How many guys have boned your wife?

[MFN]

... In fact, she figured that since they'd all seen her naked, she allowed herself to be much more liberal about her clothing for the rest of the trip, leaving nearly all of it in her rucksack. But only after she trimmed her pubic hair.

I love it when she tells me stories of her past sex life, esp. when it adds to her total number. Makes me wish I'd been there!

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by Upforit200891

Im no good at writing stories lol. Thats why.

When has that ever stopped many of us? Lol!

[MFN]

Originally Posted by MFN

In an earlier post on this thread I reported that she could name 53 who had boned her.

But going through some old photos, she came across one that reminded her of a fuckbuddy she'd forgotten, which she proceeded to tell me about (thus changing the 53 to 54.

She jumped out of bed this morning, said she'd had a wet dream and an orgasm, which reminded her of a fuck she hadn't included in her previous count. Ran to her "list" and added his name, date, place, cock size, and other details. So now she's up to 55 that she can give names to, but figures there are probably at least another 150 or so. (That's in keeping with the old rule-of-thumb that you divide a man's number by 4 but multiply the woman's by the same factor, which in her case would work out to be 220, which she said is probably about right.) So she says now her official number is 55 (can name) but unofficial (includes unnamed) is about 220.

I'm proud of her!

[Massguy70]

My girlfriend hasn't shared her number. She says I probably think it's higher than it really is. I'm guessing 25. I prefer not to tell her my number that I estimate to be around 300 (and that's not using guy math ).

I few years ago I dated someone who said she wouldn't go out with a guy who had been with more than 5-6 people. She said that's gross. She was in her early 40s at the time.

[Supersam7]

Well she was 19 when we got married and she was a virgin. But for the past 7 years getting into swinging she’s fucked over 100 men. Had 6 boyfriends and a lover.

[MFN]

Over the weekend we watched a movie that reminded her of a favorite fucking position she had once used long ago with a former lover. So she started thinking and realized that for Valentine's Day she could treat me to each position: one for each guy who had fucked before we married, and tell me about what it was like with that particular guy. Because she'd had many lovers, it will take us a long while to work through all the positions. We started last night, and her narrative of the other guy fucking her added another dimension to our actual fucking.

[Jess561]

Originally Posted by Massguy70

My girlfriend hasn't shared her number. She says I probably think it's higher than it really is. I'm guessing 25.

Mine won’t share either. She did say it’s always easier for a girl to get laid than for a guy so I am assuming it is higher than mine.

[Freda_1962]

My husbands family moved in next door to me when we were 9-10. We became friends, and through the years it progressed from there.

We're each others first and last (unless he needs to tell me something.)

[MFN]

This past week she got a "blind" letter from the last guy who fucked her before we married. She and the guy had lost track of each other over the many years. Now, with no knowledge of her life since then, he got her address off the internet and sent an innocent letter asking how she's doing, about her life since then, and so on. Innocent enough--just an old friend trying to reconnect? Well, she hadn't thought about him since then, except to tell me how he fucked her, and only because she's told me about all her past lovers and how they each fucked her. So, she's now trying to decide how to respond to his letter.

Maybe you have some ideas what she should do, and reply with your suggestions.

Some of the current possibilities are:

-Ignore the letter; he'll assume he got the wrong person.
-Answer, saying she's now in a happy marriage and to not contact her further.
-Suggest a correspondence to be maintained at a distance.
-Invite him to come visit, but that the visit will be just old friends maybe getting together for a meal.
-Answer with nude photos of herself.
-Invite him to meet us on a nude beach.
-Answer by describing how much she enjoyed having him fuck her, leaving him to think they could do it again.
-Answer untruthfully, saying she's available and suggest they should meet up, but then later make an excuse.
-Make plans to allow him to really fuck her again.

Some background to help you make suggestions:

He is Number 54 on her list of guys she can name who have fucked her. She didn't like him that much except for his dick, but says that, at least back then, he fucked really well and gave her some of her best orgasms. She hasn't let anyone but me fuck her since we married, although there were a lot after we first met.

Her suspicion is that he's just looking for a chance to fuck her again.

As for how I'd feel about him fucking her again: although this has never happened since we married, before that she was fucked by a lot of guys in public view, usually at a beach party where I was present (in fact, that's how we met in the first place), and always told me when she was about to be fucked by someone else. I've never been possessive of her getting fucked by others, but now, since we've been married, this would be new territory and I'm not sure how I'd feel.

She promised to wait to see what suggestions show up, just to humour me. Then she'll go ahead and do exactly as she pleases!

Any ideas?

[gwm]

Originally Posted by MFN

-Ignore the letter; he'll assume he got the wrong person.
-Answer, saying she's now in a happy marriage and to not contact her further.

Personally, I'd stick #1 or #2 above, but ultimately is comes down to what you both can live with.