The female backside has always interested me!

[davyp1]

It is a fascination which goes back quite a few years. I can recollect many new and developing relationships where the girl was not only surprised but unsure how to react when my finger aimed for her anus!
While many reactions were of shock & horror I usually manages to defuse by attention to the adjacent vagina.
Occasionally (and I do mean once in a blue bloody moon) I hit jackpot! On these very rare occasions I would find the recipient writhing on my fully inserted index finger.
This attraction and need (almost an addiction) for my fingers to follow the 'bum-crack' down always has stayed with me. Later in life I found out too that the thought of and practice of rimming the female anus was an act to which I also found my self addicted.
Then came married life to a wonderful woman. A fantastic person who found anything related or vaguely associated with her arse as totally taboo! Well being quite relentless I did of course 'try my hand' over the years.
Alcohol quite often proved to be a great help and her bum-crack and butt cheeks were sometimes dis-robed for play!
Then just as soon as I thought I was making some headway, the barriers were up again!
Sometimes over the years, months of no 'bum action' have gone by.
Then I remember an occasion which I thought was the first breakthrough!
I found myself in such a situation where my mouth and tongue was only a couple of inches from her small and puckered anus!
Well of course I found myself unable to resist and my tongues tip circled her virgin anus.
If I had expected world-war three, I was mistaken. No, the only reactions were a a series of low moans. After a few minutes I moved away so as not to 'push my luck'.
This 'rimming' incident and a further two similar occasions have never been discussed.
Yet over the years I have been subjected to several outbursts from her where she has lectured me in no uncertain mannor of her dislike of anything remotely related to her back-side! These instances usually take the form of a 'row' and my anal play usually hits a long period of drought.
The main point of my little story is to emphasize the fact that she has appeared to like the occasions where her bum was well and truly licked, but also refuses to accept the fact!

I do wonder if other readers have had any similar dilemmas to mine, and would love to hear your stories too.
I do not doubt that some guy's will have proved more successfull in their persuit of anal play, yes I would like to hear your stories too.

[slurpee69]

I guess you can say I'm a lucky guy that my wife loves ass play. She not really into getting fucked in her ass but she loves having her asshole licked while eating her pussy. And she likes a finger in her ass while getting fucked foggy style.

[slurpee69]

[QUOTE=slurpee69;2488571]I guess you can say I'm a lucky guy that my wife loves ass play. She not really into getting fucked in her ass but she loves having her asshole licked while eating her pussy. And she likes a finger in her ass while getting fucked Doggy style

[DippsyDudel]

My wife is very similar to your's, davyp1.
Outwardly very vocal about wanting nothing to do with any ass play. However, if I get her good and horny, and I tease her asshole by softly touching the insides of her cheeks around and up and down her ass, only getting close to her asshole and maybe occasionally brushing over her little pucker very lightly, she only makes me stop because it makes her want to cum.

[collector5757]

OK, is anal sex less common than I think? Talking about actual fucking- from the comments etc. it doesn't seem that common, but I've had anal sex with nearly every woman I slept with more than once. Offhand I can only remember one who had a specific objection, and she brought it up before I even got close. She did have a fantastic ass- almost no tits, but a really gorgeous ass. Maybe she'd had a lot of guys try, and was giving me the preemptive no.

Anyway- is it really that unusual?

[rickandsuzy]

Originally Posted by collector5757

OK, is anal sex less common than I think? Talking about actual fucking- from the comments etc. it doesn't seem that common, but I've had anal sex with nearly every woman I slept with more than once. Offhand I can only remember one who had a specific objection, and she brought it up before I even got close. She did have a fantastic ass- almost no tits, but a really gorgeous ass. Maybe she'd had a lot of guys try, and was giving me the preemptive no.

Anyway- is it really that unusual?

14 years of marriage and I've in her ass with my cock 5 times. Now I can do ass play with her finger etc but it's a blue moon to go balls deep

[davyp1]

Originally Posted by DippsyDudel

My wife is very similar to your's, davyp1.
Outwardly very vocal about wanting nothing to do with any ass play. However, if I get her good and horny, and I tease her asshole by softly touching the insides of her cheeks around and up and down her ass, only getting close to her asshole and maybe occasionally brushing over her little pucker very lightly, she only makes me stop because it makes her want to cum.

Your's is very similar to mine DippsyDudel, just how you described her when good and horny is the same as mine when horny too! Although a few wines certainly help. If she is nearly cuming when your playing with her ass, I would be tempted to ignore her demands to stop and make her cum.
Were you ever tempted to try and fuck her ass? Just curious.

[davyp1]

Originally Posted by collector5757

OK, is anal sex less common than I think? Talking about actual fucking- from the comments etc. it doesn't seem that common, but I've had anal sex with nearly every woman I slept with more than once. Offhand I can only remember one who had a specific objection, and she brought it up before I even got close. She did have a fantastic ass- almost no tits, but a really gorgeous ass. Maybe she'd had a lot of guys try, and was giving me the preemptive no.

Anyway- is it really that unusual?

Before my marriage I did experience anal sex with only two of the girls I slept with.
With my wife only play and that on rare occasions (as explained in my earlier post!)

It is my feeling that attitudes have changed towards anal sex over the years.
You only have to go back 15 or 20 years and anal and analignous clips on a porn site were there but only a few of them. Today most sites are inundated with it.
I think this caries over to today's girls who feel it is expected of them

[xxxxenophile]

Originally Posted by collector5757

OK, is anal sex less common than I think? Talking about actual fucking- from the comments etc. it doesn't seem that common, but I've had anal sex with nearly every woman I slept with more than once. Offhand I can only remember one who had a specific objection, and she brought it up before I even got close. She did have a fantastic ass- almost no tits, but a really gorgeous ass. Maybe she'd had a lot of guys try, and was giving me the preemptive no.

Anyway- is it really that unusual?

I think it depends on the couple and a lot on the guy - Since I had it the first time, I've at least tried it with all of my partners and enjoyed it multiple times with most. But I take a long time to play with her ass first, as in multiple sessions working up from just touching the starfish to eating it to fingertips etc, step by step. I know men who don't take that time or effort and wonder why they don't get it offered to them - idiots! Not every woman comes to love it, but it's so easy to turn them off by being clumsy or rough or otherwise giving them a bad experience.

I do think it's more acceptable now to do and talk about than in the past, but how it's done matters hugely.