Submission
 

I have plenty of turn ons, but I realize now, that the biggest one is telling her how I will use her, about 30 minutes before I do.

Most often, this is in the form of a lengthy, filthy text.

I offer explicit details which she is required to read and consider. She is allowed to say no (setting a hard limit, or using her safe word) but the expectation is that she won’t, and she never really does. At times, her response signals that she will be struggling to enthusiastically participate, because of low energy, stress, etc., and I may then decide on a less ambitious activity.

She is ALWAYS required to read the message, and to understand that by fully submitting to me, she has already agreed to whatever it is I have thought up for the day.

I have given her plenty of filthy, depraved activities to consider and consent to, and have detailed how I plan to use praise and orgasms to implant filthy fetishes in her head, and then carried out my plans for the day.

I think one of my surprising favorites is telling her that I don’t have the energy for elaborate play myself, and that I am going to rub my cock and look at porn for a while, and then use her asshole as a masturbation sleeve. I tell her there will be no foreplay for her, and I will stroke my cock with her fuck hole until I cum. I tell her that she is welcome to cum from my cock up her ass, or with a toy after I use her, but I will be focused more only on getting myself off, using her hole the same way I would have used my hand, before she gave herself to me.

Each text ends with me thanking her for being such a wonderful fuck toy.

Can't tell you how much I sympathize and wish you luck with that plan! Naked drum circles are bucket list material.

I do have some very specific. I find it so sexy when a girl is wearing jean shorts with a phone in her back pocket. 😍 And low top Chucks (the shoes) with no socks or low cut socks. And mismatching bra & panties. And I love a cute girl who used to have an amazing tight body who was out of my league, but in her 20s she got a bit of a beer belly going on. A little chubby now and looks like she puts out after a night at the bar. And of course i like cuckold and stuff like that

Inverted nipples. There's just something about them.

Naked Pizza Delivery
 

Saw this posted somewhere else, I would LOVE for my wife to do the naked pizza delivery dare. She opens the door in just a towel to get the pizza then “accidentally” drops her towel, the stranger seeing my wife totally naked

When giving hugs, my (moderately big breasted) wife prefers to give side hugs to people who aren't very close to her. And we have this one friend who is a big dude who can get away with a lot of stuff because of his jovial uncle vibe. He always lifts her up and turns it into a front hug actually saying "now that feels good" about her breasts squishing up on him. when he puts her down he'd even take a step back to pretend to take in the view of her breasts.
all my wife can do is laugh embarrassed and say something like "tom, you are a terrible man". After we became closer over the years, she started giving him front hugs and even joked she knew he was looking forward to her hugs. i was always turned on by this banter.

Something that invites/incites you to suck them the right way out??!!

Same! My ex had them. Several pics in my profile.

Thanks for posting that enticing account of your wife! She sounds like a good sport. Her joking banter elevates this situation to a level of stellar eroticism, in my opinion.

The "jovial uncle" type always seems to get away with stuff because he's usually deemed "harmless." The response to the antics is usually along the line of: "It's just Jack being Jack; you know how he is!" There are certainly a few "Jills" out there; but by and large it's usually a dude.

We have a "Jack" in our nudist circle of friends. Some of the stuff he's gotten away with is incredible. Giving women tight full-body naked hugs, lifting them of their feet; and the occasional ass smacking and hip grabbing. He tried to give my wife one his tight naked hugs; and when she declined to go full-frontal with him, he still managed to feel-up her ass. She didn't even complain.

Not everyone can be a Jack. Those guys are usually very endearing and charismatic; and if you don't have those traits, you're most likely to just come off as a perv.