[First Time] How it all started

[Wrexhamstud]

I had been trying to get my wife into swinging for many years. We talked about it and watched porn but she was dead against it becoming reality. One day we were invited to a birthday party that started in the afternoon. We were having a good time and a few drinks but I had to leave early because the babysitter had to go home. I left around 8pm leaving my wife with friends so she could stay at the party. I went to bed later that evening it was just a normal evening and as expected my wife turns up at home around 1:30am a bit drunk and her stumbling into the bedroom wakes me up. She climbs into bed saying she had a good time and Luke walked her home and said she walked a longer way home. I thought nothing of it she wanted sex so we had sex and went to sleep. The next morning I wake up and see her clothes on the floor so I put them in the washing basket but notice her jeans are muddy on the knees and arse so I look closer. I could see grass strains my heart races and I continue to look I check her knickers that seem to have a cum stain in the crotch area and on the front. I put them in the wash basket and go down stairs not knowing what to make of it all. It was a strange day and mostly a blur we didn’t say much to each other and that evening as we watched tv she sat on the other chair on her laptop. I thought she was talking to her friends but she was very guarded if I moved she would turn to hide the screen. Anyway that evening we went to bed to watch a film she was very quiet and at the end of the film said I need to tell you something. My heart sank, she told me she slept with Luke I didn’t know what to do, she told me I thought you wanted me to do it. So I went along with what she was saying half horny half mad. I tried to get as much detail as I could but she kept saying she was drunk and couldn’t remember much but from what I could make out is she went to a bush to go to the toilet and he kept watch. But as she stood up they ended up kissing. He fingered her while they stood there in the darkness and continued kissing, she said she could feel how hard he was so undone his jeans to suck his cock. He then bent her over on the grass and fucked her from behind hard. She says she didn’t cum but I know she likes it from behind. They then got up and walked to another part about 50 meters away he sat down and she got on top to fuck him. They done that for a while then missionary on some steps. She says he didn’t cum but I seen the stains. It was so horny listening to this but I had to try to ask more questions because I thought she wasn’t telling me everything. We finished having sex and she went to sleep, I was awake and my mind went nuts it went from something horny and something I did want to happen to she cheated on me. I didn’t take it well the next day we argued all day. I could see how sorry she was my head was a mess, I told her for years this was what I wanted us to do and here I was making her feel bad. She wasn’t thinking about swinging when it happened but it was opportunistic. Because she felt bad I think she just gave in and we tried swinging. The first time we invited someone to watch us have sex, but it went a bit further and she sucked him which was amazing to watch. I was shocked the next day she said it wasn’t that bad. Later the next day she said shall we do it again my jaw hit the floor. We invited the same person back and this time she dressed up. When he arrived we had a chat and a few drinks. My wife was sat between us and put her hand on his cock. She then grabbed mine too she leaned in to suck him as I went behind her. This was going further again I fucked her from behind while she sucked him then she suggested changing places. I was about to see my wife have sex with another man and it was good. We then done a few other meets for a while then It fizzled out and now she isn’t into it anymore but still hope it will happen again in the future

[Wrexhamstud]

How did everyone else start off ?

[mkdng]

Was this lucky guest Luke ??

[Wrexhamstud]

Originally Posted by mkdng

Was this lucky guest Luke ??

No when she cheated with someone called Luke we then got into swinging a few months after the lucky guest was off a swinger site

[hip_i]

Great story, thanks for sharing, got me horny.

My wife was resolutely against anything to do with swinging or anything remotely like that but one day at a party we got separated in different rooms. I'd got chatting to some mates and basically forgot about her. A couple of hours later a friend of hers came over to me and told me she was dancing with a stranger who was starting to get fresh with her. She said I ought to go and rescue her but I replied 'don't worry, I' sure she can look after herself.'

Of course I was secretly thrilled to hear she was with someone else, and carried on talking to my mates.

About half an hour later a couple of her friends came over again and said they'd seen them kissing and they'd now gone outside, surely I ought to go and sort him out before something happens? No, I said, I guess she's having fun and it doesn't bother me.'

A short time later my wife rejoined me but she was in a bit of a state. 'Where the f--- have you been? why didn't you come looking for me?'

'Sorry' says I, I heard you were enjoying yourself.' At this she started to get annoyed, saying she'd had difficulty shaking a man off who was very persistent with her. Why had I left her alone for so long?

'I'm so sorry, are you all right now?'

'Yes I'm okay now but no thanks to you!'

'So what exactly did he try to do?' I asked. She said she'd got dancing with this man and things started out all right, he seemed really nice but then he tried to force himself on her and she was fearful of what he was trying to do.

So I said 'okay let's leave now and we can talk about it later.'

On the way home she continued to upbraid me accusing me of not caring about her but my response was, 'On the contrary, I wanted you to enjoy yourself. I'd heard you were dancing with another man and wanted you to have the freedom to have some fun.'

Well, you are lucky I did not let it go too far then, because he was trying his best to get into my knickers.'

'Oh shame, said I, so why didn't you let him?'

'Because I was terrified you'd be angry with me!' she retorted angrily.

'What? I'd have been only too thrilled!'

