What turns you on most about the thought of your wife or GF with another?

[LBnJB]

Originally Posted by Emperor Wang

I've given this whole thing a lot of thought (it's what I do!). The whole cuckolding angle - humiliation factor, etc - really doesn't hold any appeal for me and yet I've always found the idea of the woman I love being with someone else an incredible turn-on. The closest I can figure is that it's about stepping back and seeing her as a purely sexual being, completely independent of me, which makes me want her even more. This is why I love the idea of her having sex with another man or even just exposing herself, but the idea of her actually developing emotions for anyone else is the last thing I want. I remember hearing some porn actor (can't remember who) talking about his relationship with his wife or girlfriend, who was also in porn. He said something to the effect of "She can suck a dozen other men's cocks and I'm fine with it but if I caught her having a romantic dinner with anyone else I'd totally lose it."

I have been sharing my wife with other men for the past few years without being a cuckold. The humiliation, denial, etc. does nothing for me. I prefer to watch, and join in. She likes to be watched, and shared, and have two or more men dedicated to pleasing her. Sexual definitions are helpful in that they convey a general idea of sexual preference, etc. But they are often limiting. My wife and I are closer to the "Hotwife" definition, which sounds like what you are interested in. But we are not a typical "hot wife" couple because she does not play alone. She does "date" men, meaning she will meet them for lunch, cocktails, etc. But if I am not there, the date ends with a kiss and nothing more.

[LBnJB]

For me the fantasy has evolved into a reality. But I will share anyway. There are a number of reasons I love sharing my wife with other men. First, I am a voyeur at heart. I think most of us on here are, as looking at amateur porn is a form of voyeurism. Basically, I love to watch. Second, my biggest turn-on is seeing my wife turned on. Seeing that wild, glazed looking in her eyes as her arousal increases is a huge turn on. Watching as another man arouses her, and ultimately makes her cum is very erotic. Third, I love the idea other men find her attractive and want to fuck her. Also, I love that she finds other men attractive and wants to fuck them. Next, I have always enjoyed her telling me about her sexual adventures before we met. I have fantasized about witnessing these adventures while masturbating. Lastly, it is a huge turn-on knowing that in public she is a typical PTA, soccer mom, that no one would suspect is a sexual dynamo. I love sitting in a PTA meeting knowing that just a few days before some other guy(s) had been in her. Oh, and I absolutely adore entering her after another man has left his cum inside of her. I love the feel on my dick, and I love the smell of it on her breath. One of my favorite experiences involved two other men. One finished in her pussy bareback, the other shot his load on her face and in her mouth. When I mounted her she still had cum leaking out of her sn*tch, as well as running down her chin.

Luckily, my wife enjoys this for many of the same reasons. She loves being watched, being desired by other men, and seeing me turned-on while she is with another man/men. She loves the attention of two (sometimes more) at the same time. She has told me repeatedly that sucking a cock while being fucked is very erotic for her. Also, she says being double-penetrated is the most sensual and sexually fulfilling intercourse she has ever had. She said that nothing has ever made her cum harder than to have one man in her pussy and another in her ass.

[Emperor Wang]

Originally Posted by LBnJB

I have been sharing my wife with other men for the past few years without being a cuckold. The humiliation, denial, etc. does nothing for me. I prefer to watch, and join in. She likes to be watched, and shared, and have two or more men dedicated to pleasing her. Sexual definitions are helpful in that they convey a general idea of sexual preference, etc. But they are often limiting. My wife and I are closer to the "Hotwife" definition, which sounds like what you are interested in. But we are not a typical "hot wife" couple because she does not play alone. She does "date" men, meaning she will meet them for lunch, cocktails, etc. But if I am not there, the date ends with a kiss and nothing more.

I hear you. My specific tastes/proclivities/whatever are - I think - slightly different from yours, but we're definitely on the same page. Yay us!


I've done the sharing/swapping thing a handful of times and for the most part enjoyed it immensely but have found there's always potential for unfortunate "after effects" - resentments, recriminations, etc. - that one or all of us didn't anticipate. Much as I love spontaneity and hate overthinking, things can go very wrong if there isn't a certain amount of discussion ahead of time, especially when there are good friends involved.


This is one reason why I'm particularly fond of wife/girlfriend exhibitionism, as it's in the same territory and provides me with many of the same thrills but there's a lot less potential for things to go south. I have a pretty lengthy, detailed reminiscence I'm writing about some experiences in this particular area, which I'll be posting soon. So keep an eye out if you're interested.

[Hornyinde]

The thought of seeing her in pure satisfaction as another man's cock slides back and forth in her.

She's shared with me the most intimate details about the other guys she had before me. She was nervous at first, but after seeing how I reacted she shared more.

I love hearing all the details; how big they were, the positions they fucked in, how long he lasted, did she suck him, swallow his semen, did she like the taste.

She loves how hard I pound her when she talks about while I'm in her... and I know her mind is on them.

[GRITS]

This is a good thread.. hate to see it die off... ANY ONE else have something to share???

[~*ghetto_star*~]

The taboo of the whole thing turns me on the most. Actually, my first experience with seeing my girlfriend have sex with another man opened my interest in public nudity, older women, swinging and partner sharing.


