[Request] MY WIFE SAYS MOST WOMEN DO NOT LIKE GIVING BLOWJOBS. IS THIS TRUE?

[hamlet]

There are already enough long answers.

My answer to her is; "You Know Nothing Jon Snow"

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by hoosierdaddy4

It was not long after my wife and I were married that I convinced her that it would be fun and exciting to have her naked around a few select male friends of ours. I really love seeing her naked in front of other men. I admit that the friends were for the most part my friends from work and from professional dealings. It didn’t take too much convincing along with liberal amounts of alcohol and mellow smoking material.

The first few instances were pretty tame compared to later situations, they were mostly just feeling and kissing as we talked her out of her clothes. She would usually dance for us and with us and then remain naked while we enjoyed the view.

I can still vividly remember when one night our friend Dennis was visiting and my wife had entertained us with her naked charms. Again this was early in our playing mode so no actual sex acts were expected. This was also one of the very first times that she had not only stripped, but had convinced both of us guys to join her naked. We drank, smoked, took turns kissing her, touching her breasts and very moist pussy. We took turns slow dancing with her, holding her naked body tight against ours.

I remember while Dennis was taking his turn dancing with her, I excused myself to use the bathroom and to get all of us drink refills. When I left them, they were in the upright position, dancing making as much frontal contact possible. When I returned maybe 5 minutes later, Dennis was still standing, but my wife was on her knees with his very erect cock in her mouth. She had one hand cradling his balls and her other on his ass holding him as she tried to swallow his full length.

He had both hands on her shoulders more holding himself up than pushing her down.
He looked up as I walked in and mouthed, “Oh my God!” and shook his head like he didn’t know what to do. Her actions were a surprise to both of us. I was somewhat dumb-struck myself and just stood there watching my wife suck my friends cock. It was a first for me , seeing her with another man’s cock in her mouth.

She didn’t suck him until he came, though it wasn’t for lack of trying. I think it may have been a situation of too much alcohol on his part. I sat on the couch and watched while she practiced her skills for a good 10-15 minutes. Finally when she said her jaws were getting tired, she kissed her way up his chest and they slowly parted. From my viewpoint it was amazingly erotic.

Later after Dennis left and she and I were in bed, fucking like rabbits, I asked her what caused her to suddenly suck his cock. She said she didn’t plan on doing anything like that at all, but while dancing with him and seeing and feeling him naked, she felt like it was what she wanted to do. She said she knew he really wanted her to suck him. She said they didn’t discuss it, that she just lowered herself down and licked him and sucked him into her mouth. She said she had no intention to fuck him, but sucking his cock was perfectly alright. She felt that it was much less intimate sucking him than fucking him, more in the line of deep kissing.

I have been lucky enough to watch her suck several of our male friends since then, most to completion.

Hot story! I have always loved your tales, my man!

[Leviticus59]

I've been married twice. First wife turned out to be a sour b*tch who eventually shut down sexually, but gave great head if she ever took a notion to. I think she was just a natural, and on balance, was the best I've ever had. A wasted talent; she never remarried and lives alone with her needlepoint and cats, so no other cocks have gotten to enjoy her skills either, at least in the long term.

Been married to my second wife almost 20 years. She too was married once before. She reports that her first husband was a three-minute wonder who only wanted to stick his sub-sized wiener in, pump a few times, then roll over and go to sleep. She'd never had a cock in her mouth when I met her, but I fixed that in a hurry. Took a lot of training, encouragement and practice, but she loves men and loves sex, so was a willing pupil, and is now passably good at it. Most important thing is, she simply loves sucking cock now, and enthusiasm counts for a lot. I get my cock sucked extensively every time we have sex. She says that when it's apparent the sex is going to start her mouth begins to water because she'll get to suck a dick for a while.

We also swing and hotwife from time to time. Sometimes she'll start a running narrative when I'm fucking her about the cocks she's sucked during past adventures. The yummy tulip-shaped heads, shaft size, what the cum tasted like, and on and on. It's quite a turn on.

[mysweetie61]

Don't tell my BFF that most women don't like to suck cock. My BFF enjoys sucking a man hard before it goes into her pussy. She especially enjoys getting it deep into her throat. She sucked my best friend twice in half an hour as a favour to me on his birthday. She's not too much into swallowing though she's taken my load a few times when my cock was deep in her throat.
Do these photos show a woman that does not like to give a blowjob?

[Leviticus59]

Getting back to Larry's original question where his wife is telling him,

Originally Posted by Larry27

"Most women don't like to give blowjobs. They just do it because the man wants them to."

People with similar worldviews tend to find each other and congregate together. It's pretty clear she and her best friend have decided they don't like it, and thus assume most other women don't either. Such is clearly not the case. The small sample on this thread shows it.

I had a fuck-friends couple between marriages and the wife loved sucking dick so much I could barely pry her lips off my cock long enough to get her to lie down and fuck. She would sense me getting close to blowing and slow down, or stop for just long enough for the sensation to die away, then start in all over again. I'd sit there on the couch and chat with her husband forever, gab about the weather, politics, baseball and whatever-the-fuck else, while the wife was between my knees leisurely sucking away. I liked it for a while, but finally grew weary of the interminable edging and finally bade them farewell, and moved on.

Anyway, Larry's married and can't (or won't) just next her and move on to another girl who will give him what he wants. He has to decide if it's worth it to stay and only get head occasionally from a woman with a poor, pissy attitude. If she's that much of a prude and won't ever turn loose and enjoy it, that's her issue. Larry's issue is to decide whether he wants to stay for the long term if he's sure it's a sexual situation that's never going to improve.

