What have you been able to get or teach a girl/So/wife to do?

[Duran Duran]

Barbarella, the missus, has enjoyed many an adventure nude on a beach or at a hotel window/sliding door or on a balcony. And as long as she is worked up and in the right frame of mind, she's up for it (that's my most important job - to make sure I've been able to put her in a position to be in that mood). It always makes her feel sexy and turns her on even more. But she's never taken the bull by the horns and done it of her own volition.

Until recently...

We were engaging in a bit of spring time shenanigans in our 10th floor hotel room that overlooks the water. It was around 4pm on a perfect day and the sheer curtains are closed, allowing sunlight in and somewhat of a view, but nobody able to see in. It was a twin room and after some foreplay and fun on the far bed from the window I moved Barbarella into a doggy position looking directly out the window/balcony glass sliding door. I stood behind her and continued the fun. She loves this position as she enjoys light SM play, so hair pulling, butt slapping, face pushing etc can happen. After a few minutes she reaches over and pulls one of the curtains open a bit (it was a really small room - no more than 20 centimetres between the bed and the sliding door).

At this point I was impressed. She's never done that before. I would either just do it or tell her and she'd nearly always comply (a few times I've got it wrong!). Little by little she opens the curtains even further until they are fully opened. The sun was coming directly into the room, so there was no chance that it was darker inside than outside. The sun was illuminating everything. There were some people in the water (It was a super low tide, so the water had actually vanished and people were walking around exploring the shallows) and if they looked up they for sure could have seen as the balcony guard railing was all glass.

This was great I thought until she says tells me she wants to stand at the window/glass sliding door. We pushed the bed back enough to give me space to be able to enter her from behind and I push her up against the window. At this point anybody walking below or exploring the shallows only had to look up to see Barbarella pushed up against the window with her hair back, tits and pussy on view and arms up holding the door on either side. She could see the people below and it only made her more turned on. We must have stayed at the window for a good 10mins until her legs could no longer hold her up and she was quivering and needed to lie down.

Barbarella has always enjoyed nudity in these situation and when she's excited she wants people to look at her, but this was the first time she'd actually taken the lead in doing it.

[Darci]

I had a one night stand teach me Ass to Mouth. I met him at an event to honor a war veteran. He was a nice guy. Then we ended up hanging out after this all day event and ended up at my house. A few drinks led to making out, which led to foreplay, which led to sex, Which led to hardcore anal fucking. After his dick was in my ass, he pulled it out and said, “Eat it b*tch”. I sucked him dry, swallowed his cum and then he left. This guy taught me Ass to Mouth.

[karlhein]

I've gotten several ladies to squirt, they said for tge first time ever. The all had cum at least once, from fucking, oral or fingering. Then deep g spot massage. Never had a lady who hadn't already cum squirt. It takes patience, but they all seemed to enjoy it.

[shinohouse]

When did the hype of chat roulette start? I got my wife to dress sexy and teasing some strangers on chat roulette - but without her face in it. It was funny, how many man were willing to put their dicks out for her within seconds.
I believe she liked that thing but never did it again.

[n8kdrunnr]

I've been a big fan of getting naked outside for years - ever since i started streaking campus back in college.

I can't quite remember how it came up, but when I was dating my now-wife I decided she needed to know this about me if we were going to get serious. I mean, at some point she was going to wonder where I'd been when I decided to run the neighborhood naked in the middle of the night!

We talked about it over a dinner out and I told her how I really hoped she didn't think I was weird for loving getting naked outside in public places (but not being caught). She assured me she didn't think it was weird and everyone has their own thing. She even agreed to maybe trying it some day (be still my beating heart).

On the way home that night, we were almost to her apartment and I said, "If you wanted to try some driving naked, your almost out of time." To my surprise she started taking off her top. Needless to say, I turned around quickly in the parking lot and kept the drive going. She saw how much her being topless excited me and decided to get fully nude in the car.

Needless to say, we got back to her place and had amazing sex. For several years after that, when we were out and had some drinks she would routinely start stripping in the car and ask, in a lovely sultry voice, "care to join me?" and we would drive around naked with her either giving me oral or me jerking.

She's toned it down in recent years as she's gotten less fit than she was and, as she says "we have more to lose if we get caught." but those were some damn great years!

