Exploring my wife's fantasies

[wellblowmedown]

My wife for over 35 years is full of contradictions. Outwardly she’s a model of respectability but you always get the sense that really she wishes she could let her hair down and go a bit wild. The trouble is whenever we talked about livening things up she would clam up and things were often left just in the air, sometimes literally! Usually the only way she will open up is when she’s getting drunk. The trouble is catching her before she completely zonks out.
However there have also been times when, not drunk, she’s suddenly blurted out something completely out of character. I will come to that a bit later. Luckily I’ve got a good memory and I’ll be putting down my recollections, drunk or not, of her various fantasies over the years..
This week she’s been away for a few days so I’ve used some of my time to try and work her out. By writing all this down I hope to get a better understanding of what makes her tick. Hopefully any comments I get will help in that process as well as rewarding any readers with a bit of a buzz.
She had a very staid, conservative, middle class upbringing but these are some of the things that actually happened to her before we met and she told me not long after we were married.
When her parents were away she got stripped naked by a lot of blokes at her birthday party but they didn’t fuck her as I know she was a virgin when I met her
As a teenager and very drunk she hitch hiked back to her home alone about 3 miles and got picked up by 4 blokes in a car. When one of them suggested things she apparently realised the predicament she was in and one of the other blokes said despite her being drunk she looked petrified & they let her out of the car. Remember she was a virgin and probably scared it would hurt.
During a holiday abroad with 2 girlfriends, they met up with some guys & whereas the other 2 got screwed she said it was her time of the month & he only got a wank. This applied to her first real boyfriend who wanted her to move in with him.
So a lot of what ifs and maybes. There’s probably a lot more which she hasn’t told me. Despite it being the seventies she really was apprehensive about sex and was known as a prick teaser at college when I met her.
However it has given me an inkling of the reasons why she has the fantasies she’s told me about. I’ll add details of these when I get the time.

[wellblowmedown]

My wife for over 35 years is full of contradictions. Outwardly she’s a model of respectability but you always get the sense that really she wishes she could let her hair down and go a bit wild. The trouble is whenever we talked about livening things up she would clam up and things were often left just in the air, sometimes literally! Usually the only way she will open up is when she’s getting drunk. The trouble is catching her before she completely zonks out.
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However there have also been times when, not drunk, she’s suddenly blurted out something completely out of character. I will come to that a bit later. Luckily I’ve got a good memory and I’ll be putting down my recollections, drunk or not, of her various fantasies over the years..
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This week she’s been away for a few days so I’ve used some of my time to try and work her out. By writing all this down I hope to get a better understanding of what makes her tick. Hopefully any comments I get will help in that process as well as rewarding any readers with a bit of a buzz.
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She had a very staid, conservative, middle class upbringing but these are some of the things that actually happened to her before we met and she told me not long after we were married.
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When her parents were away she got stripped naked by a lot of blokes at her birthday party but they didn’t fuck her as I know she was a virgin when I met her
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As a teenager and very drunk she hitch hiked back to her home alone about 3 miles and got picked up by 4 blokes in a car. When one of them suggested things she apparently realised the predicament she was in and one of the other blokes said despite her being drunk she looked petrified & they let her out of the car. Remember she was a virgin and probably scared it would hurt.
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During a holiday abroad with 2 girlfriends, they met up with some guys & whereas the other 2 got screwed she said it was her time of the month & he only got a wank. This applied to her first real boyfriend who wanted her to move in with him.
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So a lot of what ifs and maybes. There’s probably a lot more which she hasn’t told me. Despite it being the seventies she really was apprehensive about sex and was known as a prick teaser at college when I met her.
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However it has given me an inkling of the reasons why she has the fantasies she’s told me about. I’ll add details of these when I get the time.
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I encouraged her to share her fantasies as I think it’s a real turn on to hear the hidden and often depraved female fantasies. These tend to be a long more imaginative than male fantasies which usually just involve visual imagery or physical control. I think I really wanted to keep them as fantasies but she did say once “what is the point of fantasies if you don’t intend to carry them out”. I think she was straddling the line between fantasy and actually enacting them. It must be her way of getting maximum turn on as well as probing for my reaction. Whenever I’ve said OK let’s go for it, she’s always backed off.
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The only thing she really does do without just talking about is the occasional exhibitionism. You could say she has a streak of exhibitionism! This may relate back to her exposure at her party years before when loads of blokes got a good view of her.
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We stayed at a B & B in a small town in France which had a large window in the bedrrom. At night she stripped naked and before getting into bed she slowly walked towards the window and then proceeded to slowly close the curtains. How many randy Frenchmen saw her I’ll never know. That was the first time I became aware of it.
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Of course I was ignoring her obvious exhibitionism as it was hell of a turn on and didn’t want to put her off doing it by remarking on it. Over time she’s become quite adept at making it look accidental and I’m playing along with the game (see attachments below). I’ve always wanted to get a view of her from outside the bedroom as others see her. I’ll have to work on that.
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On holiday in a hotel she generally ensures that curtains are open after coming out of the shower.
We were staying at a friend’s house in a room in London with no curtains & she was walking around naked. There may be a few blokes in Streatham who remember her!
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On my next posting I’ll describe some examples of the things she’s come up with either when tipsy or spontaneously

