apologies!

No... doubt it. The backstory is cool.

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1- My wife was w/ 90 ish guys before me.. she was always a swinger, and sexually active from 14.. we met at a mutual friends swing party.
2-90ish?
3- yes
4- not really, I've been with about the same women when we met.
5-yes, we have, and sometimes we remenise about the good old days and laugh together.

A pic from the good old days when we met in her very long hair days.

Sorry I had to quote to remember the questions.

Originally Posted by robert69 View Post
Hello all. A few questions:

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?

2)If so, what is the number?

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?

yes
12ish
no
no
yes

1) Yes
2) About 20 (she thinks)
3) Yes
4) Yes because her past is a turn on for me
5) Yes we talk about every thing and every one she has fucked

Wife's shady past
 

It has been a rollercoaster ride being married to a former prostitute but I wouldn't have it any other way.

Kind of.
She lost count after 100 and that was when she was 21, now she's 24.
It matters in a way.
Yeah, she's a size queen