[Request] If your wife does Anal, does she look forward to or suggest it? Frequency of anal?

[bomba]

Basically, if you and your wife are into her doing Anal, how much is she into it? And how often do you do it?

When did you start? How long have you been doing Anal? What's HER favorite thing about it? And what's your favorite thing about it?

[jiinx81]

On the rare occasion when she's a little sore or all's not right "down there", my wife will request anal. She had a boyfriend who claimed to be adverse to the sight of blood and didn't want sex during her period,. Doesn't bother me, just a little messy. But he got her butt cherry, and was good enough at it that she likes it. He would set her on his lap and play with her clit until they both would cum. I'm not all that fond of it, but when the time is right it can be fun. I just never last any time at all - I guess its the forbidden fruit that gets me too worked up too fast.

[ThomasMoore]

So at the risk of being too graphic I will relay an experience that we recently had. My wife enjoys anal sex occasionally but rarely. I am not a porn star by any stretch of the imagination, but I do have an abnormally large head at the end of my shaft. My wife on the other hand has a pretty tight bottom, which makes it tricky and somewhat impossible to enter her if I am already fully erect. If I am able to enter her while semi hard my wife enjoys the experience fully and will have an orgasm and on occasion when I have lasting power sometimes two.

Recently before the pandemic we had gone out to a nice dinner with friends and enjoyed some wine, possibly one bottle too many before returning home late. We both fell asleep tipsy and exhausted from a busy week. We awoke to a beautiful still but somewhat overcast morning rather early. After enjoying some coffee on the patio my wife decided to take an early peaceful dip in our swimming pool. We stripped off our clothes in the cabana house/fancy name for changing room off of the pool area. We emerged into the cool air and entered the water. It was still getting pretty cool overnight and the pool was pretty cold. It wasn't long before, although refreshed, we had enough and decided to get out and on with our Saturday.

We went back into the cabana house to strip off our swimsuits, but watching my wife her full breasts and hard nipples from the cold as she bent down to support herself of the bench while sliding off her bottoms was arousing to me. I quickly walked up behind her pushing my semi hard erection against her bottom still wet from the pool. To my surprise she let out a deep breath and pushed back against me. I was semi hard and slowly worked myself into her warm bottom. We sort of stood there with her supporting herself by leaning down on the bench and me enjoying the feel of swelling inside her from behind. Im not sure if it was the large amount of alcohol consumed the prior evening or what, but I was hard but not bursting and so I stood there behind her slowly sliding in and out of her as she relaxed. I was reaching around circling her nipples as her breasts hung down, as well as kneading her heavy soft breasts. I could hear my wife's breathing getting a little deeper and quicker as I did that and so I moved down to gently stroke her and rub between her warm lips while still slowly sliding in and out of her. As I continued to slowly circle her clit with my finger while still inside her bottom I felt her bottom clinch and relax slightly realizing she was enjoying it and that her orgasm was starting to build up. I was starting to feel the tingling of my orgasm building and was beginning to grasp her hips and pull her toward me a little more forcefully. Suddenly I felt her bottom spasm around my shaft as she moaned and panted and throbbed around my hard shaft.

The room was small and still moaning and gasping suddenly my wife said "oh my gosh", and tried to pull off of me? I had swollen fully inside her, and trying to pull off of me was not an option at that moment. I then noticed movement in the reflection of the floor length mirror, of one of our cleaning staff peering in at us from the side window. She could see us but couldn't see that we could see her reflection in the mirror. There had been a government holiday and the cleaners had slid their bi weekly cleaning day back a day to Saturday instead of the usual Friday. My wife had forgotten that they would be there! I was too engorged and aroused to be able to pull myself out of my wife, and we were kind of stuck there in view of one of the cleaning ladies knotted together, until I ejaculated! I thought the cleaner would leave but instead I saw her glance around a couple of times watching to make sure none of the other cleaning women saw her looking in thorough the window. We tried to move as little as possible as I pulled my wife's body tightly against my hips and thrusting as non obviously as I could. The pressure of my wife's bottom as well as the warmth of her body against mine was causing me to feel my sperm filling the ridge running underneath my shaft to swell. Despite the cleaner watching us, I couldn't help it any longer and I started to feel uncontrollable pulses and throbbing as my orgasm began to throb out inside of my wife's warm bottom. I am not sure if it was the excitement /embarrassment of being watched or not but my orgasm was very powerful and I thought I was going to pass out LOL.

Quickly catching my breath and with my swelling reduced I was able to get out of my wife and we watched as the cleaner left, finally! We quickly grabbed and threw on our clothes and made our way out of the room and retreated to our bedroom to get dressed. I still find it pretty arousing when I think of it, although my wife is rather embarrassed that the cleaning lady who we have had for years and know fairly well saw her and us in that state of arousal. Nothing has ever been said or mentioned regarding this and I think the cleaning lady still thinks that she wasn't seen.

[LBnJB]

My wife absolutely loves anal. Her ideal situation is doggy, hair being pulled, ass slapped, and balls deep in her butt. When it is just the two of us, there is always anal penetration. If she knows, or intends to play with others, she always cleans the pipes using an enima. She loves double penetration with two guys. If the pipes aren't clean, she won't allow another man to ass fuck her. When we first met, my wife had been with more than 50 different men. She had done just about everything. MFM and FMF threesomes, public sex, toys, etc. But she had never done anal until we met. We had been together about two years, and she enjoyed me playing around her butt hole, but avoided actual penetration. The one day, with lots of lube, a vibrator, and lots of foreplay, she took me in her ass. She loved it, saying it is the hardest orgams she had ever had. Over time, her body adjusted to anal penetration. When talking to new guys, she always tells them she is a back door girl.

