Kids are the challenge for us too with our 10 year old. Especially over summer vacation. We both work from home and we were able to at least squeeze in stuff during breaks, whether it be sex or pics, but months without time for intimacy can be grueling. Good luck to both of us!
Over time, we just started to grow out of it, and then when she was around 33 (44 now), we decided to have a kid (I had two older ones from my other marriage that had already left home). Her weight had fluctuated a lot over the years and that was one of the reasons that she started balking at doing things. But at the time of the kid conversation, she was looking great and we had started to take pics again. The weight gain from pregnancy/childbirth did a number on her though. She wasn't feeling good about herself and it was a struggle to get the weight off again. Finally last year, she got it down and I convinced her to take pictures which are some of the on recent ones I've been posting. I started slow so there's not a ton of full nudity but we'll see what happens. She takes the pics for me but doesn't believe anyone else would "find an old lady attractive" (her words). I told her she was wrong but she's a hard sell.
Who knows what may happen in the future. Only time will tell.
Olivia and I met when she was 20 and I was 37, me coming off a divorce. Over the first couple years, I got her to try a lot of sexual stuff that I'd always wanted to but never could with my ex. Stuff like sex in public places, her flashing in stores, her being flirty at work and telling me the stories, trying out a swingers club, and taking lots of pictures. She was pretty shy but this kind of stuff kind of ignited a different side of her.