[nigbo]

My wife is the ultimate prude normally - won't even go topless on a beach or in our garden (secluded & not over looked).

I found a computer programme 'sex game' once and she asked what it was - bit like monopoly landing on squares with various 'questions' to answer or 'acts' to do etc. - so I got her to play it with me. One question was name your fantasy. To my astonishment she said - sex with 2 men ! I have never heard a peep from her since remotely like this - although I have heard her when very drunk tell my mate he can feel her tits. You never know - one day when she's drunk I might get her to act out her 'fantasy'. I know my mate would willingly oblige ! ( Trouble is he has a massive cock - she might get to like it better than mine !)

[piecenick]

Very interested in your posting, please continue. This is remarkably close to my wife, even the secret exhibitionism, which I only found out about by catching her at it. I think my wife's was triggered by some guys looking up her skirt when she descended the stairs outside out 1st apartment.

[stevezr1]

Women! the ultimate mystery.
The wife has NEVER admitted to any fantasies, but you KNOW that she must have some fantasies I'd love to cultivate.

If for no other reason, she is an exhibitionist with some odd twists... ?? (I've written about this here before)
I like to think of her as a "closet exhibitionist"

She likes to get naked in semi-public settings, remote beaches, clothing optional vacations, backyard, etc. full well knowing she is being seen.
But she will never acknowledge any gaining pleasure from doing this. She HAS to have fantasies revolving around being naked in public. For the life of me, I can't pry anything from her, even after baiting her with possible scenarios I'd LOVE to explore with her.

Women! as said, the ultimate mystery.

[wellblowmedown]

Originally Posted by nigbo

My wife is the ultimate prude normally - won't even go topless on a beach or in our garden (secluded & not over looked).

I found a computer programme 'sex game' once and she asked what it was - bit like monopoly landing on squares with various 'questions' to answer or 'acts' to do etc. - so I got her to play it with me. One question was name your fantasy. To my astonishment she said - sex with 2 men ! I have never heard a peep from her since remotely like this - although I have heard her when very drunk tell my mate he can feel her tits. You never know - one day when she's drunk I might get her to act out her 'fantasy'. I know my mate would willingly oblige ! ( Trouble is he has a massive cock - she might get to like it better than mine !)

Long ago I managed to get her talking about her fantasies. She said she really didn’t have any and I said you must have something that really turns you on. She then spent what seemed like ages, presumably worried how I was going to react, before she finally said she’d like to take 4 men on at the same time. Trying to act the innocent, though getting a great boner, I asked in what way. She said she’d be wanking 2 of them off, 1 would be fucking her and the fourth bloke with his cock in her mouth. She said she didn’t know if she could actually do it though. I couldn’t believe she had really come out with this, knowing how unadventurous she was, especially the cock sucking. Of course this resulted in some serious fucking.
Looking back it sounds like after being let out the car that time, she’d gone home and let her imagination run riot about what could and probably should have happened.

