Bringing in outsiders

[stuffinthings]

So my wife and I have been having the conversation around the fringes for some time. She has had a rather kinky fantasy involving other men, while ive had a fantasy of making a 'porn' with her for my own private use. I dont know why the idea of filming her have sex is arousing to me, but it is.

Anyone out there that has watched their wife fuck strangers, how did you go about making it happen? Was it planned? Spontaneous? safety concerns?

[VXCguy]

I's been a long time fantasy of mine, which I've told a friend and he often makes comments privately to me but it would never happen. But I keep nuding her in that direction but no dice so far. Dam structured upbringing

[artfuldogger]

It is part of our sex life when we feel the urge.

We have met a couple of 'strangers' through another site we are on.

We have also met them at swingers clubs and when we have been dogging.

The thrill for me is in the photographing and filming of my wife letting go and indulging in the things we have talked about and making it a reality.

Taking the initial step and seeing if there is a chemistry and connection to the stranger and the situation can be hard work.

There can be a lot of mixed emotions before, during and after the event. That is where you find out if its for you both.
If it works, do it for special times and when the urge calls.

Hope you take it to the next level.

[nectcouple]

After we first met and became an item, my wife gave me a video cassette and some photos featuring her and her ex. They had friends they would swap partners with occasionally, so the old video contained others. I still watch that video all the time. Also, My wife and I have videotaped ourselves on numerous occasions and I enjoy watching those too!

More recently, I introduced my wife to a guy from right here on OCC. They became close and about a month ago they met while I was at work (with my blessing). He was kind enough to take pics and video clips of the encounter. I watch those clips almost daily!

We plan on getting together again soon with all three of us and you can bet everything will be recorded! I can't wait!

[VXCguy]

Originally Posted by nectcouple

After we first met and became an item, my wife gave me a video cassette and some photos featuring her and her ex. They had friends they would swap partners with occasionally, so the old video contained others. I still watch that video all the time. Also, My wife and I have videotaped ourselves on numerous occasions and I enjoy watching those too!

More recently, I introduced my wife to a guy from right here on OCC. They became close and about a month ago they met while I was at work (with my blessing). He was kind enough to take pics and video clips of the encounter. I watch those clips almost daily!

We plan on getting together again soon with all three of us and you can bet everything will be recorded! I can't wait!

Dam your a good guy, loaning out your wife! Keep us in the loop on the next get together!

[GRITS]

Just wrote about it on -- OPEN-sharing your wife, thread

[nectcouple]

Originally Posted by VXCguy

Dam your a good guy, loaning out your wife! Keep us in the loop on the next get together!

We're planning on getting together next Thursday. I hope it all works out!

[Lloyd B]

I've been in a few of these deals where I was the outsider brought in. Recently I was going out for evening hoping to score with one of the hot local babes at my favorite watering hole. I was dressed in my tightest slacks to show off my muscular butt. I went in and sat down at the bar and the place was already jumping. There was so many hot women cavorting around that my arousal was becoming obvious in my trousers. The female bartender greeted me and filled my order. “What brings you here tonight? she said as she served my drink. “Looking for some sweet action?” “That would be nice,” I replied. “Well, you should have no problem in this place,” she continued. “There’s a lot of women looking for it tonight. And the way you look tells me that you get more tail than a bicycle seat.”

I thanked her for the counsel and went back to my drink. I eyed a couple of real hotties giving me the once over but they didn’t stroke my fancy. One had really big boobs but I’m a butt man and didn’t care. So I looked in the other direction and there I saw her: The most drop dead gorgeous woman I had ever seen. She was a raven haired beauty with perfect hair and sparkling eyes. Even though she was sitting down, I was sure she had a great rump by the way she crossed her legs. But there was a man sitting with her and she had a ring on her finger.

I downed my drink and decided to make my way over to their table. “Faint heart never won fair lady,” I thought to myself, “and I’m ready to go balls out in order to screw that hot piece of tail.” Sure enough, they were married and played it a little coy at first. I was laying all my best one-liners on her and cozying up next to her, but she didn’t let on. Soon he said he had to go to drain his lizard and when her husband left, she was all over me under the table, feeling my slacks and asking what kind of material it was. She also felt my biceps and triceps and then she worked her way over my delts, lats, pecs and abs. I decided to cut to the chase and just ask her if she wanted to ball me while her husband rubbed one out. “I’ve never thought of doing something so kinky,” she said, “but that’s a wild idea. I think we should go for it.”

When the husband returned, he whispered something in his wife’s ear and she looked him in the eye and said, “Oh, we’re leaving all right. But it won’t be just the two of us. We’re bringing our new friend home because he definitely looks like he knows how to please a woman.” He said I could follow them over to their house.

When we got inside, she went right to work on me. She stripped me bare then proceeded to lick me clean. While she was working her magic on my nether regions, her husband sat in the corner with a disgusted look on his face. I thought at first he might have gas and if he rips off a real stinker that ruins the mood, I’m going to be upset. But his wife’s skilled ministrations on my throbbing member took my mind off of that. I knew it was only a matter of seconds before I would blow so I leapt up and said, “Let’s get in on!” I knew that once I bust a nut I am done for the evening so I slid my massive pole all the way to the hilt and began pumping away for all I was worth. Soon I felt a little probing around my butt and I assumed she was working her fingers in my backdoor. Eventually the pressure began to grow and I felt a huge weight on top of me and it was her husband! He had taken it upon himself to butt jam me while I boned his wife! I was really taken aback by this because I had never done anything gay before, but it suddenly dawned on me how good it felt. I was beginning to wonder if they had snookered me back at the bar because he had seemed so reluctant at first but now he was piledriving me. I decided to finish up and get the hell out of there so I pulled out and sprayed all over her. Then I leapt out of bed and said, “I hate to run but I’ve got an appointment later tonight to get a manicure at a local hotel,” and I sped out the door, not even bothering to get dressed.

[LBnJB]

Okay, so my question for you is this.... is this something your wife wants or something you are trying to convince your wife to do for you? There are posts on here from men who want advice on how to get there wife to go along, so I would suggest reading those. If she is interested, and you just don't know how to go about it, there are a number of ways with varying degrees of success/failure. Probably your best avenue are the various swinger web sites. There are tons of single men looking to be the third, and couples who swing alone. The downside is that you will get inundated with single men. The first site we joined and posted what we were looking for, we got over 700 replies in the first day. Less than 10 of the replies fit what we were looking for. We replied to these 10, and three seemed like a match. We met all three, and only found one was suitable. We still see him from time-to-time. The advantage to swinger sites is that the men here are often "verified" by couples and women. So you know you are getting someone who can perform. You can also try picking men up in clubs and bars. But that isn't as easy as you think. Many men love the idea in fantasy, but the reality is too much. We have had our share of men who could not get an erection once we were all alone. They often suffered uncharacteristic performance issues because another man was present. But then again, some of our best experiences (and recurring friends) we have met in a bar. You also run the risk of meeting a weirdo. Last, and certainly least, you can use Craigslist. But there are tons of fakes, flakes, and freaks on Craigslist. We have answered a few ads (we never post an ad), two of which actually turned out fairly well (one is still a semi-regular friend). But I would caution using a friend. There is a saying in the Swinger lifestyle that is pretty good advise; "make swingers into friends, not friends into swingers". Good luck!

[lecon]

Originally Posted by nectcouple

We're planning on getting together next Thursday. I hope it all works out!

how did it go? Very intrigued to find out