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Originally Posted by derekjayess
My wife was a virgin when we met and always told me she had never had sexual experiences before we met.
I always believed her but found it strange once when she told me she had been called frigid by someone (with no explanation why.)
Years later she let slip the story......it seems she was alone with a boyfriend in his house when his mother went shopping.
Out of the blue (apparently when she wasn't looking )he took hold of her hand and placed it on his now exposed cock.
She says she took her hand away and said his mother would soon be returning. This is when he told her she was frigid.(A load of balls as I know how hot she is now!)
My first reaction was jealous rage and I would have loved to kill him-bit rich for me since I am even more voracious
and wouldn't have taken no for an answer.
Strangely now it turns me on and I constantly seek pictorial evidence of the same kind of behaviour(hard to find)
Would love it if anyone can find any or has a similar tale to tell.
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I can't say anything about your circumstances, but as a becoming-sexually-active teen in the 70s I can only say that 'frigid' was the sort of 'insult' freely tossed around (in the UK) about any girl who wouldn't even let you have the hand outside the bra, let alone inside.
A different era, one without freely available (petrol/gas stations, bar lavatories, etc) condoms. Getting pregnant was a real, genuine fear, and women's mindsets was wholly different to now.
A lot of girls, when I was growing up, 'wouldn't'.
Yeah, they might get naked, they might even do hand jobs, the odd one would do a blow job, but many wouldn't even let 'the hand outside the bra' for fear of it going further. I'd say your wife is of that ilk (and maybe later than the 70s...it would be maybe the 90s were girls' attitudes fully altered, condoms were available everywhere, the pill was available on request from a doctor and so on).
I had a lot of sexual encounters in the 70s and 80s, but none of them would consider anal, for example. Not that I was complaining. A lot of pussy was more than acceptable. But it was only 'children of the 90s', in my experience (becoming sexually active in the early 90s, in other words) for whom anal was normal.
So you need to contextualise your wife's age, place of growing up and so on and separate that from how hot she is now.
She could very easily have been described as 'frigid' in youth, only to discover the joy of sex later on.