[wellblowmedown]

Out of the blue my wife asked about anything that turned me on and I said I’d love to take some naughty photos of her. She didn’t scoff at the idea, though she was surprised about what I had said. This was in the days before digital photos so any pictures taken would have to be sent off for processing to one of those photographers/developers who advertised in porn mags (remember them). After more chatting she said she would be quite turned on by me showing these pics in some seedy pub in the city. She then said “what if they said they wanted to fuck me?”. That really surprised me and I said I’d probably have to say “I’ll have to ask her”. She said she couldn’t believe that some strangers in a pub would want to fuck her based just on some pictures that they'd been shown. This was making her hot and got the right result that night. Needless to say we never actually took the pictures, we got cold feet about sending the film to God knows who was at the end of the advert and where else the photos might end up.
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Now of course everyone’s a photographer, and indeed publisher, so I think I’ll resurrect the idea and see if I can get her to pose. Now that's going to take some persuading as she's a real prude when it comes to the crunch. Instead of showing them in some seedy pub, they could go on OCC, which isn’t seedy of course (!) although there’s still the caveat about showing facial shots not knowing who may be looking!

[wellblowmedown]

Originally Posted by SteveZR1

Women! the ultimate mystery.
The wife has NEVER admitted to any fantasies, but you KNOW that she must have some fantasies I'd love to cultivate.

If for no other reason, she is an exhibitionist with some odd twists... ?? (I've written about this here before)
I like to think of her as a "closet exhibitionist"

She likes to get naked in semi-public settings, remote beaches, clothing optional vacations, backyard, etc. full well knowing she is being seen.
But she will never acknowledge any gaining pleasure from doing this. She HAS to have fantasies revolving around being naked in public. For the life of me, I can't pry anything from her, even after baiting her with possible scenarios I'd LOVE to explore with her.

Women! as said, the ultimate mystery.

Yes, my life's work trying to understand the female psyche. Have you tried asking her when she's had a couple of glasses. I usually find that's the only way to get my wife to open up (discussing things that is).

[piecenick]

"Yes, my life's work trying to understand the female psyche." Good luck with that.

My wife is a closet flasher too, I have written many posts on her adventures. I thought as she got older this phase would pass, thankfully it hasn't, as she is sneaky clever at it. I had to laugh at something she told me a couple of years ago. She is the chairwoman of the Arts Council, a group of mostly staid older women who have a monthly tea and usually invite some artist to speak to the group.

One month they had this artist come talk about his paintings and his 'life as an artist'. At the end of the talk he mentioned that he was always looking for models, he painted mostly nudes and he was not interested in young perfect bodies. If anyone wanted to volunteer, please give him a call, he left some business cards.

My wife thought about it for a week, she figured none of the other woman in the group would even consider it, so she gave him a call. He said he would appreciated her offer and he would definitely call her when he did something she would be right for. Then he thanked her for the great support the Council had given him, so many of the members had offered to model for him. My wife was pleasantly surprised.

She did eventually pose for him, with another woman from the AC no less, and my wife wouldn't tell me who it was. I saw the painting and it could have been several different woman.

[camflasher1]

After our marriage, during vacations, we used to visit different cities across the world. i remember this incident very clearly in my mind and thought this would fit in here.

We were in Thailand for a week and our first stopover was at Bangkok, which we decided to explore for couple of days, before moving to Phuket. The first day we landed at approx 8pm in Bangkok and immediately went for our dinner and we had a session of massage in our room by one of the Thai Girls.
My wife(29yrs) really found this relaxing, since she never had experienced this before. Massage is pretty expensive in this part of northern europe. The next day, we had a full day tour and we were back in our room by 7pm. I suggested we get drunk and then go in for a massage to which my wife readily agreed, since she was really tired by the day tour. After couple of drinks, i told her that we could get a better bargain in the price, if we approached the massage parlours in street rather than hiring from the hotel spa. She agreed and i went to one of the kinky parlours in the street. Bargained with the girls, since it was a couple massage and returned back to the room.

