How Many Times Have You Fingered Your Wife's Butt?

[mightymitch22]

Let me first say that, yes, I have provided some pics of me fingering my wife in her butt. They're in my album "Anal Fingering."

My wife loves getting fingered in her butt. She's been able to climax from it for several years now, and she really loves it when I finger her butt while she's riding me reverse cowgirl.

So to answer the question, I would say I have fingered my wife's rectum a good 200 times so far in our marriage. I have butt-fingered her to climax probably 20 times.

How about you?

[rednose]

She finds it too distracting and it can ruin her orgasm.

[Hwu]

Not very often really. Ass play in general doesn't do too much for her sexually, not that she's too prude for it, it just doesn't enhance her cumming - breast/nipple play, choking, and hair pulling yes, ass play no. Now she still lets me eat her ass from time to time for my pleasure, I'd say once a month for the last five years or so so maybe 50-60 times I've done that. But if I'm going to do ass play I'm going to feast rather than finger. I've probably only fingered her ass about 3-5 times.

[mightymitch22]

Originally Posted by rednose

She finds it too distracting and it can ruin her orgasm.

Well, here's some advice.

The first time I tried to stick my finger in my wife's butt, we were in the middle of having sex. She didn't like it and pushed my hand away. On many previous occasions, she had let me rub the outside of her butthole during sex and had enjoyed that. So I figured I would try just sticking my finger in her butt just a little bit. But, like I said, she didn't like it. She said it distracted her.

But, my wife really likes to please me. When she understood how much I wanted to finger her butt, she said she would give it a try. (I should add that at that point she had no idea that I was hoping to buttfuck her one day!)

The next time we were having sex, I was on top and she had her legs pulled far back. I reached down with my right hand and started to rub the outside of her butthole and made sure there lots of lubrication. Then I took my pinky finger and started to super slowly try to gently push it into her butt. On the third of fourth push, the tip of my finger, like not quite a quarter of an inch, slid into her butt. I didn't try to go in farther but I just gently moved it back and forth sideways/horizontally. I left it in her butt for about 10 seconds and then pulled it out. What a wild feeling! Afterward she said it didn't bother very much because of how gradually I slid it in and because I didn't try to go in farther.

After a few more times, in that same sex position or with her riding me, she got to the point where she didn't mind if I put about half an inch of my index finger into her butt. She was still able to climax. She said she actually enjoyed it. And my wife is rather petite. She's barely 5'2".

As I said so now she really gets off on anal fingering. I can stick my middle finger all the way up her ass and rub it around, and she enjoys it. Hell, she can climax from it. She especially likes getting buttfingered when she's riding me reverse cowgirl.

So the trick is go use lots of lube, to use your pinky finger at first, to start pushing it in really slowly and gently, and to be very patient and gradual about going deeper into her ass.

[looksalot]

My experience is similar to Mitch. What started our anal experience a few years ago was both of us started rimming from time to time. It felt so good to her that I'd then push my tongue in as far as it would go which could only happen if she relaxed everything. So the next step was to use my pinky right after the rimming then moving to bigger fingers. She's not had an orgasm that way but certainly does regularly when that's combined with regular oral sex.

Indeed, now if I don't put a finger in while we're playing or when she's masturbating she'll insert one of her own. it's become a regular part of our bedtime fun for both of us. Need to be careful of long fingernails, though.

Always, always, lots of lube, in our case Albolene, needs to be used. I'm thinking of buying a set of increasing size butt plugs. Any suggestions?

I'd love to get her to try ass fucking but that's still off limits.

[Couplein2MFM]

Originally Posted by mightymitch22

Let me first say that, yes, I have provided some pics of me fingering my wife in her butt. They're in my album "Anal Fingering."

My wife loves getting fingered in her butt. She's been able to climax from it for several years now, and she really loves it when I finger her butt while she's riding me reverse cowgirl.

So to answer the question, I would say I have fingered my wife's rectum a good 200 times so far in our marriage. I have butt-fingered her to climax probably 20 times.

How about you?

My wife was not ever into anal play in any form for many years. It was something she was not even wiling to try. Then after our first encounter into the swing lifestyle and hooking up with a single guy while things were happening he ended up fucking her in the ass. She was far to into everything that was happening to protest and despite pain at the start she ended up climaxing with him inside her ass.

She made a very good lady friend in the lifestyle about two years later who she experimented with girl on girl sex with but became very close friends. They talked about sex and what they liked and even did the girls weekends away thing with. Talking to another girl she broke many areas of things she considered taboo and the two of them often watched porn to pick up on new techniques.

Now, my wife is pretty open about liking sex and liking various forms of kinkiness. Anal is one of the areas that she now openly enjoys. Her favorite is MFM with DP and even DVP when the other guy and I can get that close and it not be weird. She will also tell me when we are alone and having sex "Fuck me in the ass" which I think is incredibly hot, at least for me. She also will tell me to sick a finger in her ass or to use a toy on her ass while we are fucking. She brought a toy that has a ring for my cock and balls to slide through and then has a large dildo mounted above to provide her with DP when we are alone. Depending on her position she can either have the larger dildo or me in whichever hole she chooses. She likes it but still says it is not anywhere as good as the real thing and having two men.

Her regular boyfriend loves to fuck her ass doggy style. He says it is the hottest thing he can imagine. He also loves to eat her ass and get his tongue as deep up inside her as possible. Pic 3 is of her tight little hole after he just ate her ass and is getting ready to fuck her.

Pic 1 is him inside her ass

A pic of few of her toys including two anal plugs she enjoys when we are alone.

[andyt29]

It's very easy to have wandering fingers during oral sex. Somewhat surprisingly, she's the one who started it in our relationship. She had read/heard somewhere that rubbing there enhances a guy's orgasm. It took a little adjusting, she was a bit agressive at first, but eventually it became a very enjoyable enhancement to her going down on me.

I started returning the favor, again gently, and it certainly seems to enhance her pleasure. It's great when she is on top of me in 69 and I can watch as my hands pull her cheeks apart and my fingers dance around her ass slowly adding more contact and more pressure. She does gasp any time I actually penetrate her, but we do usually keep it to a shallow tease.

[camoj]

My Mrs likes a small amount of finger or thumb (fist knuckle) up her arse while I'm fucking her doggy or while she's riding me.

Recently she agreed to try anal, but even well lubed she decided it wasn't going to fit and I needed to stick it back in her pussy.

[corvette]

142,372 times.

[Barmixer]

My wife does not like it - says she can't concentrate on 2 things at a time. Lately though when we shower together (which is fairly regularly) she will wash my cock and balls, and make sure my butt is clean. She has taken time to finger me as she gives me a reach around. She likes to feel my cock get hard as she does it.

Also she told me she had a dream that I was fingering her ass and her pussy at the same time as she walked down a set of stairs. Perhaps she is coming around to letting me do it. She said she had a big orgasm during the dream.