It was 12 years ago when I first saw my girlfriend with another man. We had been friends with another couple that would routinely have sex in public places (bathrooms, parking lots, parks) and we were really interested in trying public sex and we grew to enjoy it. Eventually, we started thinking about nude beaches and such and we eventually decided to visit one on the West Coast.

When we got there, we sort of chickened out at first and we remained clothed but I decided after two hours to take off my shirt and surprisingly she followed suit and undid her bathing suit top. I still remember looking over at her and saying "Oh, you're titties are out!" and we both laughed.

We went to a spot on the beach and we began talking to an older white couple, both totally naked about 60 plus. The conversation at first was very polite, both us complemented each other's partner but over time, it grew a bit flirty and this old bastard was a smooth son of a b*tch. He could probably talk any woman out of her panties if he wanted to. My girlfriend would constantly be giggling at his jokes and his wife was as charming as they come. Still very pretty into her 60s, curvy but firm body and big titties with a nice size areola, completely shaved pubes and I very attracted to her.

On our second we managed to find each other, this I decided to go nude, my girlfriend was topless again, this time trading in her bikini bottoms for a short skirt-like garment and the white couple was totally nude, this time we greeted each other hugs and kisses and his wife was charming, complimenting me on my body, complimenting my girl and even giving me a flirty but indirect comment on my penis.

We spend the day with the couple, drinking, eating, playing games and as the sun is going down, he sends me and his wife to get drinks and food. What I didn't know then, was that he was about basically put the moves on my girl and he succeeded because when I was walking back to the beach with the food and drinks, the sun had gone down and there he was under an umbrella banging my girl from behind and she was moaning rather loudly. I was shocked but as I also naked, I had a growing erection because I was internally conflicted, here is my beautiful black girlfriend getting banged out by an old white man who was at least 40 years older than her and I'm finding it to be a turn on.

His wife notices and she manages to whisk me back to the hotel and she was attempting to explain the swinger lifestyle to me but I'm still kinda shocked, she puts her hand on my thigh and whispers in my ear "sweetie, you are hard as rock and gonna explode any minute, you can either stare out at them or have some fun you'll never forget". Within seconds, I'm between her legs eating her pussy, tasting her juices and I'm loving it. We proceeded to have some of the best sex I ever had, that woman's vagina felt like a slice of heaven, tight, wet, tasted amazing, gave great head, she had sensitive nipples when she got on top of me, I lasted about a minute tops.

Eventually, her husband and my girlfriend came back to the hotel, they found me and his wife in bed talking, we were naked and you could tell had sex and the only thing we could all do was laugh. I even shook his hand, we both were complimenting each other's lady and I also had my first threesome here also, she gave my girlfriend quite the blowjob lesson with each woman giving both of us a double blowjob and spit-roasted both of them.

From that point on, I was all in.. Public nudity, older women, sharing. It has been apart of nearly every relationship I've had since.

[FREDBARNES]

Just imaging your GF or WIFE or SIL on her knees while 10 men take turns spraying them with cum.

If that didnt get your hard you may be in the wrong thread LOL.

Nuff Said

[Menorca]

Again and again, the idea makes me very hot, as my sweetheart and I opened our relationship after more than 30 years. I begged her to have sex with my best friend. She first didn't want, but my friend's wife an my freind was very excited, last time we all want it. We have seen us nude in sauna or nude bathing beach before, but nothing happened between us.

First evening the two girls masturbated for us, then we do. Aftre it we have sex with our own wifes - together. Very horny to see your friend is fucking his girl.

Next evening is getting much more hotter: When my best friend kissed my wife slowly, he opened her blouse, massaged her breasts and licked her nipples, took her under her skirt and slip while I massaged his wife's titties.

When my sweetheart was completely naked, she pulled down her pants, lay herself down, spreding her legs wide open and said, "Please come now! Fuck me till I come! Give me all of you!"

She was as wet as almost never. At the same time I caught his wife in the panties - she was also very wet and pet her to an orgasm.

Slowly my friend's cock slid over her body, her tits, her nipples, deeper and deeper, rubbing her clit with his cock, then her sated crevice. When he put his penis in her - very slowly - and invaded her, I came immediately... Never forget this moment. My wife was screaming loud and horny.

Not ten seconds later he splashes in the abdomen of my wife - without a condom.

We have repeated the game more often, but the first penetration of another tail in my sweetness - that's just not to top ...

[theblitz]

With us it is always with the other party present.

I love watching her with other guys. It is like watching a porn movie where you are in love with one of the "stars" and enjoy her enjoyment.

[qazzy1749]

Originally Posted by FREDBARNES

Just imaging your GF or WIFE or SIL on her knees while 10 men take turns spraying them with cum.

If that didnt get your hard you may be in the wrong thread LOL.

Nuff Said

I had a dream almost similar to what you said.

My wife was naked and laying on the ground on her back with her knees up and spread wide. She was pulling on her pussy lips to open up her c*nt hole to show the pink inside. Standing around her was a group of men jerking on their cocks aiming at her c*nt. Whoever shot inside her c*nt first would have her first, then the second and so forth. What a way to determine the gang bang order.

Too bad it was one of those dreams that ended too soon, and couldn't back to see what happened.