The massage girl must have been in her mid 20's and my wife agreed to get shed her clothes first. Mind you she is very conservative by nature. so she stripped and laid down in her bra n panties. Also she had finished her 3rd peg of black label. The massage girl unhooked her bra strap and started massaging her back. The massage girl was wearing a very short pant and her i could see her cleavage when she was working on my wife. Looking at the scene, i really got horny and started masturbating watching them. i was sitting next to the bed watching both of the ladies in action. The massage girl started to notice me and was grinning back. Now she was on my wife's buttocks loosening her panties. My wife suddenly stopped her and told her to massage only the legs. I intervened and told her it is fine, and the masseur was a girl even. So she said ok and the girl pulled down her panties to the thighs and started working on her ass. i pulled the massage girl aside and told her that i would give her 500Baht more if she would massage my wife's pussy. she said she would try and also added that my wife was very shy.

The girl was pretty good in her job and she convinced my wife to remove her panties completely since it was affecting her work. Now my wife had only bra which was covering her tits and she was naked from the back. i was really aroused and downed a couple of pegs more..
The girl asked my wife to turn around, for which my wife refused again, since her pussy would be exposed. so i gave her a small towel to cover her pussy and she obliged. she still had her bra covering her tits. The girl asked my wife if she would like massage of her breasts and my wife refused stating she had never allowed any woman to touch her private parts. My wife wears a 34B bra so u guys can imagine her breasts.. The girl started massaging her shoulders and slowly started touching her cleavage. The girl suggested that my wife remove her bra and cover her tits with a towel. My wife agreed and i found the smallest towel in the room. Her breasts were exposed for couple of seconds during the changeover. My wife eventually relaxed and the girl started massaging her cleavage and sides of her breasts and making sure that she was not touching her nipples. The girl accidentally touched her nipples couple of times and my wife was getting aroused. my wife saw the bulge in my shorts and passed a grin. The girl noticed that my wife had completely relaxed and started fondling her breasts n nipples more. my wife was clearly aroused and the girl succeeded in removing the towel off her breasts.

Now i thought 500Baht was doing the job. The girl started massaging her thighs and she would accidentally touch her shaven pussy. my wife arched her back and started to moan. the black label was doing its job and so was the girl. The girl was very confident now and started massaging her pussy and tits. Now my wife was completely naked in front of the girl. She saw my bulge again and started looking at the girl. Suddenly she pulled the girl to herself and started fondling her tits. i was completely aroused and removed my shorts and shoved my cock in my wife's mouth. The girl was shocked momentarily, but was fine, since my wife was keeping an eye on me . i never touched the girl. my wife was fondling her tits and touching her ass.

After 5 or 10 minutes of fucking her mouth, i got ready to explore her pussy. she was completely wet by all the action and i entered and started fucking her. The ladies were busy fondling each other's breasts and i had all the pussy to myself.

After 10mins i exploded inside her pussy. my wife was completely exhausted after her multiple orgasms and wanted to sleep. so i paid the girl off and said that i would not have any massage and that i wanted to fuck my wife again.
I thanked her for bringing the wild side of my wife and paid her 200Bahts more.

i fucked her couple of times more during the nite and finally she confessed that she always wanted to feel a girl in real. Also she mentioned that she was not able to touch the girl's pussy, since i was around..

Next day morning i told her that if she wanted, i could leave them both alone for couple of hours and then she could enjoy herself. She was not in a mood in the morning and said she would think about it later on and also we had a flight to catch in the evening to Phuket.

I brought up this subject again in Phuket and we did have a massage, but it was not this exciting anywhere, may be because i didnt find the right gal. Also i mentioned to her that she could try a male. she flatly refused and it was a firm no.

So now i finally discovered her fantasy. But somehow in this part of the world it's very difficult to explore her lesbian ventures, since we r in a civilised society and live a in city.

And now after 2 kids, i hardly get to explore her pussy. its been more than 20days since i have last fucked her.


if Anybody out there had a similar experience, please share..