[Threesomes] New Girlfriend....going to have a Threesome

[newtoncreek]

I got divorced three months ago, my ex was great in bed but never adventuresome. My new girlfriend "Kelly" is a co-worker, she has a crazy reputation...that's what I'm looking for, a wild girl who I don't care about (got burned by the ex, that's another story.)

One night last week we were watching a soft core late night porn on tv. Kelly mentions that the porn would be better if two guys were in it with the girl not just one. I ask her if she had ever done MFM and she said "many times".

She then asked if I would like to bring another guy in...I shook my head yes.

So she is presently setting up a "date". (she apparently has guys she can call just for this....told you she is crazy).

As I have never been in the room with another man in a sexual situation, I have a few questions about my impending MFM:

1. Can I set up ground rules ahead of time or do I let it all go (I really don't want to touch him or get his semen on me)? Is that bad form? Do I just let it play out and man up?

2. Seeing her get fucked by another man will be hot, but I assume that it will not be as good as seeing someone I love in that situation? Correct? Back when I was with my wife I fantasized about it, I feel that watching some who is "mine" and I love with another man is a whole different feeling that watching a pretty much "friends with benefits" girl in the same situation.

3. Can I insist (well maybe ask nicely) that Kelly set up a FMF threesome after this? I'm pretty she has done that and I wouldn't mind trying that out for the first time as well.

I am kind of nervous about this...this is a whole new thing for me. We are going to try to do this before Christmas but I travel a lot so I may be after New Years....I will let you guys know!

[buddy i con]

Originally Posted by newtoncreek

I got divorced three months ago, my ex was great in bed but never adventuresome. My new girlfriend "Kelly" is a co-worker, she has a crazy reputation... I have a few questions about my impending MFM:

1. Can I set up ground rules ahead of time or do I let it all go (I really don't want to touch him or get his semen on me)? Is that bad form? Do I just let it play out and man up?

2. Seeing her get fucked by another man will be hot, but I assume that it will not be as good as seeing someone I love in that situation? Correct? Back when I was with my wife I fantasized about it, I feel that watching some who is "mine" and I love with another man is a whole different feeling that watching a pretty much "friends with benefits" girl in the same situation.

3. Can I insist (well maybe ask nicely) that Kelly set up a FMF threesome after this? I'm pretty she has done that and I wouldn't mind trying that out for the first time as well.

I can offer advice from a novice's point of view. Novice, not inexperienced, but I haven't done this enough to give the kind of advice I'm sure you'll get from others more experienced. Your questions are the kind I had too.

1. You and she set the rules ahead. I don't think you want to meet him for the first time right beforehand. Let her know about your limits. Ask about her limits, including photography. Get as much info about the guy (and his limits) beforehand. Don't rule-out sloppy seconds before you try it.
2. Everyone, every couple and every situation is different. FWBs though are certainly easier.
3. Ask about a FMF after the party goes well.

AND... report your results! (illustrated)

[mastertang]

Having moderate experience as the other guy, not part of the married couple, my point of view is somewhat different but:

1. She probably knows very well what the other guy is into, how he cums, etc. I was not warned the first time, but luckily I was not in the line of fire of her husband the first time out. Since then if he is about to blow I get away from whichever way he's pointing . Honestly, you should just be able to say to the guy, "I'd prefer we don't touch each other at all and I'd prefer it if you let me know when you are about to blow to avoid any friendly fire incidents." Simple as that.

2. This is a team sport, the more enthusiastic everyone is, the better it will be. Love is not as important here in my opinion, it's just dirty sexy fun. But in a marriage, I can understand that can be more 'meaningful', and dangerous if you aren't mutually enthusiastic about it. The nice thing about your setup is that you to are both already on the same page, you want wild and she wants to get wild. Enjoy the experience, leave emotion at the door.

3. Good luck. No such luck for me, so I have nothing constructive to offer. If she isn't turned off by the idea, go for it.

[malakabufo]

From my few times, the easiest way to get into this is what you might expect. One plays catcher and the other center field. She's on all fours. Take a look at many of the MFM pics here and you'll see. So you're not in the line of fire, either. I could never, for instance, see the appeal of the double bj or the double penetration. Let her take the lead, however, as she's been there before.

[the_jammer]

Originally Posted by newtoncreek

I got divorced three months ago, my ex was great in bed but never adventuresome. My new girlfriend "Kelly" is a co-worker, she has a crazy reputation...that's what I'm looking for, a wild girl who I don't care about (got burned by the ex, that's another story.)

One night last week we were watching a soft core late night porn on tv. Kelly mentions that the porn would be better if two guys were in it with the girl not just one. I ask her if she had ever done MFM and she said "many times".

She then asked if I would like to bring another guy in...I shook my head yes.

So she is presently setting up a "date". (she apparently has guys she can call just for this....told you she is crazy).

As I have never been in the room with another man in a sexual situation, I have a few questions about my impending MFM:

1. Can I set up ground rules ahead of time or do I let it all go (I really don't want to touch him or get his semen on me)? Is that bad form? Do I just let it play out and man up?

2. Seeing her get fucked by another man will be hot, but I assume that it will not be as good as seeing someone I love in that situation? Correct? Back when I was with my wife I fantasized about it, I feel that watching some who is "mine" and I love with another man is a whole different feeling that watching a pretty much "friends with benefits" girl in the same situation.

