How much do you trust other men and your wife

[looksalot]

In my experience some guys will try with anyone they sense is at all available for anything; particularly if they feel she's sending some vibes that she might be open to a conversation or more. A lot of male egos are pretty vulnerable.

But there are those that go strictly for volume hits; the more tries the higher the odds of success.

[piecenick]

It's hard to tell, my wife had a crush on one friend of mine, he never even acknowledged her flirting. Another guy had a straight arrow personality, but he was always trying to get in her pants.

Women are the same, one wife of a friend was always playing in my lap under the table, but she was very religious. The ones that dressed like sl*ts were "no play zone".

[rracoonz]

My wife goes out with friends and is quite a flirt. Although constantly hit on, she hasn't bedded down any of the guys from those encounters. She has, however, gotten guys contact information and later, with my permission, has fucked several of them. She has also invited them to come over another day and have dinner and drinks.
In fact, one night she was getting fucked on our dining table while I cooked dinner. I had a perfect view of the action from the kitchen and would wander in and take a couple photos then return to cooking.
But yeah, I trust her completely to not cheat behind my back. Therefore I have no jealousy issues. I actually have been present with every guy or girl she has sex with. Not every time, but at least once with each of them. She likes me to be her safety net with new people. I often make it a requirement that I get pics or vids if I'm not there. She also has to give me full details of her encounters.
As for me, I don't look for sex with others. Back in my single days I would fuck anything that had a pussy and moved. Married, unmarried, whatever. My wife fills my every fantasy and desire, so no need to look elsewhere. I have joined her in many threescore.
Hope this answers some of your questions.

[GRITS]

I trust her..... NOT other guys........ Thats why she carrys a GUN!!!

[Oralpleaser69]

I don't trust other guys around my wife. Luckily we have an open relationship so I don't have to worry. If she wants to fuck them then she will. Then she will tell me all about it and give details. It is a turn on knowing that my wife turns other men on and gets their dicks hard. The fact that she will then spread her legs for them is the best! I couldn't ask for a better wife!

[~*ghetto_star*~]

I'm not married but one I dated and had and still have serious feelings for and probably would have been open to marrying but she and both generally do open relationships but she wanted a marriage situation to be a closed relationship and I told her honestly that she is an admitted (although not diagnosed) nymphomaniac and sex is a major part of her identity and how she expresses herself and I told her bluntly

"While I do love and care about you, a closed relationship will never work for you, if you lock eyes with the mailman, you're gonna hook up with him, because you've done this before" and I continued

"We dated for 4 years and you had 21 outside sexual partners in that time. You'd come home with bite marks and hickeys on your breasts, cum stains on your pants, your vagina would be red and obviously swollen from sex, and even sometimes you'd come home with your bra in your purse and while that never bothered me, it was obvious that your dreams of a closed traditional relationship/marriage was never going to happen"

I never cared that she hooked up with other men, I'm just wired like that but what bothered me was that she thought should just turn things off like a switch and be a traditional monagamous wife.

Did I trust her around other men? I trusted that she was going to have some sort of contant with at least one of them and sexual contact could range from sharing nudes to all out sex.

[JonScores]

My wife is pretty good about not doing anything I wouldn't do. If she fucks outside of our marriage ,so do I, and the same is true in the opposite. However, there are times recently when she has not told me the full truth about what she did. That bothers me since we can always be open about things with no repercussions. However, I have seen her really get hot over some guys and things can get out of hand without her coming forward about what was done. I usually find out later, but she seemingly always forgets what happened. I actually think she gets a guilty feeling when she really gets hot for a guy. If it is just raw sex, I don't think she has the same guilt complex.

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by Upforit200891

Love it, shame we can't be friends.

We're friends w everyone on OCC....

[Shihoin]

Ironically, I trust nudist men at our resort more than I trust men out in the "real world."

For one thing, she is naked the entire time; so there's no "mystery" left for the men interacting and socializing with her. Second thing: nudist "etiquette" is strong at our resort; and no guy wants to risk offending or getting escorted off the premises for prurient behavior towards my wife or anyone else's.

Drunken guys at bars are a lot less likely to be cautious; especially if my wife is scantily clad, a bit drunk and a bit flirtatious.

I've literally left my wife alone to interact with random men at the resort, in the hot-tub or while tanning (her legs are often just open enough for them to see her labia) without anything ever happening. At a bar, I can't leave her alone for 5 minutes without some dude trying to put his hand on her ass or staring at her tits (she goes braless a lot.)