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by n8kdrunnr

She's toned it down in recent years as she's gotten less fit than she was and, as she says "we have more to lose if we get caught." but those were some damn great years!

There is definitely something to this last part.

My wife used to get ME to do things (imagine the title of this thread being reversed) and we thought nothing of it at the time other than having so much fun. Nothing wrong with anything we did, but the risks were insanely high. But that was almost 20 years ago. Now days, though, we have waaaaay too much to lose over something really dumb and not worth it, so we don't do much.

[postnit4u]

I taught 5 woman how to take it in the ass, 6 if you believe my wife.

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by Gnome72141

There is definitely something to this last part.

My wife used to get ME to do things (imagine the title of this thread being reversed) and we thought nothing of it at the time other than having so much fun. Nothing wrong with anything we did, but the risks were insanely high. But that was almost 20 years ago. Now days, though, we have waaaaay too much to lose over something really dumb and not worth it, so we don't do much.

With cameras everywhere, smartphones everywhere and social media, it's definitely getting more difficult. I look back on some of the things I've done with past GFs and my wife and I can't believe some of the stuff we actually did. And I'd say it's tame in comparison to others.

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Similar to Karlhein, I taught several ex sex friends how to find their g-spot and then the ensuing arched back, screams of sexual pleasure and sometimes squirting would, er... flow.

Nothing quite as sexy as a woman with a finger or two inside her pussy totally arched up moaning heavily as she massages her g-spot.

Interesting thing is, I didn't even know it was the g-spot. I'd just found out by accident early on. It was until years later with the advent of all the sexual blogs and columns on the internet that I actually realised it was the g-spot.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by Duran Duran

I look back on some of the things I've done with past GFs and my wife and I can't believe some of the stuff we actually did. And I'd say it's tame in comparison to others.

My wife and I joke about this all the time. For example, we will be sitting on our swing in our yard with her legs on me, and I will be up her skirt massaging her inner thighs with her panties possibly exposed to the other backyards, or I will be down inside her bra massaging her chest, and we will say how for some people that would be the wildest thing they have ever done, but for us it's just another evening after dinner!

[karlhein]

A few years back, I was casually dating a nice divorce MILF. She was a redhead, a little physically worse off for having born 3 kids, but with nice round pink nippled titties and a full red bush. She was fun, interesting to talk to and was responsive when I made a move. She loved to french kiss, adequate but not great at giving head, and fucked with enthusiasm, but couldn't quite cum. Between the lines, I got the sense that she very rarely ever came, and since her divorce (I was her 3rd lover since the divorce) had not cum. We had been together 4 times. I had seen a porn site when a guy sat between a ladies legs, and rubber her pussy, marked by her asshole winking when she came. I was curious uf it really worked.
So, we nade out a bit, wound up naked, and I pushed her up on her kitchen table. Pulled a chair up, and said "lets try something". I pushed her legs apart, and began touching her pussy with my forefinger. Now I had fingered her, and earen her, but I had never really watched what I was doing. She asked what I was doibg, and I told her just to relax and enjoy.
I spread her bright red pubes and began robbing up and down her slit. As moisture emerged, I spred her lips and rubbed my finger around her clit. This webt on for several minutes, and she got wetter and wetter, and her cliile clitty got more and more swollen. I would penetrate her with 1, the 2 fingers, but the go back to rubbing her inner lips and her clitty. I could hear her breating harder, and feel her back starting to arch. Fairly succenly, she got noticeably wetter, and her asshole started to wink. This wen on for maybe 45s, the she sort of collapsed, abd said,"wait, wait". Shit, I haven't fekt anything like tat in years. I kissed and stroked softly, then began to repeat the process. The result was the same. We did this 4 times over abiut 20 minutes. Just before the fourth orgasm, she yelled out for me ti fuck her. By thus time, I was very hard, abd very glad to pish my cock into her. I didn't last long, and she convulsed around me.
It turned out that this was her first ever multiple orgasm. To say she lijed it was and understatement. It became a regular feature of our lovemaking. Of course, with her asshole winking, it wasn't long before my fingers pribed there as well, and eventually told me that she qabted my dick there.
Si, at least for her, this "watching myself finger her" was a very effective technique, and with a pretty, very wet, red bush, it was visually appealing.