What are your Wife or GF's sexual fantasies?

[GRITS]

My wife has always wanted to be the object of 12 mens desire at once... generally a 12 guy bareback gang bang.

She does several friends @ a time now, and has been w/ 8 ? at our Swing Group meets-- but those are w/ other women being shared.... she wants to be the exclusive woman at a 12 guy bareback gangbang......

[Beelzebozo]

Several of my wife's sexual fantasies really emphasize the 'fantasy' part. As in physically impossible:

1) Mind control: most of her favorite porn involves some form or another of mind control, the ultimate form of submission, doubly so because the subject can be made to love what they are doing. Needless to say, unless someone knows someone at some secret lab, I don't think this one is doable.

2) Tentacle porn: She loves that staple of Japanese animation. Again, lose of control, "I shouldn't like this, but it feels so good."

But there are some others that we're trying to explore.

3) Having sex or masturbating in room with one-way mirrors. People can see her but she can't see them. Similarly, we've talked about using a blindfold in a similar situation. It is why she loves having sex in front of an open window where people might see us from a distance. She's always excited and scared of being caught.

4) The ultimate fantasy has to be a performance at a swingers club, involving her putting on a show for me on the dance floor and ends with me fucking her in front of club, as she cums loudly in front of everyone like the dirty, dirty girl she is

[sufan03]

1) fucking two guys at the same time (done) - next time she wants to have two cocks in her pussy at the same time and have us both give her a facial

2) watch me as I fuck another girl (done)

3) an all girl threesome

4) a full swap with the possibility of being in separate rooms

[NB2020]

Originally Posted by Beelzebozo

Several of my wife's sexual fantasies really emphasize the 'fantasy' part. As in physically impossible:

1) Mind control: most of her favorite porn involves some form or another of mind control, the ultimate form of submission, doubly so because the subject can be made to love what they are doing. Needless to say, unless someone knows someone at some secret lab, I don't think this one is doable.

Try roleplaying this one: mix up her favorite cocktail (but double strength) and pour her a shot. Tell her it's a 'magic potion' and that after she drinks it she will have to do what you say - she has no option but to do it because the 'drug' will remove her self control. If she refuses or freezes on any instruction then she has to take another shot because 'the mind control drug' must be wearing off, etc. Obviously she has to play along, but by giving her 'the drug' you give her permission to act like she is not responsible for what she does. You could also amp things up by commanding her to say "I love..." to whatever you make her do.
Failing that, if she can't get her head around roleplaying then ask her if she would let you roofie her. That will really remove her self control. Make sure she agrees on camera (or in writing) while sober that she wants to be roofied.

Originally Posted by Beelzebozo

2) Tentacle porn: She loves that staple of Japanese animation. Again, lose of control, "I shouldn't like this, but it feels so good."

Play some of the anime porn on a big screen and make her watch it naked, and bound, right in front of the screen. Get some dildos and vibrators and start working on her as the Octopus does the same on screen. When you're ready, lube up and slide all over her (and penetrate her in any and all holes you can find).

Originally Posted by Beelzebozo

But there are some others that we're trying to explore.

3) Having sex or masturbating in room with one-way mirrors. People can see her but she can't see them. Similarly, we've talked about using a blindfold in a similar situation. It is why she loves having sex in front of an open window where people might see us from a distance. She's always excited and scared of being caught.

4) The ultimate fantasy has to be a performance at a swingers club, involving her putting on a show for me on the dance floor and ends with me fucking her in front of club, as she cums loudly in front of everyone like the dirty, dirty girl she is

You could probably manage both of these at a sex club. If the club doesn't have one way mirrors try either blindfolding her, or hanging some see thru material in front of her. She would be lit up and seen by everyone, and they would be shadowy figures in the darkness.

Good luck - your wife sounds great!
(Mine won't even admit to any fantasies, let alone make them happen)

[NB2020]

My wife won't even admit to having any fantasies, let alone make them happen. The worst part is that I know she reads a lot of dirty stories on her Kindle and can spend hours on the Literotica website on her iPad.

I actually confronted her about it but she denied she was interested in the genres she reads so much of (forced submission, milk, BBC, 1nce$t - she ignores all the other ones) and claims she just reads them to fill the time. Absolute BS of course but what can you do? She both denies she is aroused by them, and then also says they're just fantasy stuff anyway and she wouldn't want to do it in real life.

