How many guys have boned your wife?

[GRITS]

My wife has been w/ over 200 men in her life, but she hasn't been w/ anyone new for about a year.. we tend to stay w/ our regular swing friends. Just haven't found anyone new she wants to be with lately. Generally satisified w/ who we swings with.
We met at a swing group meeting so it wasn't any surprise as to how many thru our years together...my number of women I've been with is about the same.

[clitty]

Fun with math: 1 swinger party a month = 3 new men x 12 = 36 a yr x 30y = 1080

As a guy, I think a busy month would be 12 a month, but avg 4~5 in my single days.

[Basiln]

We are married almost 25 years now, and we have been in an open relationship from the very beginning. So we used to meet some other partners here and there, for a one night stand or for long term things as well. However my number is very much lower than my wife's considering she was part time call girl for about 2 years.

Generally she worked 3-4 days a week half day, and typical day was 2-3 clients, however her personal record was 6 guys at the same day.

Anyways, based on that I estimated her number would be definitely more than one thousand, but probably less than 3000. That's the best estimation I can do.

If we exclude that experience from the calculations, I remember the number was around 100 in 2000, and since then she slowed down considerably, so I think it has to be around 150 now.

[jstly]

My guess is that the average husband knows about 50 percent of his wife's lovers. That's adding before and after marriage. I appreciate the guys who have more open wives who come clean with the whole history, but for the more common wife, I'd guess there are many strategic omissions....

Obviously, one husband's opinion...

[HedoRocks]

We have been married over 17 years now. She is my first wife, though I am her second husband. Her first husband was her "first". After their divorce, she was with a few other guys before me, but not a lot.

Except.... One night she went on a date with a guy, and ended up back at his place. There were 4 other guys there. Everyone was drinking and having a good time. One thing led to another, and next thing she knew, she was the star attraction of a 5 guy gang-bang. While it wasn't her original plan for the night, she wasn't forced in any way. She said she "sort of" enjoyed it. Not so much the actual acts, but the fact that she was their focus, and that so much attention was being paid to her.

Up to that point she wasn't wild and crazy like that. She was pretty conservative. It just happened to be the right time and place (and probably the right amount of alcohol as well!).

I keep telling her she owes me a gang-bang, since I wasn't able to be a part of the first one! She keeps telling me that she doesn't want to "plan" anything, but if the opportunity ever organically comes up, she may indulge me. Trust me, even though she doesn't want to plan anything, I keep trying to figure out how to make it happen! LOL

So, to make a long story short, I'm guessing about 8-9 other guys have boned my wife besides me.

[OMY]

I’ve been married to the same lady for over 20 years. When our dating started to get more serious we discussed prior partners. During these conversations my wife admitted to about 10 partners and stated that she never had a one night stand, nothing kinky, never been with more than one man at a time or been with any married men. Since she grew up in the LA beaches area I rounded up from 10 to probably 12. My wife wasn’t the first gal I dated from that area. Also, I figured the one night stand was probably not a hard and fast rule.

A few years back an event occurred with made me wonder about all of this again and I actually relayed the story of the event on this site. I was surprised that someone recognized it and my wife. I upped the tally and figured that my wife was probably been with around 20 guys, that she did have the occasional one night stand, that she pulled a few trains, was into bondage during a phase in her early 20’s. But, I was still a little suspect of what I had learned from the guy I spoke with on this site.

That suspicion was removed a year or so ago when I happened to overhear conversations my wife was having with her sisters as they were going through some old photo albums. I had to revise upward from 20 or so to probably 25-30. Also, the one night stand rule became a loose rule of thumb. I also learned that shortly before we met she was getting focused on finding a man willing to commit to a relationship so she was dating more than one man at a time. She also dated a couple of guys who were twice her age and that she slept with 2 married men. That translates to about 5 guys per year prior to our getting together.

While I am surprised by the number my feeling is that in the end I benefited from all of the experience she gathered during this time.

[barnyb]

My SIL 18 months ago broke up with her long time husband (they got married at 20)

Last summer I saw her topless on the deck at the summer house. I was surprised by her casualness. Then a few days later fully nude at a beach. After that I would often see her fully naked and free at the summer house.

I thought she would have had maybe 1 or 2 boyfriends before her marriage and then a couple over the last year.

We have just got back from staying in Spain in a friend of my wifes apartment. I saw her a few times naked in the apartment which was good. My wife and her friend went off shopping one day so SIL went on down to Pedro's beach. A nice beach in a national park with a nude section around a small point. The main beach can be nude. SIL went nude all day at the main beach. She loved the attention. Guys would talk to her and she would walk around nude. She would quite comfortably talk to a group of 3 or 4 guys, her being the only one naked. A particular group got talking to her and she came over and said she was going back to town with them for a drink. I thought fine.

About 30 mins later I took the bus to the top of the road and decided to visit the ruin house above the beach to get some photos. Outside the ruin was a car. When I got to the ruin I heard some noises looked in and there was SIL on all fours in a roast spit with 3 of the guys (who were until then complete strangers).

I was shocked and not sure what I should do so I pushed the boundaries and walked in asked her if she was fine. She looked up said yes but asked if I could stay until she had finished and then take her home to clean up.

When she came out about 30 mins later she looked quite different. I now view her very differently. I thought she had had maybe 3 lovers and now I have seen her with 3 guys at one time.

A few days later we went back to Pedro's beach with wife and her friend and SIL. SIL kept her bikini on all day but went topless only on the sunbed.

