What have you been able to get or teach a girl/So/wife to do?

[Zoidbergg]

Originally Posted by shinohouse

When did the hype of chat roulette start? I got my wife to dress sexy and teasing some strangers on chat roulette - but without her face in it. It was funny, how many man were willing to put their dicks out for her within seconds.
I believe she liked that thing but never did it again.

Did this with the GF a couple months back when covid stuff was starting. She'd tease a guy until he'd cum, typically not long, then move on to the next lol. It was a pretty good time, we had great sex after, but same as far she's never brought it up again so I haven't pushed for more.

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by Zoidbergg

Did this with the GF a couple months back when covid stuff was starting. She'd tease a guy until he'd cum, typically not long, then move on to the next lol. It was a pretty good time, we had great sex after, but same as far she's never brought it up again so I haven't pushed for more.

What site was it?
The wife hasn't been online for several years now and I'm guessing it has all changed. I'm assuming the sites are all different now. The site we used to use never showed the other person/people, but it showed how many people were watching. Her best was over 2k. She never showed her face, so it was body only, but she used to do it with the sound on and would really let go. She was often reluctant at first, but once she started and got into it, she would really rev up and the sex after was always the best.

We didn't do it often though, it was a special occasion event. probably 3-4 times a year.

[pball2295]

My fiance is beautiful, open, fun, and independent. When we met she had only been with 4 or 5 men, only one of which was a multi-year relationship.

A month or two into having sex with her, I began testing her boundaries - wanting to see how dirty she was comfortable getting. I started by gently pushing her head into a pillow while fucking her from behind once. Another time, as she gave me blowjob, I held her ponytail and pressed my cock into her mouth just a bit further.

She didn't say anything after those two incidences, but it was clear that she wasn't sure what to make of them. Don't get my wrong...she loved sex, but it was more like holding onto my back during missionary sex, getting pounded, and yelling things like "fuck me harder!" Sex like that was fun for our first few months, but it was a little vanilla for me.

Eventually, I decided I needed to up the ante a bit.

One night we watched a movie and had a lot to drink. I started fucking her on our couch. After she was revved up and sweaty, I slowly brought my hand from her right tit and up to her neck. I softly grasped my fingers around it. She paused for a moment, and looked up at me with big, vulnerable eyes. She seemed slightly confused and scared.

...Oh shit, I thought. I let go and immediatly said, "Sorry babe, I was just caught up in the moment."

She looked at me and softly said..."It's okay...I mean, if you want to."

I smiled and put my hand back around her throat, squeezing a bit harder this time. As I did, I could feel her pussy fill up.

Now we were getting somewhere.

As I fucked her deeply and slowly, I whispered in her ear..."Do you like being choked hunny? It's okay if you do, I'll be gentle."

She whispered into my ear, "You love me, right?"

I said "of course I do."

"Then yes," She said, "choke me."

This act was the beginning of my fiance understanding that it's okay to be an independent, tough leader in her personal life -- and extremely submissive in the bedroom.

Over the next few months, I eased her into several different different acts. Today, she's nothing less than a full-fledged submissive sl*t for me. Here's a list of what she enjoys now.

- Now, she only ocassionally wants me to say sweet things to her. She much prefers phrases like "you dirty fucking wh*r*." and, "my personal little fucksl*t" during sex.

- She begs me to choke her. She especially loves this when I'm on top of her. She says it's because she feels so overpowered by me, but still safe. She also says that she thinks the first time I choked her (the story above) was such a turn on for her, that she's able to revisit the feeling of letting go for the first time.

- She loves being spanked. Often times, when we are changing positions to doggy style, I'll grab her by the pony tail, and spank her ass until it's red. She'll squeel so loud, I sometimes have to reminder her of the neighbors.

- Speaking of which, she really enjoys having her hair pulled. Specifically, she loves it when I grab her by the hair and lead her to a different room. This one is extra hot for me too.

- My personal favorite...and the reason I'll never, ever break up with her (besides the fact that I love her, haha), is that she absolutely LOVES being face fucked. I can't tell you how much of a joy this has been for me. Usually, I'll take her by the hair, make her kneel in front of.a mirror, and I'll fuck her throat like it's her pussy. But the physical sensation isn't even the best part. The best part is that she knows I get off on her gagging and making gurgling sounds. She loves it since I love it, and she loves serving me, so she's constantly gasping for air and choking on my dick.