'You what? You really want to risk our marriage like that?'

'Not at all, I have total faith in you and am certain you'd never leave me for another man. But that does not mean you cannot have a bit of fun!'

'Oh I see, so what you're really saying is you want the freedom to sleep around too!'

'No, but I would not mind if we were both more open to having a bit of fun. So tell me, what exactly did he do?

'Well' she said, 'he asked me too dance and at first it was okay. It was a slow number so we danced close together. He was gentle with me and it was nice. Then we started kissing and when the dance finished he suggested we go outside for a bit of air. At this point I was beginning to feel a little uneasy but he was very charming and very insistent so I went along with him anyway.'

'We went outside and were leaning up against a wall. It was dark and he put his arms around me and we started kissing again. I was feeling a bit uncomfortable but at the same time enjoying it. Then he started working his hands inside my top and started to fondle my breasts. At the same time I could feel his manhood grinding up against me. He then lifted my skirt and put a hand between my legs so I tried to push him away. By now I was terrified you'd come and find us and get mad at me so I asked him to let me go. I told him I was married and my husband might come at any moment. But he just continued pushing his hands inside my skirt. I was starting to feel panicky so I just had to push him away from me. I then made a dash for it and came to find you.

To be continued.

[Wrexhamstud]

Originally Posted by hip_i

Great story, thanks for sharing, got me horny.

My wife was resolutely against anything to do with swinging or anything remotely like that but one day at a party we got separated in different rooms. I'd got chatting to some mates and basically forgot about her. A couple of hours later a friend of hers came over to me and told me she was dancing with a stranger who was starting to get fresh with her. She said I ought to go and rescue her but I replied 'don't worry, I' sure she can look after herself.'

Of course I was secretly thrilled to hear she was with someone else, and carried on talking to my mates.

About half an hour later a couple of her friends came over again and said they'd seen them kissing and they'd now gone outside, surely I ought to go and sort him out before something happens? No, I said, I guess she's having fun and it doesn't bother me.'

A short time later my wife rejoined me but she was in a bit of a state. 'Where the f--- have you been? why didn't you come looking for me?'

'Sorry' says I, I heard you were enjoying yourself.' At this she started to get annoyed, saying she'd had difficulty shaking a man off who was very persistent with her. Why had I left her alone for so long?

'I'm so sorry, are you all right now?'

'Yes I'm okay now but no thanks to you!'

'So what exactly did he try to do?' I asked. She said she'd got dancing with this man and things started out all right, he seemed really nice but then he tried to force himself on her and she was fearful of what he was trying to do.

So I said 'okay let's leave now and we can talk about it later.'

On the way home she continued to upbraid me accusing me of not caring about her but my response was, 'On the contrary, I wanted you to enjoy yourself. I'd heard you were dancing with another man and wanted you to have the freedom to have some fun.'

Well, you are lucky I did not let it go too far then, because he was trying his best to get into my knickers.'

'Oh shame, said I, so why didn't you let him?'

'Because I was terrified you'd be angry with me!' she retorted angrily.

'What? I'd have been only too thrilled!'

'You what? You really want to risk our marriage like that?'

'Not at all, I have total faith in you and am certain you'd never leave me for another man. But that does not mean you cannot have a bit of fun!'

'Oh I see, so what you're really saying is you want the freedom to sleep around too!'

'No, but I would not mind if we were both more open to having a bit of fun. So tell me, what exactly did he do?

'Well' she said, 'he asked me too dance and at first it was okay. It was a slow number so we danced close together. He was gentle with me and it was nice. Then we started kissing and when the dance finished he suggested we go outside for a bit of air. At this point I was beginning to feel a little uneasy but he was very charming and very insistent so I went along with him anyway.'

'We went outside and were leaning up against a wall. It was dark and he put his arms around me and we started kissing again. I was feeling a bit uncomfortable but at the same time enjoying it. Then he started working his hands inside my top and started to fondle my breasts. At the same time I could feel his manhood grinding up against me. He then lifted my skirt and put a hand between my legs so I tried to push him away. By now I was terrified you'd come and find us and get mad at me so I asked him to let me go. I told him I was married and my husband might come at any moment. But he just continued pushing his hands inside my skirt. I was starting to feel panicky so I just had to push him away from me. I then made a dash for it and came to find you.

To be continued.

Nice start, me and my wife had a serious talk last night about sex. She knows I want her to have fun again but she is dead against it happening again. She said it turned her on knowing how horny it made me but she just doesn’t want another man touching her again

[hip_i]

Originally Posted by Wrexhamstud

Nice start, me and my wife had a serious talk last night about sex. She knows I want her to have fun again but she is dead against it happening again. She said it turned her on knowing how horny it made me but she just doesn’t want another man touching her again

Sorry to hear that, it must be very frustrating for you. But it's great that you have such fantastic memories to feed off.

But back to the shenanigans of the party. As you can imagine, by the time we got home that night I was in a state of intense arousal. I was ready to give her the fuck of a lifetime but equally I was also desperate to find out how far she would have allowed him to go had she not been so worried about being caught 'in flagrante' in the arms of another man.