[Boxi]

My wife won't say openly how many have used her wonderful pussy. But in conversations over the years I get the strong impression it's in the 30's prior to our marriage. Since then till now, I find it hard to believe it's just been me, only because she has introduced new completely different techniques that she had never used ever previously.
When I mentioned the different technique she just passed it off. Curious.

[CesareRF]

My first wife L was an 18 year old virgin and only one other has had her since me. There is a reason she is an Ex.

My second wife and 2nd ex:
My Ex

She grew up in TX. She learned about orgasm and self-touching in HS doing it often in shower. She has two sisters and a niece.

Her first guy was J in High School - first kissing, then fondling her breasts, then she was fingered - going all the way - first orgasm in the back seat of a car. She went all the way at J’s house on the couch, totally nude. He was doing her from behind and started part way in and as she pulled away he pulled her back until he finally was all the way embedded and he started really slamming into her, taking her virginity. She was uncomfortable at first and then reached a plateau of excitement followed by orgasm.

Did three different guys in HS sucked and fucked all separately - all were friends, J, J, and R - She married the last guy - She did not stop seeing others while she was engaged to R and at different times did each one (J,S, and R) often seeing him with their sperm in her.

R was the smallest sized. R and she went to several porn films and she learned how to give even better BJs.

They had problems in marriage and they broke up, still married she dated several guys and did them going all the way oral and missionary, and tried anal, but then got back with R. Never stopped seeing two other guys and would get done at work and she would do them afterwards.

Finally broke up with R and lived with dentist guy - worked at dentist office. He was married and would enjoy her.

She changed jobs having several one night stands.

At work she was doing several of the Drs.

Also at work she found a Lesbian lover B. She had her Lesbian lover, and occasional guys on the side. Others had group sex with B in orgy with five ladies including a Philippine lady at work. She was introduced to pussy oral, anal, oral anal, and big toys.

Stayed several years with B, broke up over a lesbian lover S and they used vibrators, and often did anal, oral. "She always loved dick" she said.

She did a couple more guys at work while with B and S. Told me she would do a woman but always preferred cock.

She stayed with S then broke up after S had cancer treatment - she was doing a couple of guys regularly while she was with S.

After their break-up she dated and met several guys and went complete with them, oral, missionary, doggy, anal with them, finally finding another long term guy, who turned out to be a con man.

She married him, leading to an orgy to pay his debts. She was with him a few years and did a couple guys during their break-up. He offered her to his friends more than once, several who she took him up on.

After divorce, she dated and met several more men, doing again many one night stands.

One guy J she and he used to watch porn and do days in bed. Saw him at his house and then moved with him. They would watch porn and screw all day.

She didn't want to stay with him when she found women's panties - not hers at his house after she returned from a trip.

She returned to TX and lived with her sister. She changed jobs again and met several women friends. Her job took her travelling, and her best friend and she P were bi-sexual and dated together, another woman T went out with them, but became angry when she ended up with the one guy that she wanted.

She did an orgy with P, and did both guys in New Jersey to include DP with two guys.

At another job assignment overseas she did an Israeli DR and his assistant to keep the job and a good rating in the UK in Guildford.

Did two businessmen at once in Duluth (Says she was date ****d) but forgot that when she said she enjoyed the both of them at once. They switched back and forth and she took them in every hole.

Did a guy P in NY, an older guy - of normal size - several times and had an ongoing relationship while she was seeing a boyfriend at home and then met me, another future husband (I was meant to be a one night stand).

She was seeing her boyfriend JB, a bartender at an Irish Pub, he was huge 1998 lived with her huge sized.

Met me in UK (while doing JB in US as well) met at pub went to several pubs, and I met P her bisexual friend too.

On our first night at her Hotel in room 220. We did oral and missionary and later doggy style from behind - spent 3 nights with her, dropping load after load in her without protection. She never liked rubbers.

She was screwing around on then current boyfriend JB, who I didn't know about.

She did a friend of JB's to get free concert tickets and had several more one night stands with guys. I was one of her one night stands but then she decided she wanted me.

We married and she did everything from nude to dressed, oral, anal, missionary, from behind, pissing, use of dildos, double toys, vibrators, many captured in photos, even I learned a lot from her (including listening to all of her sexual history).

She traveled in UK and Scotland and screwed around multiple times on me with over 10-15 guys including several of her work mates, several times she had sperm in her pussy and I screwed her anyway. She got mad when I didn't want anal. She often had anal dildo when I did her. Liked big black dildo in her, anal smaller one and me in her mouth. Liked two headed dildo one head in each hole. She did at least one woman while we were married. She did a group of guys in a pub.

She ran off from me after meeting old HS boyfriend and did him for a week at his house in as she confessed both oral and missionary. She tried moving back in with me later saying he was small w erection probs.
She lives with him now.

My current wife was married once and has had four guys including me. I know or have met her ex husband, and both earlier lovers. She dabbled with maybe 20 others from kisses to fingering and maybe a bj.

[Pussy591]

Originally Posted by jstly

My guess is that the average husband knows about 50 percent of his wife's lovers. That's adding before and after marriage. I appreciate the guys who have more open wives who come clean with the whole history, but for the more common wife, I'd guess there are many strategic omissions....

Obviously, one husband's opinion...

So true ! Until recently my wife's official version was that she had only 5 lovers (and no one night stand)before me ....
As she got quite drunk at a diner lately, she opened up and confessed that the true nomber might be closer to 10 !
Considering that i know of all her previous serious relationships (we ve known each other for a long time), i can only assume the missing ones are one night stands !