[onwater247]

personally my wife of 15 years only blows me to get me going and its not very long. I keep telling her I would love for her to do it to completion but she gets to fired up and wants to fuck.
Although I was lucky enough to have 2 separate girl friends that to this day I think they loved blowing more than anything else. Oddly enough I met the second girl friend shortly after the first one and I stopped seeing each other.
the First one I wrote a story about how she surprised me sucking me off to see if I had gotten lucky the night before. When I met her our first official date was out to dinner with friends. She got pretty drunk fairly quickly at dinner which I thought was odd. She started telling me she was getting sick. We ended up leaving before dinner was over and I was going to take her home. I thought well this night is a wash.. Once in the car I was not far down the road and she just reached over and undid my pants and blew me on the way home. She did not even say anything. We ended up at home having sex most of the night, so I forgave her for leaving dinner.. First thing any morning when I was with her she would just roll over and blow me. .loved it...

The second one took me by surprise as well. I had met her at work and to this day I think she is the hottest woman I have ever been with. she turned heads like crazy. she was about 5'6 and maybe 100 pounds. She actually looked like Jane Seymour in her younger days. The way we got together was crazy. she was actually seeing one of my beer drinking buddies. He had announced how he was moving out of state which was no big deal he had more woman than anyone i had ever met. I had fantasized over this woman so much and thought she was out of my league.
she shocked me at his going away party in a bar and came up to me and just told me she really liked me.. I was blown away and said what about "him" she said who cares he is leaving.. She said she would like to come to my house and have a beer some time. This guy was not a great friend or anything but part of me still thought i should give it a couple weeks at least. haha.
He left that weekend and the next week at work she kept saying how she wanted to come over. I was just not comfortable with it. Well a few days later she just shows up at my house.. I let her in and get her a beer. She kept telling me how much she liked me. She was so hot in her work dress and stockings.. I bet she was not there 15 min. and started kissing me. Then right away undid my pants and started blowing me. I could not believe it. After a couple min. I said lets go to the bedroom and continue. She flat out said NO its my time of the month this is all you get. I did not complain. She did let me get her naked. not a hair on that body! still the most beautiful pussy i have ever seen.
Well come to learn in the future she loved sucking dick. She almost always wanted me to finish in her mouth (or ass lucky me). I remember one night she was out with girlfriends and she had planned to stay at my house. I had to work really early so just told her to come in. I was actually about half asleep but she walks in, pulls the covers off and starts sucking my then soft cock. did not take long.
We did not stay together as I would not help but think she was sucking every cock she could get a hold of but it sure was fun while it lasted.

[varv]

Well, for everyone is just silly talk. But, my opinion on the matter is. First, it depends on the mood. Secondly, I like everything in his friend. Whether it is a member or a finger or an ear or nose. What I want, and then I caress. Regarding the member, it is certainly more preferable than the nose. But from the point of view of physiology, what's the difference? There have to be at the highest level hygiene. To understand the man! Take your finger tongue, compress it when it is soft, then strain it, not letting go of his fingers. Analyze your impressions. Of course, this is not comparable to oral sex, but something, I think you will feel different. Here about the same.

[Leviticus59]

Originally Posted by varv

Well, for everyone is just silly talk. But, my opinion on the matter is. First, it depends on the mood. Secondly, I like everything in his friend. Whether it is a member or a finger or an ear or nose. What I want, and then I caress. Regarding the member, it is certainly more preferable than the nose. But from the point of view of physiology, what's the difference? There have to be at the highest level hygiene. To understand the man! Take your finger tongue, compress it when it is soft, then strain it, not letting go of his fingers. Analyze your impressions. Of course, this is not comparable to oral sex, but something, I think you will feel different. Here about the same.

Could you . . . translate that into English please?

[nudony]

There are all kinds of women out there...you can't really generalize.

I had a GF that loved to blow me. I could be sitting down watching TV; she'd pull out my dick and start blowing me. Even when I wasn't in the mood for sex she'd just drop down, pull down my pants and gobble my cock. She just like having cock in her mouth; that was HER thing. Blowing made her cum. I think she liked it even more than actual intercourse. My cock spent more time in her mouth than actually in her vagina.

Many women, like my ex wife, consider BJ's as foreplay. They do it just to get you hard so they then can get fucked harder. If I happened to cum quicker than usual in her mouth, my ex would spit it out, come back and start blowing me again so she could get dick in her.

One GF never really blew me. We'd just have sex, and when came time for me to cum, she'd jump off my cock, grab it, shove it in her mouth and deep throat me as I came. She said she liked the mixed taste of my cum and her juices hit the back of her throat. Ok...

One friend with benefits liked having cum all over her. So she'd blow me and when it came time to cum, she'd point my dick wherever she felt like getting jizzed on (sometimes her face, sometimes her tits), rub it in, and then suck and swallow my remaining jizz. I think she actually got that from watching porn and figured that's what men liked. Yet, of all my partners she was the best. She had a way of sucking out my remaining jizz that would make me hard again, and then we'd go for another round.

Then there are women like my fiancée who are more into licking. Licking, done properly, can be as enjoyable as a BJ. Usually with her it is it's own thing: we lick and jerk each other off instead of fucking. Fucking is for another day.

So yeah...women run the gamut when it comes to dealing with cock in their mouths.