[Request] OPEN -"Sharing Your Wife" Thread

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by looksalot

Good and complete answers. Thanks.

One more thing. You've written about the relationships developing over the years and so I'm wondering how you visualize them 10 years from now.

Well, I hope for the best.... hope everyone stays healthy and not move away......we do expect the "select" friend thing to either slow down, or some to drop out eventually.. we won't recruit replacements...
The Swing Group thing is expected to hang in there until we all need wheelchairs.. lol.. one of the things that keeps everyone non-jealous and long term, is that we all play within our own age.. give or take a few years... no reliving our lost teenage yrs w/ young chics and dudes.... our group ranges between 37 & 49 yo. from 4 states.

BTW- FYI- there is one guy in our swing group who became imputant due to a medical thing.... but he & wife still have fun w/ us... he just accepts it and does everything else but get a hard on w/ all the ladies...

[GRITS]

Any questions you'd like to ask us???.... anything goes!

BTW- thats the gun she carrys...and shes good w/ it too !!

[greendoor]

Originally Posted by GRITS

Mr. Grits here...

Its Sunday morning, and my wife is sleeping after a night of fun fucking my friends, (ie:select friends). Shes exhausted & passed out where we left her still wearing her stockings & garters & high heels & very sperm filled everywhere... she happy!!.. lol

Last night i arranged for 2- "select" friends to come over for some fun w/ the wife... the 3 of us were there to pleasure her and use her for our own pleasure too. I blindfolded her to start so she wouldn't know who I brought over...

I was the director , as the other guys were to use her as I watched, and I would only get involved when they were recharging.. for the first hour they were sucking her pussy to orgasm and she was sucking their cocks, still not knowing who they were yet. she was face sitting one and sucking the other... after an hour I took her blindfold off and she was happy to see who they were, her favs.....(one of them can cum constantly)

She came over to me in the chair and climbed on my cock kissing me and thanking me while riding my cock.. I caressed her ass and silky stocking legs... she stopped before I could cum... She then went back to the bed and layed back and spread her legs very seductively for us to see... then she softly asked , "whos going to fuck my married pussy first?" .. from there the guys just started taking turns getting on top of her pumping their cocks in her pussy as I watched her whap her silky legs around them moaning w/ pleasure.... She then flipped over and was on top of one guy riding him softly, and motionned the other guy to stand in front of her and was sucking him... it wasn't long before she was hard riding on top and hard sucking them both until they both shot their load in her mouth and pussy... the guys were trembling w/ pleasure.... then I got on top missionary while they recharged and fucked her sloppy seconds pussy until I filled her w/ my cum too... She was telling me while I was fucking her, "do you like seeing your friends fucking your wife?".. & "did you like seeing me make them cum in me?".. She was cuck talking me to turn me on to cum.. it worked and I shot a massive load in her pussy....

I went back to my chair and she just layed there w/ her legs spread leaking sperm w/ a smile on her face of contentment.... I told the other guys to start fucking her again!!!... they had no problem w/ that, and they were spitroasting her in no time.. from there it was a fuck & suck fest. She was taking their cocks in every hole begging for their sperm loads... they were cumming in her / on her / everywhere they wanted too, and she enjoyed every last drop... in between their recharging, I was also filling her w/ cum...... all the while she was taking their cocks she would be looking at me smiling and throwing kisses to me... A few times she'd tell me, "honey, he just put his cum in my pussy" & "it really feels warm"
..once she took a mouthload and came over to me and dribbled some on my cock and then climbed on and told mr, "I want to fuck you w/ his cum"... it was hot sl*t talk... every time she got up or on her knees, she was dripping cum from her pussy down onto her stocking tops. ... She was well used by 3am and looked like a cum filled/covered sl*t.... the guys left @3am, and we just left her on the bed dripping of cum and pleasure... who knows how many loads she took all night (7 hrs).. I know I put 3 in her everywhere.. its only a guess what the other 2 guys left in her somewhere??

It was a really good sex session, and we all enjoyed ourselves . She'll wake up later and take a shower and probably go grocery shopping in a short skirt w/ a pussy full of cum feeling sexy & sl*tty. Her panties will be doing "double duty" today holding back an embarassing sperm drip under her skirt at the grocery store.

She loves being shared...

Ok that's just plain hot and to think the wife and I just sat there and watched This is Us last night....
I have a big thing for cuck cum talk the way Mrs GRITS did it with you. "Who wants to fuck my married pussy", "honey, he just put his cum in my pussy" & "it really feels warm","do you like seeing your friends fucking your wife?". That's so hot coming form her. What i don't like is the dominance abusive cuck games. But when the wife is telling hubby about the cum in her pussy and dripping it from her mouth onto your cock etc. I'm all in. I do think even after cumming three times if I saw her sleeping with cum dripping out of her pussy the way you described I'd be in there playing with her pussy some more, maybe even licking her a bit and most definitely getting another hardon wanting to once more slide into her very well used, hot, sl*tty cum filled married pussy for one for one more quick cum. After all you did say this night was planed for you pleasure as well as hers.
As for her panties doing double duty the next day, that sounds just as hot knowing at some point someones cum will be leaking into them. I hope as soon as she got home form the store you helped her remove her worn cum filled panties and had just a little more pleasure.