[Fat_Holly]

Well I haven't been with nearly as many men as LBnJB's wife, but I also do enjoy anal sex.

My rear end is quite large, so anal sex ends up being this wierd combination of sexy and humiliating at the same time. Being a fat girl, anal sex makes my ass (and whole body really) ripple and flop around - which makes my big size VERY apparent, and noticable. Plus there are few sexual positions that are more "objectifying" for the female than anal sex. But...I kinda like both of those things sometimes?

So it's not an all the time kind of thing. But it certainly is a decent amount of the time, kind of thing. A few times, I've been know to do that on the first date! Which I suppose is not a very ladylike admission, but sometimes a girl just needs to be fucked, you know? Even us fat chicks LOL

[Teeyes]

The Mrs is an anal queen. I honestly don't even know how many guys had the pleasure of penetrating and jizzing in her awesome tight ass.

With her it's all about the mood, and she doesn't want me to suggest it, so I'll leave it up to her. But still a couple of times a month, sometimes once a week.

I like the "tightness", and she usually toys/fingers herself when I fuck her in the ass. And there's no tenderness there, I honestly say I can fuck her really really hard/rough in the ass, absolutely porn star experience.

So yeah, no complaints about that. :-)

Edit: ooppps... forgot to answer some questions to it seems:
- If she's into it? She's totally into it!
- When we started? She's been doing anal ever since her ]teenage years, and we've been doing it since we are together.
- For me the anal thing is new... so only with her.

[73duster]

My wife loves doing anal. We don't do it all the time, but on a fairly regular basis. She usually is the one to ask.

[captbobwi123]

My wife & I have anal sex a couple times per year. We discovered early on that she likes external stimulation of her asshole and we do that all the time. One time, as I was rubbing the outside of her asshole, I slide my little finger up her ass. She went nuts, in a good way, with lots of moaning and pushing her ass against my finger. Fingering her ass became a regular part of our sex play and we progressed from my little finger to middle finger for finger fucking her ass. Of course we started talking about actual anal sex and together decided to give it a try. We used lube and took it slow and easy but she always experienced too much pain to relax and really enjoy it. She was willing to give it a try several times over a period of months but it never worked for her. We gave up on fucking her in the ass but continued the finger play. I was just happy she was willing to give it a try and how sexual she was in other ways. So how did we progress from not doing it to having anal sex a couple times per year? In a word, alcohol. Neither my wife nor I are heavy drinkers but we do enjoy some social drinking. From time to time, she will have a bit too much to drink and gets overly giddy, happy, and horny. This always leads to great sex. It was one of these times when she looked at me and said, "I want you to fuck me in the ass." Once again we used lube and I took it slow but this time she took me all in and we fucked with enthusiasm. I guess the alcohol let her totally relax her sphincter and enjoy the experience. We don't do it all the time but whenever she has one or two drinks too many she gets in the mood to have her ass fucked.

[Welee337]

Well, we dont do anal sex yet. I am kinda of in the same boat as Captbobwi.... she likes to jabe her ass rubbed during sex. It has to be worked up. Starting iff with the closeness amd ocaisional "accidental" touch when holding her ass with my hands or rubbing down her body. When shes worked up. All it takes is for me to rub her hole and gently start pumping my finger in/out. It feels like a knuckle, but probably only breaking the surface. She then immediately grabs my head and compassionately kisses me while i am penetrating her with mt finger. Depending on her reaction is how far i put it in. I have been letting her ride me and i just put my hand down there in a stationary position and let her choose the rythym and how far she wants it up her ass. Usually she will have an orgasm quuckly when rubbing her ass and inserting a finger.

Now, off to the next steps. I am trying to figure out how to get her to let me do anal. She is a big no for it, but does get off for fingers in it. Not to steal this thread, but am open to messages if anyone wants to message me how they got their wife to let them do anal. This anal stuff has been going on for about 1.5 years.

She has done anal previously with her ex, but didnt care for it. I am not sure, but guessing he just rammed it in and got his nut. Seems to be his MO. I want to take it easy and to be allowed to do it from time to time. I figure i would ask to let me just put the head in and cum in her.
Open to ideas/suggestions.

[indym]

My current partner likes anal, but she doesn't want it all the time, either. I won't go into it here, but she is younger than me (20s), and it seems like anal is a standard thing... maybe a generational thing (I'm not complaining!).

She likes her ass eaten, too, and wants to do the same to me. I have no problem licking her ass, and it feels good when she licks me, too, but I'm not a fan of going much further than that.

As far as frequency, sometimes it might be a few times a week, especially if she is having her period. We might go a week or two without, and then it picks back up again. I think she would do it as often as I want, but it is more fun (I think) when it just happens.

She can cum from anal, which I think helps with our frequency. I've always been amazed when watching vids of amateur guys and women where he pulls out of her pussy and just slides right into her ass. That is not how it works for us at all! I think if I just went balls deep, that would be the last time I ever got to do it, haha. She is tight all the way around, and it takes quite a bit of lube and slowly slipping a bit in, holding, pulling out a little, and going in a little bit more.

I don't know if you are asking how to work this into your sex routine, but if you are, I would just recommend approaching it just like she was going to put a dildo up your ass, haha. While I don't particularly want that, I'd want it to be slow, careful, and with plenty of lube if it happened Forget the porn star fucking you see and pay attention to how she is responding, sounding, and the feedback she is giving you.