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Safe Word
Do you and your partner have a safe word?
When you're going for it and having a full on session of passion, getting carried away, do you have a safe word to draw the line or just roll with the action? |
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It's just good practice, and common courtesy in today's world! |
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When we're alone together?
No...Unless you consider "No, don't do that" a kind of a safeword! We watch each other. Our bodies tell us what we need to know.
If we're with someone else? Of course we'll have a safeword. |
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no
No, there is no drama code... we just talk english about whatever it is....
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Not so much now. But when my wife and I were first dating, then married, we did. She likes light bondage and spanking. Part of the excitement for her was resisting and saying no, stop, etc. So we had a word then. Now, we’ve been together so long that I know her boundaries and she trusts me to get to the edge, but not go over.
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No doesn't always mean no
When I first started having sex with a new girlfriend many years ago, she didn't come the first couple of times. The third time (our first time in a bed) I knew I had her - her eyes got as big as saucers, and she kept whispering no - no - no until she came really hard. Later I asked her about it and she wasn't aware that she said that, and that I had better NOT stop fucking her just before she comes regardless of what comes out of her mouth.
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Then you should be able to recognize distress....if your "role play" is too deep w/ bondage & resistance , etc....you shouldn't be playing if you don't know the real situtation to react....... But I never saw a problem in a "code" word if thats what you need...
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I disagree, GRITS.
In the throws of passion, depending on the scenario being played out, roleplay, submissive, subservient, dominant, sexual boundries, BDSM, S&M, edging, any sexual act that is pushing the normal play to another level, then there should be a word not commonly used between the agreeing parties involved. It just makes a clear indication that the line has been drawn and to step back. |
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