For me......
 

I've had more--at least I think I have. There was a long period during college when we were apart and she was a getting boned a lot, but I think I'm still ahead.

Wouldn't mind her catching up a bit, the thought doesn't make me angry or jealous.

In a VW backseat....
 

One of my best friends has been married to a girl, Donna, for about 30 years. He and I have shared lots of info over the years, some of which our wives do not know we have shared, including some photos.

His wife had told him in detail all of her dating while in high school, a rural school about 40 miles from the city where he grew up. They met while both were in college and fell in love quickly, having to get married quickly because of their first daughter.

One night we had too much to drink and were discussing our sexual experiences. They love to hear about nudist clubs, but she would never go with us. They liked to go boating and have sex on the boat on the lake or river with other people on the water but not nearby.

She was telling how she never had an orgasm with anyone she dated until she dated a preacher's son and they had sex in the cramped back seat of his VW bug. Once she had one, she would insist on dating him, even calling him on short notice to go out but he had to have the VW. She told how they had sex in parking lots, at drive in movies, and lots of places but always in his VW. My friend got quiet as his wife kept talking, and they left soon afterwards.

Later, I learned that he had never heard of this guy she dated nor about all her orgasms in the VW.

I think based on what I know at this point that my wife and I have close to the same numbers of partners +/- 2 or so. Hers were mostly before our marriage. There was 1 or 2 after the marriage but that was never a problem. I knew about 1 before it happened and the other one that I know about for sure because I was there. Now THAT was a great weekend.... :D

My wife has had more.

I'm proud of her and turned on thinking about her sucking and fucking other guys. She tells me she has had no others since we have been married but hopefully in the future I will get the chance to see her in action!

Her
 

She has had more, for sure. It used to make me jealous but not anymore. Its always turned me on to hear her tell stories of the guys she'd fucked before we met. I'd seen videos of her in action with guys she was with before we met and I hope to see it live some day! :D

I've had fewer. I used be to be jealous of her past, but now I get turned on thinking about her fucking those other guys when she was younger. I could never get her to swing or share now though - she's not into that at all.

My Asian Wife
 

My Asian honey has been boned by 17 guys total. Me, the fifteen before me, and one when we were having marriage problems a few years back. To be fair I boned a gal during that time too. That rocky time has actually made our marriage stronger now.

that sounds attractive.

Dude i've seen your wife so i know that those 17 guys including yourself are very lucky guys to have had " boned " her !!!!!!

Lots of good stories here''--any more input on "more or less than your spouse"?
 

Related question for you all.....................

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Seems like a lot of us are very interested in our spouse's pre and post us sex lives. So................

Have you had more or fewer sexual partners than your wife? (women can answer as well)

If more than wife, are you happy?, sad?, couldn't care less?, hope she catches up?, or other?

If fewer than wife, are you angry?, jealous?, proud of her?, turned on thinking about her "in action"?, hoping she continues to increase her number?, complacent--heck, every one knows it's a lot easier for a girl/woman to get laid than a man?, or other?