Wife's reaction to finding out you showed her pics
 

I think a lot of wives would be upset at first, the turned on. This depends a lot on who saw the pics and how much they show. I used to have some very explicit pics of my wife with her dom, once in foreplay I told her I showed them to a friend of mine, at first she acted upset, then as I fondled her pussy she wanted to know what he said and which pics were his favorite. When I told her the truth, that I had not actually showed them to him, she was disappointed.

My wife becomes... aroused.

Mine too.
 

My wife knows I like to show her photos to certain friends. She doesn't mention it often, but I will, when the time is right, and it turns her on. :D

Casually interested
 

When I told my wife I had posted some of her pics online, she seemed only casually interested. But when I tell her guys at the nude beach or resort checked her out, she gets excited.

my shop
 

As neighbors and friends come over and visit me in my wood shop, they have an opportunity to see a pic of my wife above a workbench. Should they show interest in the pic, I often will hand them an album I keep right below it.
My wife knows and trusts that I will only share with discreet individuals. Many people have seen her charms in that album!!!
Below are some pics as a guide to the pic above my bench and the final is the album on my bench.

She put it in a nicer frame
 

Once when she dropped by my office she noticed the tasteful full frontal nude photo of her, there on my desk. Said I could keep it there, but that she'd find a better frame, which she did.

Very similar reaction. At first when I told her I shared her pics with my friend who she’s also known for 30 years, she was upset/irritated. “Why would you show him that?” I told her he’s been asking to see her naked for 30 years.

She then cautiously asked what he thought. I told her he thought she was sexy, as I always tell her. I told her he has admitted masturbating to the pictures. That sort of evened out the embarrassment factor. She knows he’s seen her naked, but she I knows he’s jerked off. It did excite her, and we’ve had some hot sex because of it.

Cant wait until after COVID when we can all socially see each other. It will be interesting to see the interaction

My wife, depending on her mood, can be anywhere from irritated that I share her pics here, to turned on that I do. She gets turned on by it if she's in the mood..... especially if she's had a little mental lubricant, (alcohol), ahead of time. I'll show her the pics I post of her and the comments that she gets. One guy even offered to buy her a bikini, and another posted an album of pics of his cock for her to see that I showed her, both of which turned her on even more. I do love it when the mood is right!!!! Merry Christmas from Pink and myself.

Depends on consent
 

Since this is in "non-fiction".

Perhaps a minority of wives/gfs might eventually become turned on and thank you for the sexy surprise, even if this was done without their prior consent. Perhaps a higher proportion than the porn fantasy where a wife/gf walks in on a man screwing someone else and then joins in for a full-on threesome ... If you have such a wife/gf then you are very lucky!

In most cases I suspect that she will feel that you have betrayed her trust and feel violated - due to lack of consent - "yes means yes and no means no". Split-up, divorce? Police called? as this is a criminal offence in many places.

I sometimes wonder about the requests in General Discussion, Site Feedback and Support https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/forumdisplay.php?f=12
for "Delete accounts and all posts"

When I have lost interest in a forum I have registered on, I just stop visiting - I don't ask for my posts to be deleted as these people do.

How many deletions are because the wife/gf finds out and objects to her pictures being uploaded without her consent? or is it a probation officer's order or defence lawyer's suggestion? or religious conversion? Or something else? The Leavers aren't here to ask.

I do agree with you in the most part but there are all types of women. And even for the same woman there are rules that only apply sometimes and other times it's anything goes. I've talking about this before but a woman's boundary isn't a straight line, it's an undulating line. Sometimes we men just don't know what women are thinking or why they think it. I'll give you an example.

I once flashed my wife to a passerby by lifting up her rash guard and flashing her pussy to the bloke. I thought I'd got the green light to do it, but signals were crossed and I wasn't given the green light. She was very surprised and got quite upset with me and I got a bollocking. BUT... back at our hotel when we were still talking about it, and she was still annoyed at me and being quite stern, something happened. Bgasically out of nowhere she decided that she would get nude and display herself in a cross figure against the balcony sliding door for all the cars going past. I didn't ask her to do that or even broach the topic! Haha. It was the last thing on my mind to be honest. I couldn't believe she wanted to do it. And she let me take photos! Then she asked if I wanted her to go on to the balcony and she would pose naked at the edge of the balcony facing me and the on coming traffic. Go figure...

I think I'm not bad at reading what is going on with my wife, but in this case I still have no idea. Was she really angry at me? Or was it just initial shock and some disappointment then later exciting, but she didn't want to let me know that? Why would she do that if she wasn't feeling something sexy? Of course I've never asked her because she'll just say she did it because she knew I wanted her to do it.

It really makes absolutely no sense that she'd do that if she was truly upset with me. In saying that she didn't smile when she was doing it she was quite serious. It was as if she was proving a point to me.

So yeah. I agree with you, but there are exceptions I think. And my wife is one of those women where No can mean Yes, but I have to know when it means Yes. It's something she really gets off on.