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We get your point, we just disagree. I know that bothers you but let it go, man. And please stop shouting!
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Then again, there are a lot of plastic swingers/players/fetish and BDSM participants and so on, that do it for the glory of having a trophy wife who is coerced and put into situations they don't want to be in, yet go through the motions with a smile on their face to please their partners, which can lead to they plays ending in ugly situations and arguments due to a lack of communication. Safe words, for us, are just there for the safety of each other and a line not to cross and keep communication clear. Safeword = Stop, back off, gather yourselves and keep each other happy. |
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Obviously GRITS and his friends don't play BDSM situations. In straight/bi/swinging situations, plain english is all you need. "No means No!"
In BSDM or Sub/Dom scenarios, a safe word is absolutely necessary. DR |
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Sorry,, not yelling.... sometimes I type wrong and hit caps by accident as you can see w/ the i... We do plat bdsm, but probably in a lighter way then whats being refered to on this thread....
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My fiancée has a masochistic side and occasionally enjoys being dominated - to the degree of abuse. It makes her cum harder for some reason. I go along with it for her pleasure. It has involved me throwing her on the floor or over the couch, pulling her pants off or dress up; and pounding while choking her while she feigns resistance. If she gets really excited she'll insult me or be combative; with the objective of getting me to be even more physical. Because of my physical strength it's easy for me to get carried away; hence the need for a safe word. |
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Safe Word
My wife and I have spent a lot of time exploring BDSM. She truly loves pain as part of her sexual experience. We do not dabble in humiliation, all of my scenes are centered around pain and/or fear. Part of our exploration included identifying her limits. How can you know your limit if you do not exceed it? If you can't see the line, you don't know where to stop. Make sense? A safe word is an absolute must if you are pushing boundaries. We never play with others, as BDSM (for us) is very, very personal. She has absolute trust in me; trust that I will not hurt her while inflicting as much pain as she can tolerate. We use two very simple, easy to remember words. Yellow and red. Yellow means slow down. I like what you are doing, but I am close to my limit. Give me a breather, then resume. Red means stop immediately. You have reached or exceeded my limit. Part of what makes it exciting is seeing how far she can go. Once I learned her limits, she almost never uses anything other than yellow.
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I'm going to try to be very clear and concise with this post. I've never gotten fully into the BDSM lifestyle and I've never gone to any sort of club or meet-up for this lifestyle or fetish. This was some rougher sex that I engaged in with a woman for a short period of time.
When I and this woman talked about experimenting with rougher sex, we immediately understood that because we are in this lifestyle we should take some precautions, so we developed a safeword the safe word was "Kirby" in reference to the video game character. We selected him because it's something we'd both immediately recognize and since Kirby is not a human character he can't be sexualized so hearing his name immediately allowed me to bring things to an immediate stop. We also developed other things for her to do if she couldn't speak (such as her being gagged or face fucked). My nipples, while they are sensitive, do not give me sexual pleasure, so pinching my nipples will immediately give me a very unpleasant sensation, so I understood that if she were reaching for my nipples to immediately stop. Also if she could not reach my nipples, I told her to bite my penis, not hard and certainly not enough to draw blood but hard enough to be unpleasant and I told her I would immediately stop put my hands behind my back and allow her to gather herself and either continue or stop. |
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