[QUOTE=Gnome72141;2668285]Because in her words, she "always wants to know", but then she doesn't always want to know when I do tell her. She keeps me confused, and ya know what, I like it!
I think she has some behaviours/urges that she feels guilty about and defers to you to keep them under control. I'll leave the yelling and procrastinating alone,. The exhibitionism however.. I think think she really wants to exhibit, but like many women has been conditioned by society to think it is wrong. If she exhibits and you don't stop her them it's your fault, not hers ( in her mind) so she is not bad.
Not knowing your wife, it's hard to advise, but I'd find ways the let her indulge little at a time and see where it goes