[greendoor]

Originally Posted by GRITS

I forgot?? 2nd half of Q?........... How was it..... Not it-- Those times... lol
Actually, I really enjoy it... I like that feeling bodily, and mentally knowing 3 guys are having fun w/ me. If I can get at least 2 of them to cum,, its very erotic for me to feel that and my orgasm is super intrnse....

"IF you can get two of them to cum"??? Oh come on Mrs GRITS I'm sure you never having a problem draining guys balls for them.
It must be really erotic knowing three guys are there all for you. As you look around and see their cocks all hard knowing they are hard for you. That they all want you. That you are going to suck and fuck them all together and if hubby isn't around that you are then going to tell him all about it thus doing it for four guys really. Not to mention you get to put aside one side of you and let your inner sl*t come out and play for a while in a controlled safe environment. Sounds pretty damn hot to me.

[greendoor]

Originally Posted by GRITS

Thanks for the good question.... I'll try to break it down....

First of all. the jealousy thing... actually there is none.. and the reason is because finding people to participate like this on a long term basis is a job in itself...NOT a Craiglist search... You find people you know or recommended by people you know who are very ok w/ just having fun w/ it all.. the wife and I don't get jealous because we've been doing this since before we met, .. in fact as stated prior, we met at a swing group event... sex is sex... love is love, you can not mix the two... we love and are happy w/ each other as partners in life.. the sex, even our own, is an extracurriculiar activity of pleasure.... that is something some couples miss...having sex does not mean love........ But of course as we all know, if a partner refuses to have sex w/ spouse its sort of cruel and does show a lack of respect and love.... a little bit of a double edged sword.. but the attitude of the situtation at hand is there.
Most of us grow up with a closed view of sex which brings the jealousy card up. I have friends who are swingers and I've never seen two people more connected. They, like the GRIT's see the sex as their partner having some fun and being pleasured thus giving them pleasure hearing or watching it happen. I do know my friends who enjoy this lifestyle just have a rule and that's totally open communication. So if the wife wants to meet with a guy some afternoon alone that's fine if her husband knows prior and vise versa. And you make a great point love is love and sex is sex, neither of you are getting into swinging for love, your doing it for the pleasure. Took me years to learn the difference between the two.
The people we play with are all married...both Swing Group & "Select "friends...none came from a Craiglist search. Everyone is there to have fun.... neither group knows each other exist. We keep them seperate for good reasons....Thats why you'll see us actually say-- a Swing Group friend or a "Select" friend when we play.

Swing Group-- We met at a meeting w/ this group 15?? years ago. She was a card carrying member, and I was a guest...We were the only single people there.... Now the rules are NO singles.. couples only, and the same people from 15 yrs ago are still there.. 12 couples limit... I've only seen one couple leave for breaking the rules and not having the correct attitude of No Problems or Drama... 2 other couples left because they moved way too far away to really participate. 2 other couples have come in after big time backgroud and probation period.. otherwise everyone is growing old together in the Group...Because we're strict w/ rules and attitude and again -finding people is a job in itself... nobody wants to leave a good thing--both people and activitys...
When we have a Swing Group meet, not every couple attends.. it optional..we try to get together monthly, but sometimes its more.... and if someone is having a bad night functioning sexually.. its ok.. we're all mature enough to know we're not supermen or superwomen..
It must be like old home week when you all get together. I am curious how these meeting progress for just chatting and catching up to sex? Do you do theme parties? Do two of you just start making out and thing progress form there? Are there unwritten rules you don't start playing for an hour etc? Theres etiquettes at almost all functions be them written or unwritten, just curious what they are in your group.

"Select" friends-- all married, But their wives don't know.. they are cheating... there are 5 guys for wife... For me, there are 3 women.. all widowed, divorced and single. And we both limit our extracaricullar sex to just those "select" friends.. we are not picking up strangers... yuk!!!
This is just a fantasy, I'm thinking of one of the guys wife finding out and insisting on coming to a get together to see what goes on. Then somehow becoming the center of attention for the group.
They are actually friends we've known forever.. and we approached each seperately in deep thought discussion about the "Select" friend thing we wanted. We wanted married because they have something to keep secret.. single people talk too much and are out fucking others. The attitude is recreational sex w/ friends we can trust for safty and privacy.... we are both allowed to be w/ any, anytime. we usually tell the other if its about to happen. Because we're a couple/partners and in love & respect, its not or never in subtitute for being w/ each other... so encounters are not selfish in timing as to interfere w/ our time together... its extracariccular.
I guess this arrangement does come in handy when one person is just really horny and the other is away or not feeling the same way. Kind of a nice pleasure outlet to have.
Attitude, attitude, attitude counts.. above all... no one is leaving their spouse for the other..
Probably rule number one, and once everyone realizes this the group becomes better and stronger.
The biggest worry is that their wives fund out... but being married and cheating.. you tend to keep your mouth shut and not put yourself in jeopedy... She dosen't see all 5 weekly.. its if they can, and sometimes they don't/can't, etc.... same with the 3 women I know.... btw- the 3 women I know were friends of my wife so she arranged it all... they are all Bi- w/ her and I supply the manly affection they need when needed...
Ok another fantasy: Mr GRITS is home in bed with a lady friend fucking her for all he's worth when Mrs GRITS come home. She hears whats going on and stops on the way to the bedroom, stands at the door and watches them for a minute. Giving her tits and pussy a little rub when enters the room saying hi as she climbs on her girlfriends face and passionately kisses hubby. I live my swinging life through you two...
Anyone is free to quit anytime.. but why ruin a good thing.. there are no participation requirements.. its when you want to agreeably w/ the other..

