For my wife, it depends on the "who and how." If she's climbing out of the pool/hot-tub, or bending over to rearrange her affairs by her lounge chair, she just expects there will be some glances in her direction. So for the most part it doesn't bother her, even if she catches it. She's naked all day long at the resort; and if she was worried about glances, she'd never move or uncross her legs. That would be boring for her.
If she's chatting standing with someone, and there is someone else lounging directly in front or behind her - obviously taking in "the sights" - she'll get self-conscious. On the other hand, in front of people she knows, she doesn't care so much what they're looking at while they're taking to her - as long as it's still mostly her face.

Comfort levels will vary based on confidence and familiarity. And for my wife: also her mood that day lol!

Sammy15, out of curiosity, would you be comfortable sharing how old your wife is? I find it incredulous and sad that absolutely beautiful women are critical of their looks simply because they're not 21 years old anymore. If only they know what people (and guys) are actually thinking.

My wife had similar feelings about being older when she finally went nude. The fears went away when men started to give admiring looks. Very self-validating that “she’s still got it” kind of feeling. Seeing her more confident in herself was very much a turn on.

Most of the ladies were between 40 and 70, I would guess. My wife is very close to the higher end of that range.

this was our first holiday to ibiza as a couple, she went to the pool area toilet, was already topless and didn't bother to cover up, she was a while and came back her thong front was wet and said did u not make it. She kissed me and said she did but in there was a guy and lady and she was sucking him off. I smiled and said that turned u on. she looked around and pulled her bottoms and I saw she was soaked. I was so hard my cock was visible in my tanga trunks ( hated the no shorts rule then ) She told me that she saw the guy as the lady was sucking him had her back to her. she said she fingered herself as she stood. the guy didn't last long and came. my gf walked out and the guy caught up. he said her body was amazing and that he wished it was her sucking him.

I almost came and I said did you and she said no but I wanted too. I said let's go to the pool and I will watch u from a far . we went up and she walked around and caught a few guys attention I was getting hard again and she dived in the water. she swam and got chatting to a few guys her tits was small but nipples was hard.then I guess the guy she saw came up and hugged her she smiled and could see her jump as his hand went down. she did the same and then someone said something in Spanish and they walked off. I went the wrong way lol and they sat by the pool, everyone could see her c*nt as the material had gone see threw as he somehow removed the white tacked on liner lol. they got up she saw me and said see you back at the spot. I waited 40 mins and she came back.


two pics below are her returning, first is first time second is well after it all

You're a lucky man. Thanks for the visuals!

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It probably excites every man when his wife is more or less conspicuously ogled by other men, especially when she is topless or naked.

Even more so when she provokes it a little and spreads her legs. Then I have to pull myself together so that I don't get a hard-on myself.

That's why I love it when she goes out without a bra and low-cut and often "forgets" her panties under her miniskirt on holiday!

And I know that it also makes her hot when she is looked at naked or intimately.

Too me, this describes the situations that turn me on most. Others having a glimpse of her body when it's not expected or not supposed to. It excites me more than when she's totally naked at the sauna or nude beach where on is surrounded by nudity.

Examples like wearing her semi transparent bikini so her areolas are visible in the right light, going braless or wearing a 1/2 cup or transparent bra in combination with an open blouse, going topless at a beach where most/all other women are not topless, going topless or naked in company of or by accident running into people we know etc.

Thanks, I know I am very lucky to be married to her!

A fantasy of mine is when my wife and I are at a nudist resort she lays on the lounge chair with her legs on one on each side, exposing her bald c*nt for all the other men to see.