So yeah! I don't know if any of that qualifies as "teaching" as much as it is "revealing" to her who she's always been sexually...but needless to say I have it pretty good.

[dantroop]

A few years ago when we were regularly in the "lifestyle" and going to our favorite Adult Club we hooked up with a guy. Since my wife like him we exchanged emails. The next day he emailed telling me how much fun he had with my wife and how sexy she was and hoping to met us again.

We chatted a little and he said his friend was getting married and asked if my wife would be interested in giving the Groom one last fling before marriage. I told him I would talk with her and get back. After some discussion she decided she liked the idea of being the Groom's last piece before marriage and ' "kind of Hot". My wife said I should work out the details but just let her know when and how to dress. So it was set that my wife would do both the Groom and Bestman in a local motel but I would be would tag along for her protection and watch. He then asked if the Groom's Men could have a chance with her. I worked it out but didn't tell her that part.

The Bestman had worked out for her to be the entertainment. My wife had agreed to go but she thought she would only be fucking the Groom and Bestman. She didn't know about an hour into fucking her and having her nude with a guy between her legs and spreadout on the bed that 6 other guys in the wedding was planning on joining in on the action with her at the motel. One of the guys told his wife, shit hit the fan and the guy cancelled 1 day before the meet. That would have been a fun time. They were planning on taking turns fucking her all night.

Knowing her and how "Hot" she thought fucking the Groom would be and our lifestyle at the time I knew she would have had a great time. To bad the guy told his wife.

[pk1729]

Originally Posted by dantroop

A few years ago when we were regularly in the "lifestyle" and going to our favorite Adult Club we hooked up with a guy. Since my wife like him we exchanged emails. The next day he emailed telling me how much fun he had with my wife and how sexy she was and hoping to met us again.

We chatted a little and he said his friend was getting married and asked if my wife would be interested in giving the Groom one last fling before marriage. I told him I would talk with her and get back. After some discussion she decided she liked the idea of being the Groom's last piece before marriage and ' "kind of Hot". My wife said I should work out the details but just let her know when and how to dress. So it was set that my wife would do both the Groom and Bestman in a local motel but I would be would tag along for her protection and watch. He then asked if the Groom's Men could have a chance with her. I worked it out but didn't tell her that part.

The Bestman had worked out for her to be the entertainment. My wife had agreed to go but she thought she would only be fucking the Groom and Bestman. She didn't know about an hour into fucking her and having her nude with a guy between her legs and spreadout on the bed that 6 other guys in the wedding was planning on joining in on the action with her at the motel. One of the guys told his wife, shit hit the fan and the guy cancelled 1 day before the meet. That would have been a fun time. They were planning on taking turns fucking her all night.

Knowing her and how "Hot" she thought fucking the Groom would be and our lifestyle at the time I knew she would have had a great time. To bad the guy told his wife.

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[qazzy1749]

Others had been in her pussy before me, but I am the one who took her ass cherry.

I started slow by playing her asshole and eventually sticking a finger in. When she was more comfortable, a second finger went in too. Took a few times before she agreed to let me try it with my cock. We don't do it often but every once a while with plenty of lube.

Once I had a vibrator in her pussy then I went into her asshole. The vibration came right through her walls and I could not hold back to make it last. Tried a small vibrator in her asshole while I fucked her. Talk about a vibrating pussy. WOW!!

She has grown to like to have her asshole play with while I fuck her. Besides just penetrating her with my finger or fingers, I curl my finger tip to work on her asshole from the inside to open her up.

Only DP her with me and another dildo or vibrator. Wish we had try DP her with another man. I think she would have enjoy it. May even airtight after that. Anyway, her asshole was all mine.

[markofohio]

My wife has may more experience than me so maybe it is what has she taught me.

She has taken to a bit of exhibitionism, posing naked in the woods for pictures and exposing her self ... way more than flashing ... to truckers on road trips. She may have had this urge already as when we met she wore skirts without underwear.