Look, its not a situtation everyone falls into, or normal maybe... but we actually had a plan, refined it , worked on it, and implemented it happlily TOGETHER... that made the difference. Not Craiglist easy.

I hope that answered your Questions?? ---if not tell me, I'll try.

Thanks for the reply!

[greendoor]

Originally Posted by GRITS

Any questions you'd like to ask us???.... anything goes!

BTW- thats the gun she carrys...and shes good w/ it too !!

Theres a no phone rule are your parties what about a no guns rule?

Two of my female friends in the lifestyle really like being called sl*ts (in the setting of a playdate/party). They are both proud of being sl*ts as they say and taking on multiple men in their group. By the way they don't know each other therefore they are in different circles of friends. Just wondering if Mrs GRITS falls into this category or not.

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by greendoor

Theres a no phone rule are your parties what about a no guns rule?

Two of my female friends in the lifestyle really like being called sl*ts (in the setting of a playdate/party). They are both proud of being sl*ts as they say and taking on multiple men in their group. By the way they don't know each other therefore they are in different circles of friends. Just wondering if Mrs GRITS falls into this category or not.

No,, no guns allowed.. she keeps her gun & gun skills secret......she can shoot from the hip and hit 3 out of 5 shots in the bullseye at 15 ft.

She likes being called a "married sl*t".w/ friends at play.

[GRITS]

When we're done, we're done.... I wouldn't be licking her spermed pussy.. I'm not Bi/gay and don't do that... I just stick my cock in her pussy.. but not when shes sleeping....

--- When she got back from shopping/errands in her short jean skirt & heels we talked about the night... She said she wasn't sore because of all the lube we pumped into her pussy... lol....... She said that when she took a shower she couldn't get all the sperm out?.. she thinks she took 7 loads in her pussy?!!?.. Her panties were wet. She tells me this because she dosen't want me going down on her w/ sperm in her pussy.... so she hiked her jean skirt, pulled her wet panties to the side and climbed on me in a chair and rode me to both our orgasms.... later we took an intimate shower together and played naked scrabble in bed.

[LBnJB]

I am lucky to be married to a woman who loves sex, does not attach sex to emotions, and loves to explore and experiment. Most people would consider us kinky, but I find that label demeaning and constrictive. Over the past 26 years, we have tried nearly everything. Before kids, she was open to almost anything in the bedroom. However, as every parent can attest, once we had kids our sex life ground to a near halt. But now that our three kids are almost grown, the worm has turned again. Over the past few years we have explored more outside of the bedroom….

Over the past few years, we have discovered we enjoy adding another man to the bedroom. No, I am not a cuckold and I am not bi-sexual. She loves the attention of two men, and I enjoy making her happy. She also loves to flirt and tease, and I love to watch her get men excited. We have picked up men in bars, found them through Craigslist, and used swinger sights. She has also looked up old boyfriends using Facebook. Occasionally, she meets a nice man when she is out in public alone.

Prior to finding the non-fiction forum, I began writing a journal about our experiences over the past few years. I have different journals dedicated to different types of activities. One section details our experience with BDSM, and all of the different scenes I have created for her. One section deals with different experiences we have had just the two of us. Some detail our experiences with other couples. But the biggest section is dedicated to our experiences adding another man to the bedroom. I started this journal as means of reminding myself when I am old of the fun and exciting things we have done together. As time goes by, memories fade. I wanted something that would recreate the event in my mind years later. So, my journal entries often sound like Penthouse Forum letters (for those of us old enough to remember). I would like to share these here, if anyone is interested. Every detail is true, I will simply change names (and an occasional detail) to protect the identity of the wicked.

[greendoor]

Originally Posted by GRITS

When we're done, we're done.... I wouldn't be licking her spermed pussy.. I'm not Bi/gay and don't do that... I just stick my cock in her pussy.. but not when shes sleeping....

--- When she got back from shopping/errands in her short jean skirt & heels we talked about the night... She said she wasn't sore because of all the lube we pumped into her pussy... lol....... She said that when she took a shower she couldn't get all the sperm out?.. she thinks she took 7 loads in her pussy?!!?.. Her panties were wet. She tells me this because she dosen't want me going down on her w/ sperm in her pussy.... so she hiked her jean skirt, pulled her wet panties to the side and climbed on me in a chair and rode me to both our orgasms.... later we took an intimate shower together and played naked scrabble in bed.

Not bi or gay either but for some reason the thought of licking her just fucked pussy turns me on. However fucking her cum filled pussy really turns me on. Must feel great sliding into her like that.