As it turned out she remained adamant that she could never do anything like that, it was only because he was so persistent and she did not want to create a scene or hurt his feelings that she went along with it. But, she insisted, swinging was still absolutely out of the question.

However I was just not prepared to let it rest there. In bed that night as I pounded her like never before I constantly teased her about the episode, insisting she had enjoyed it and that secretly she could not wait to meet him again. She continued to deny it but guess what, I had never seen her so aroused.

So as we approached orgasm I begged her to tell me who she was fantasising about right now? Was it him, and if so what did she think his cock would be like? Did it turn her on when he was pushing up against her? 'Well it was quite nice' was all I could get out of her but she was quick to follow that with 'but I only ever want you, no one else.'

'Come on' I said, I know you won't admit it but you must have enjoyed it really.'

I told her to imagine it was him who was really pounding into her, not me. Sure enough this seemed to do the trick. Her breathing quickened, she dug her nails into my back like she had never done before and begged me not to stop. 'YES,' she said, YES, it's true, I' can't help thinking about him.'

That was it, I could hold back no longer. I pounded her even more furiously and let go the most intense orgasm as my seed flooded deep inside her.

To say I was ecstatic at this momentous breakthrough would be a huge understatement. The impact of what she had revealed in that intensely-charged moment of abandon was to change our sex lives forever.

Immediately afterwards though, once she had recovered from her reverie, she went right back into denial, claiming it was only a fantasy and that she could never do anything like that for real. She had only said 'yes' as we made love because I had begged her to. She knew that was what I most wanted to hear at that moment but she swore she did not mean it.

Needless to say I just wasn't having any of that. 'It's too late now' I taunted with the biggest grin ever, 'you've let the cat out of the bag and from now on things can never be the same again.'

TBC.

[Wrexhamstud]

Nice

[hip_i]

Now that I knew my wife could be open to a bit of fun with others, the burning question was, how do I find a way to engineer something similar to happen again in the future? The problem being she was still in denial about the whole episode. She was deeply embarrassed about what had happened and no matter how much I reassured her seemed convinced I was concealing my inner disapproval. She could not understand why I was not angry with her, in fact she even demanded to know WHY I was not.

But there was no escaping the fact things had changed. Not only had she danced close with another man behind my back (no less!), she had also let him kiss her and allowed his hands to explore under her top and skirt. Furthermore, although admittedly under some duress, she had actually been prepared to go outside with him away from prying eyes. Indeed she might even have allowed him to go a lot further had she not felt so threatened by his over-powering lust.

Then there was the way she had agreed that same night whilst we were making love that she could not help thinking about him. That was an incredible admission for me to hear and one that sent me quite dizzy with excitement at the possibilities of what it might one day lead to.

It was like a tiny crack in an armoured door had opened and now my challenge was to find a way to push right through and explore what was on the other side.

Unfortunately though it quickly became clear that there was no point in trying to get her back with the stranger she'd danced with at the party. Because in trying to force himself on her he had completely freaked her out. The very idea of trying to set up some way of arranging a meeting with him was therefore a complete no-no. Not only that, she said she felt so embarrassed and ashamed of herself for letting him go so far she could never even do anything like that again.

But it was not all doom and gloom. I now knew that at least she was open to sharing fantasy talk about sex with others. I resolved that my best chance of turning fantasy into reality would be to work on her at bedtime. One of the ways I did this was by reading to her some of the lurid letters sent in by readers to (British) top-shelf magazines such as Fiesta and Escort about their swinging and wife-sharing experiences.

Fortunately she found these enough of a turn-on to get her juices flowing, so when we started to make love I would ask her to tell me which letter turned her on the most. Then I would get her to fantasise that she was actually making love right now to the man in the scene she was describing to me.

It worked every time and from that moment we started having the best sex ever. Instead of two or three times a week,all of a sudden it became two or three times a night!

The next thing was I started buying 'contact magazines.' This was before the internet and featured couples sending in nude photos of themselves together with ads for others to meetup with them for a bit of swinging fun. Although still somewhat disapproving of it we would look through these together in bed and I'd get her to tell me which couples she liked the look of most.

All of this was done on the pretext that it was pure fantasy, nothing more, but I could tell by some of my wife's responses that her resistance to the idea of swinging was very gradually breaking down. She would still insist she could never do anything but started saying things like, 'H'mm that couple looks nice' or 'Ooh I do like the sound of that ad, they sound just like us.'

Then it became 'Well I suppose if we ever WERE ever to meet up with another couple, they'd have to agree to this and not that,' etc etc.

This kind of thing went on for not just weeks but months and months. It was a very gradual evolution from her being resolutely opposed to responding to swingers' ads to being still against but at least mildly curious.

Until one day I could no longer hold out. I told her I'd actually gone ahead and written to one of the couples that we had agreed sounded interesting to see where it led to. At first she was quite shocked and annoyed with me, but to my surprise and relief her initial resistance soon gave way to both curiosity and even excitement. In fact I was quite surprised how rapidly she flipped from being resolutely opposed to the whole idea to actually being quite keen on it once she knew the ball had been set in motion.

Tbc

[Wrexhamstud]

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