Keeping Things Interesting
 

For the somewhat older crowd, always enjoy hearing how others who have been with the same partner for a while (say 10 years or more) continue to keep your sex life creative and passionate.

Going on 23 years with my wife and for some extra fun we will take trips (4 kids will do that to you), take pics and video, use toys and sexy outfits, go on dates commando-style, use texts, etc.

What are others doing??

Swinging. ;)

Pretty much the same as you folks!

My lady is into light exhibitionism, which we indulge on trips away. Commando is one way, like you said. Others include her stripping off at night while 'forgetting' to close the hotel room's curtains and getting topless/naked in a public place when there's no-one around.

A decade-and-a-half together and we still have a lot of fun! ;)

Yes, we do this also!

Sexual variety
 

I don’t think anything keeps things exciting more than exhibitionism. Swinging definitely is a turn on. But more subtle open play works even more. Having my SO expose herself in certain situations is killer. Even more is having her pull my cock out in a semi-public situation to show it to other women and offer them to feel it.

For us
 

been together for 15 years so we need to change things up.

Going to a nude beach and having other men come chat her up and do some soft touching is a start. setting up a webcam and having others watch while she performs is all good.

want to explore further by adding another guy or couple but she's not sure if she's ready for that so I'm sure the fire that was burning very strong at the beginning is not starting to smolder.

taking pics and sharing them on here helps. always love to hear how others see wife and how they find her attractive and desirable.

Good stuff so far...thanks for the replies.

Would love to hear more.

18 years together. Light exhibition, sexy situations, clothing optional hot springs and swimming pools. I've taken a lot of photos and videos.

Not actually swinging, but we have gone to our local swing club a few times to see and be seen.

We're also continually exploring a bit as we get more and more comfortable and excited by ideas.

Mrs. HedoRocks
 

Pretty similar to the above. We've been together 20 years. Our sex life is as good as ever, because we are constantly spicing things up. She was very uptight when we first met, but she has loosened up considerably. The past couple of years she has become quite the exhibitionist. She loves being seen topless or naked, especially in places you normally wouldn't be. We'll go clothes shopping for her, and she'll come out of the dressing room in something provocative or see thru with others around, to "show me" how it looks. Sometimes taking the top of and handing it to me to find her a different size before heading back into the dressing room.

This weekend we were at the beach and she did this in just about every store on the strip. She also sun bathed topless with her bottoms pulled way down, and this is on a beach where NO ONE else is ever topless. She gets a thrill watching guys crane their necks trying to get a peak, and it turns me on to no end as well.

She has also gotten into posting on NSFW Reddits lately, and loves the feedback there as well. Not bad for 47 :D

Have tried to get my wife to do similar things for the most part with limited success, even when well out of town. One successful effort was during an end of summer sidewalk sale in the beach town we were visiting. She had a spaghetti strap cami top and shorts on and got her to try on a short clingy dress with straps I did not think she would look at twice. Whenever I am shopping with her always encourage her to try on revealing things I do not think she would ever buy / wear to push the envelope as much as possible. She came out of the changing room and looked fabulous, the 3 saleswomen all complimented her on how she looked [of course they want to make a sale but that seems to really help...] The dress straps were stretchy and fairly long so the top of the dress hung fairly low showing the tops of her breasts, her nipples were rock hard making obvious points in the soft material, and the best part was on the sides her side boob was well exposed. If she leaned forward her breasts would be completely visible from both the front down and the side in. She wore the dress out of the small shop to look at the sale racks out on the sidewalk for 5-10 minutes while many people walked by, most of the guys taking in the view, but she did not find anything else. Much to my surprise she wanted to buy the dress, which I heartily encouraged. Have not seen her wear the dress yet, but she did take it on a company boondoggle 3 day trip to a resort city. Do not know if she wore it or not. Hope to get her to wear the dress this summer, but know she will want to have a good tan first, and so far that has proven difficult to find the time to attain... Fingers crossed! :D