Clearly gangbanging her like I was six well hung black strangers is not something I can do, but she won't even let me tie her up or spank her (as happens in her stories). I've asked her what her fantasies are, and offered to try to make them happen, but she just deflects... every time. It irks me now, especially when I see so many other people (men and women) on this site being open about what they want and enjoying themselves.

So... anyone else have a wife in denial?

[Barmixer]

My wife often fantasizes while I eat her. The other day ( we like matinees ), she really got into a new fantasy. After a mind blowing orgasm, she told me she had a fantasy that one weekend, before we were married, her parents went away, leaving her home alone. She said we remained naked all weekend, and fucked in nearly every spot in her house, except her parents bedroom.

One part was how she crawled under the table to suck my cock, while I was eating lunch. Another was bending her over the sink and fucking her as she did the dishes, staring out the window. All told, she said we fucked 27 times and she could hardly walk the next day in school.

The part that got her off wast telling her girlfriends (all virgins) how good it wasc and what they were missing.

[mrhitachi99]

Could it be how you're approaching it? My wife has a super low sex drive and rarely explores her own fantasies. But by being patient and more subtle in my approach with her we can occasionally have some pretty satisfying encounters. I took it as a challenge to figure out what "works" for her as opposed to why she couldn't be as expressive as the women we read about here (or others from my past).

One of her early responses to why she's reluctant to explore fantasies and more adventurous sex play is she's afraid it will spiral out of control. I suspect there are other more subliminal fears and possibly repressed memories of abuse. It's a delicate situation and very frustrating for me, as my drive and sense of adventure is pretty high.

One thing is for sure, the perception of pressure or other negativity is the same as throwing ice water on things. It's all about trust. And figuring out how to genuinely communicate. The stuff she's reading is the deep end of the pool, which she might not ever really want to swim in. Figure out how she wants to get her feet wet in the shallow end.

Sorry about the unsolicited advice, but you've got some potential there!

Originally Posted by NB2020

My wife won't even admit to having any fantasies, let alone make them happen. The worst part is that I know she reads a lot of dirty stories on her Kindle and can spend hours on the Literotica website on her iPad.

I actually confronted her about it but she denied she was interested in the genres she reads so much of (forced submission, milk, BBC, 1nce$t - she ignores all the other ones) and claims she just reads them to fill the time. Absolute BS of course but what can you do? She both denies she is aroused by them, and then also says they're just fantasy stuff anyway and she wouldn't want to do it in real life.

Clearly gangbanging her like I was six well hung black strangers is not something I can do, but she won't even let me tie her up or spank her (as happens in her stories). I've asked her what her fantasies are, and offered to try to make them happen, but she just deflects... every time. It irks me now, especially when I see so many other people (men and women) on this site being open about what they want and enjoying themselves.

So... anyone else have a wife in denial?

[crazyhorse91]

Originally Posted by NB2020

My wife won't even admit to having any fantasies, let alone make them happen. The worst part is that I know she reads a lot of dirty stories on her Kindle and can spend hours on the Literotica website on her iPad.

I actually confronted her about it but she denied she was interested in the genres she reads so much of (forced submission, milk, BBC, 1nce$t - she ignores all the other ones) and claims she just reads them to fill the time. Absolute BS of course but what can you do? She both denies she is aroused by them, and then also says they're just fantasy stuff anyway and she wouldn't want to do it in real life.

Clearly gangbanging her like I was six well hung black strangers is not something I can do, but she won't even let me tie her up or spank her (as happens in her stories). I've asked her what her fantasies are, and offered to try to make them happen, but she just deflects... every time. It irks me now, especially when I see so many other people (men and women) on this site being open about what they want and enjoying themselves.

So... anyone else have a wife in denial?

My wife is very similar. She won't admit to fantasies any more. She got more involved in Church several years ago, and now seems to think Jesus is in the bedroom with us. It's a touchy subject. I've told her she needs to leave him out of the bedroom, but she denies that she does it. Before all thsi she would at lest admit that she has thought about two cocks. Not anymore. Jesus ruined our sex life.

[Risman]

Previous boyfriends!!!

[4andy4]

Originally Posted by Spitfire01

I showed her what I posted, she was ok with me posting these pictures. We live a kilometer or so away from a Pink salt lake, there were a few other people around, but I still managed to get her naked.

Very very very nice ... Would love to see more