[kajuk]

I am 58 years old. I have been pretty much single since I was dating age when I got my drivers license when I was 15. Over the years I have gotten many different women to do many different things. From swinging, going out in public in a dress with no panties, to flashing my friends in a bar, to wearing cum on her face in public and more.
But one thing that seems to stand out among all is, there have been a few women that said Anal was off limits and refused to even talk about it. But eventually got them not just do it but love it.
One example was, when I was 21 I was dating this 18 year old catholic girl that was adamant about not doing anal and that she wouldn’t even talk about it. Once I was fucking her real hard missionary style and as doing so, I reached around and started rubbing my finger on her asshole. She tried to move out of the way but I continued to fuck her real hard and she just didn’t have it in her to make me quit.
Just as she was cuming I shoved my finger into her asshole. Afterward she halfheartedly acted as if I done something bad. I just joked with her telling her she came so she liked it. The next day I was fucking her doggy style and I was hitting it pretty hard. As I was doing so I put my thumb on her asshole and was just rubbing it. She said stop but I didn’t and she kept moaning and groaning and was getting close to climax. Just as she was cuming I shoved my thumb into her ass and kept on fucking her. She screamed and came hard and fell on the bed breathing hard and shaking.
When she calmed down and was able to talk, she said I hate to admit it but I liked that. She said it made her orgasm more intense. I said it is time to talk about trying anal now. She said ok. After talking to her about it a few more times and teaching her that this was something that needed to be planned so we don’t make a mess. She should do an enema.
Back in the early 80s the only lube I knew of at the time was KY jelly. After her enema and came to the bed. We had a vibrator and I told her to put it on her clit. I lubed up her asshole as she masturbated with the vibrator I lubed up her asshole and finger fucked her asshole. She had a small orgasm. At that point I lubed up my dick real good. I put my dickhead at the entrance of her asshole and I told I will not push and for her to get into the vibrator and only push on my dick when she felt like it.
As she got excited and was bucking her hips, I kept the pressure in her asshole. I felt the head enter her asshole as she was bucking and having orgasms form the vibrator. Before long, my dick was half way in. At that point I said OK I am going to fuck you now.
She was so excited she couldn’t say anything. So I stated slowly and I could feel her relax. I started pumping in and out slowly and going more and more deep. Before long I was going in and out of her asshole all the way and she was cuming over and over and to the point I started to cuming inside her asshole.
After it was over, she said, I like that! She said it with enthusiasm. I said to her any time you want it just ask me. To which she said I will be asking a lot. And after that day she did. After that day it seemed she had an obsession with anything anal. She wanted me to go to the video rental store and rent a porn dedicated to anal. There was not much to choose from in those days but we did. Then she started to lick my asshole when she was going down on me without me asking or suggesting it. Almost every single time.
One day we were making a bet one time. I cannot even remember what the bet was but I do remember her saying the loser has to tongue fuck the winner’s asshole. I then said I don’t care if I win or lose. She said I know! With a smile in her face. One night we were drinking with some friends (another couple) and we all decided it was time to fuck.
My girlfriend and I was in the bedroom and our friends were in the adjoining room with the door wide open. She said out loud “FUCK ME IN MY ASS” I know they heard her but I didn’t care. I laid down on my back she got on top grabbed my dick and shoved it into her ass. No lube, no slow going, She just crammed herself down on me hard. She was screaming an orgasm in less than a minute. Afterword as we were all getting up and getting dressed and talking to out friends, as the friends were leaving the guy said, did y’all really do anal? I didn’t say anything and she said with enthusiasm YES! Her girlfriend said Ill never do that with a snarl in her voice to which my girlfriend said I used to be like you until he taught me how and now, I prefer it in my ass over my pussy.
I hated that the two of us split up because she would have been one of the few girls I would have wanted to stay with forever but that is for another conversation. But I can say I taught her and/or convinced her to do anal and she absolutely loved it.

[rracoonz]

What have I gotten her to do? Be independent. Enjoy sex for sexually pleasing herself. She now understands that her feelings, her desires, her fantasies, her sexual desires are hers to own and none of them are wrong. That's probably the most important things I have taught her. She is a better sexual partner now. Luckily, she shares them all with me.

[Gnome72141]

I have been taking it for granted, but for many years I have been able to get my wife to talk about the GOOD things she misses about her ex-boyfriends, sexually. She kept resisting and saying she left them for a reason and that they were terrible people (which I get; I had an abusive ex-wife), BUT I tell her to remember the FUN and sexual parts (I had a few fun moments even with my horrible ex-wife).

So, I have been able to get her to vocalize the fun things she misses, and does she ever love it. Everything from calling out their names to re-telling some stories in great detail. She has amazing orgasms that way, dozens at a time.

When she is in middle of the orgasms of her life, she asks me if it's okay, I tell her yes, then I have great orgasms, too.

I think it's because her entire life everyone thinks she is a super prude, frigid, etc, but even her best friends have no idea some of the things she has done. They wouldn't believe her if she told them anyway.