3. Can I insist (well maybe ask nicely) that Kelly set up a FMF threesome after this? I'm pretty she has done that and I wouldn't mind trying that out for the first time as well.

I am kind of nervous about this...this is a whole new thing for me. We are going to try to do this before Christmas but I travel a lot so I may be after New Years....I will let you guys know!

1. Ground rules are important because you don't want to cross any boundaries you and/or she are not comfortable with. After all, you're there to have fun. The ground rules should cover what limits you and she want to set. If you don't want to cross swords with the other dude, it shouldn't be a problem. Most guys aren't into that. And the suggestion about avoiding friendly fire is a good one. Mostly the other guys are there for a good time too and won't be interested in you sexually. My best friend and I double-teamed my ex-wife, and we tended to stay at opposite ends. She blew him while I did her doggy style, and she turned around to swap us out. The women usually find a way to make it work, especially if she's experienced at it. Halfway into it, I told him not to blow his load inside her, and that distracted him so much he blew it right then (inside her) LOL So yes - don't rule out the sloppy seconds until you've tried it. If you try it and don't like it, then make that a future ground rule.

2. Love vs FWB - I don't have the kink that enjoys watching "my" woman with another man, but I don't object to it either. For me it wouldn't make a difference. I'd be there for the fun regardless of love or FWB. That's something personal you'll have to decide.

3. "Insist" is too strong. Beg or plead, maybe. Or even suggest and express curiosity and interest. But be prepared - where most "other guys" in a MFM are there because ... well, let's be honest, because they want free sex ... another woman getting involved may not be there for you, but may be there just for her. Don't expect to get to have sex with her friend just because she's there and participating. If that's what you're looking for, you need to make sure your girl understands that. But don't be so strong about it that she thinks you just want to have sex with someone else. Make sure she knows that you want it to be all 3 of you, and that you don't want to just watch her with another girl. You also need to beware the jealousy issue here, especially if there is an attachment between the two of you. A friend told me about his wife's past life and how she used to do FMFs all the time, until her boyfriend blew his load in her friend, and she never did one again. My ex and I had 2 different MFMs and they were both awesome. We tried a FMF with her and her best friend, and afterward she had some problems with the girl/girl she had done and a bit of a problem with jealousy thinking that maybe I liked her friend better. We tried a couple swap with another couple in a group and it worked well. Everyone was distracted at just the right times to avoid jealousy and she got 2 guys instead of having to face the girl/girl again.

If they are both ok with it, set up a video camera on a tripod in the corner and enjoy yourself!! Best of luck! And share the pictures!

[Pokieman]

Don't shit where you eat man. NOT a good idea to date anyone you work with, ever.

[newtoncreek]

Thanks guys for all the advice!! I'm out of town for work every weekend until after New Years, so it will not be until early/mid January. She has a former boyfriend (who I was pretty sure she is still fucking...now, of course, I know ) lined up for the "date".....I guess the question is, is HE the second guy, or am I the second guy...lol.

I will let you guys know!!

[cash23]

Had my first FMF 3x back when I was a college sophomore.

Don't sweat incidental contact with the other guy. It's really not a big deal. In fact, you really ought to try double vag penetration. Which means you're going to feel each other's cock thrusting inside her pussy at the same time. The closest a man will come to experiencing what sex feels like to a woman. Unbelievably hot. And she'll go crazy.

If that's a bridge too far, then have one of you do her ass while the other cock is in her pussy. You'll still feel the other cock but it won't be as intense.

But trust me, the MM contact thing just isn't a big deal. You'll see.

Nor is coming into contact with his semen. The only way you know you're getting sloppy seconds is if the other guy told you he spurted inside her. Otherwise her pussy will feel the way wet pussy always does. And unless he withdraws to handpump his hot load onto your chest and she tries to French-kiss his cum into your mouth -- snowballing -- you're not to have anything to do with his cum.

My advice? Follow the John F. Kennedy rule -- you're not through with her until you've cum in all three holes. Since there are two of you, she's going to get a work out.

You're going to have a good time, and with luck, you'll have enough memories to power a million self-induced orgasms over the next 25 years.

By the way, you're better off doing a MFM 3x with a girl you're not in love with. Keep the fun sexual and avoid all that cuckold/wife-sharing nonsense. Men who want to see wifey get fucked are playing with emotional fire. Some fantasies are better remaining a fantasy. Which hubby doesn't realize until the first time he sees another cock slide into wifey's wet sn*tch. Then he gets upset. I once played with a married couple where hubby started crying as I mounted his wife. Not a fun evening.

We want a complete after action report.

Good luck.

[donkeydong]

I've been married for 25 yrs. to my wonderful wife we have done many things believe me.But a few years back we had some new nieghbors move in .The husband works strait night shift so the wife Abby spends many nites at are home .It wasn't long before we started having some awsome 3-somes my wife always liked women as much as I do.The only problem we have is the girls fight over who gets the load .So the man I am they each get one ha ha!!!! And in case anyone is wondering her husband knows nothing .

[Scorpio28]

I tried with my ex-girlfriend few weeks ago.
First time she had one sex after another, then inside all three holes at the same time.
She like it.